Topic: do you think this is unprofessional??
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Thu 06/26/08 03:49 PM

i havent read this whole thing because i dont need to...but from what ive read...wtf is wrong with this doctor??? ive never heard of one as sick as he isnoway noway sick grumble


he is sick frown

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Thu 06/26/08 03:50 PM






Can I ask why you didn't stop him? I'd have been off that table in a split second!



It's wrong for many reasons. How do you know that he washed his hands after touching his last patient? What did they have that he maybe gave to you? Like someone else said, here in the US, someone else has to be in the room for those exams. And if you told him NO - you didn't wanna be examined and he did it anyway? You need to report him, PERIOD and do NOT go back.

Just my opinion of course.


thanks for your opinion.

i think the thing that bothers me most is he did a vaginla exam with no gloves and he never washed his hands. tears



well i said no to the examination, and he said he had to, this doctor as been virbually abusive to me before and im pretty scared of him, so i just did as he said.


Time to start tape recording your visits! If you make a complaint now, he is going to say it's your word against his,it will be very messy to prove this.You should have gone straight to the reception desk and report it !!


i didnt think to, i didnt even know if he was wrong in doing what he did, thats why i started this thread.


The moment you felt uncomfortable that was the moment it was wrong, your instincts told you this...Heed it.


i know, plus he had to give me my injection in my bum to, he could have done that at the same time, but no he had to do it twice frown


Goodness !! What have we here? A regular voyeur no doubt!!! Sure he hasn't got camera's in the place ?

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Thu 06/26/08 03:52 PM

And another thing Deb...how could you not have known that what he did was wrong?huh dont you work in the medical profession or use to?flowerforyou


yes, but i was a dental nurse, i didnt deal with examining private areas.

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Thu 06/26/08 03:52 PM







Can I ask why you didn't stop him? I'd have been off that table in a split second!



It's wrong for many reasons. How do you know that he washed his hands after touching his last patient? What did they have that he maybe gave to you? Like someone else said, here in the US, someone else has to be in the room for those exams. And if you told him NO - you didn't wanna be examined and he did it anyway? You need to report him, PERIOD and do NOT go back.

Just my opinion of course.


thanks for your opinion.

i think the thing that bothers me most is he did a vaginla exam with no gloves and he never washed his hands. tears



well i said no to the examination, and he said he had to, this doctor as been virbually abusive to me before and im pretty scared of him, so i just did as he said.


Time to start tape recording your visits! If you make a complaint now, he is going to say it's your word against his,it will be very messy to prove this.You should have gone straight to the reception desk and report it !!


i didnt think to, i didnt even know if he was wrong in doing what he did, thats why i started this thread.


The moment you felt uncomfortable that was the moment it was wrong, your instincts told you this...Heed it.


i know, plus he had to give me my injection in my bum to, he could have done that at the same time, but no he had to do it twice frown


Goodness !! What have we here? A regular voyeur no doubt!!! Sure he hasn't got camera's in the place ?


if there were id sue if ass of now

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Thu 06/26/08 03:53 PM


And another thing Deb...how could you not have known that what he did was wrong?huh dont you work in the medical profession or use to?flowerforyou


yes, but i was a dental nurse, i didnt deal with examining private areas.
I see...but Im sure u knew that all doctors have to use "universal precautions" no matter what part they are "examining"flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Thu 06/26/08 03:54 PM
Edited by debbie1980 on Thu 06/26/08 03:54 PM



And another thing Deb...how could you not have known that what he did was wrong?huh dont you work in the medical profession or use to?flowerforyou


yes, but i was a dental nurse, i didnt deal with examining private areas.
I see...but Im sure u knew that all doctors have to use "universal precautions" no matter what part they are "examining"flowerforyou flowerforyou


i know, but im very scared of my doctor, and if i had questioned him there would have been hell, so i just put up and shut up.

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Thu 06/26/08 03:56 PM
Edited by sexi_PHAT on Thu 06/26/08 03:56 PM




And another thing Deb...how could you not have known that what he did was wrong?huh dont you work in the medical profession or use to?flowerforyou


yes, but i was a dental nurse, i didnt deal with examining private areas.
I see...but Im sure u knew that all doctors have to use "universal precautions" no matter what part they are "examining"flowerforyou flowerforyou


i know, but im very scared of my doctor, and if i had questioned him there would have been hell, so i just put up and shut up.
thats too bad because no one should ever be scared of thier doctorflowerforyou i hope u find a better one dearflowerforyou

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Thu 06/26/08 03:57 PM





And another thing Deb...how could you not have known that what he did was wrong?huh dont you work in the medical profession or use to?flowerforyou


yes, but i was a dental nurse, i didnt deal with examining private areas.
I see...but Im sure u knew that all doctors have to use "universal precautions" no matter what part they are "examining"flowerforyou flowerforyou


i know, but im very scared of my doctor, and if i had questioned him there would have been hell, so i just put up and shut up.
thats too bad because no one should ever be scared of thier doctorflowerforyou i hope u find a better one dearflowerforyou


thanks, i came out crying yesterday.

after the first time someone told me he could be peverted and he didnt wash his hands after the vaginal exam because some peverted men like to smell there fingers. that made me feel ill sick sick

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Thu 06/26/08 03:59 PM






And another thing Deb...how could you not have known that what he did was wrong?huh dont you work in the medical profession or use to?flowerforyou


yes, but i was a dental nurse, i didnt deal with examining private areas.
I see...but Im sure u knew that all doctors have to use "universal precautions" no matter what part they are "examining"flowerforyou flowerforyou


i know, but im very scared of my doctor, and if i had questioned him there would have been hell, so i just put up and shut up.
thats too bad because no one should ever be scared of thier doctorflowerforyou i hope u find a better one dearflowerforyou


thanks, i came out crying yesterday.

after the first time someone told me he could be peverted and he didnt wash his hands after the vaginal exam because some peverted men like to smell there fingers. that made me feel ill sick sick
omg....nastynoway noway noway sick yup time to find a better one and REALLY SOON!happy

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Thu 06/26/08 04:00 PM







And another thing Deb...how could you not have known that what he did was wrong?huh dont you work in the medical profession or use to?flowerforyou


yes, but i was a dental nurse, i didnt deal with examining private areas.
I see...but Im sure u knew that all doctors have to use "universal precautions" no matter what part they are "examining"flowerforyou flowerforyou


i know, but im very scared of my doctor, and if i had questioned him there would have been hell, so i just put up and shut up.
thats too bad because no one should ever be scared of thier doctorflowerforyou i hope u find a better one dearflowerforyou


thanks, i came out crying yesterday.

after the first time someone told me he could be peverted and he didnt wash his hands after the vaginal exam because some peverted men like to smell there fingers. that made me feel ill sick sick
omg....nastynoway noway noway sick yup time to find a better one and REALLY SOON!happy


i will, im sick of the verbal abusive, and the obvious.

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Thu 06/26/08 04:01 PM
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Thu 06/26/08 04:02 PM

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Thu 06/26/08 04:09 PM
Edited by Kleisto on Thu 06/26/08 04:10 PM

i asked him if i could see another doctor in the same practice, but he refuses, he says im the only doctor you can see here, no one else in this practice.


Since when do you need "his" permission to see someone else? Who cares if he says you can't, screw this guy, he's not a God for goodness sake.

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Thu 06/26/08 04:12 PM


i asked him if i could see another doctor in the same practice, but he refuses, he says im the only doctor you can see here, no one else in this practice.


Since when do you need "his" permission to see someone else? Who cares if he says you can't, screw this guy, he's not a God for goodness sake.


he said i cant else he would throw me out the practice. i guess hes scared ill tell another doctor what hes done.

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Thu 06/26/08 04:13 PM



i asked him if i could see another doctor in the same practice, but he refuses, he says im the only doctor you can see here, no one else in this practice.


Since when do you need "his" permission to see someone else? Who cares if he says you can't, screw this guy, he's not a God for goodness sake.


he said i cant else he would throw me out the practice. i guess hes scared ill tell another doctor what hes done.


Yep, scare tactics, another red flag. Forget him, just do it Deb!

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Thu 06/26/08 04:14 PM




i asked him if i could see another doctor in the same practice, but he refuses, he says im the only doctor you can see here, no one else in this practice.


Since when do you need "his" permission to see someone else? Who cares if he says you can't, screw this guy, he's not a God for goodness sake.


he said i cant else he would throw me out the practice. i guess hes scared ill tell another doctor what hes done.


Yep, scare tactics, another red flag. Forget him, just do it Deb!


i need to think on this one.

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Thu 06/26/08 04:15 PM


Sounds like you need to find another Dr. you can trust and not be afraid of. You shouldn't have to be afraid of your Dr. You can have all your medical records sent to the new Dr.


i think thats what im going to do. i came out crying yeaterday because he was nasty to me. infact whenever i see him i normally come out crying because hes been vibually rude and agressive to me, and he does this with other patients to, not just me. i am very scared of him.



WTF? Verbally abusive? Yeah, sounds like this guy needs a lawsuit against him.

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Thu 06/26/08 04:16 PM



Sounds like you need to find another Dr. you can trust and not be afraid of. You shouldn't have to be afraid of your Dr. You can have all your medical records sent to the new Dr.


i think thats what im going to do. i came out crying yeaterday because he was nasty to me. infact whenever i see him i normally come out crying because hes been vibually rude and agressive to me, and he does this with other patients to, not just me. i am very scared of him.



WTF? Verbally abusive? Yeah, sounds like this guy needs a lawsuit against him.


your right.

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Thu 06/26/08 04:16 PM





i asked him if i could see another doctor in the same practice, but he refuses, he says im the only doctor you can see here, no one else in this practice.


Since when do you need "his" permission to see someone else? Who cares if he says you can't, screw this guy, he's not a God for goodness sake.


he said i cant else he would throw me out the practice. i guess hes scared ill tell another doctor what hes done.


Yep, scare tactics, another red flag. Forget him, just do it Deb!


i need to think on this one.


What's there to think about? You know what's going on, there's no mystery here.

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Thu 06/26/08 04:17 PM






i asked him if i could see another doctor in the same practice, but he refuses, he says im the only doctor you can see here, no one else in this practice.


Since when do you need "his" permission to see someone else? Who cares if he says you can't, screw this guy, he's not a God for goodness sake.


he said i cant else he would throw me out the practice. i guess hes scared ill tell another doctor what hes done.


Yep, scare tactics, another red flag. Forget him, just do it Deb!


i need to think on this one.


What's there to think about? You know what's going on, there's no mystery here.


i dont mean that, i mean can i cope with it, with all the crap im going through right now.