Topic: do you think this is unprofessional??
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Thu 06/26/08 03:38 PM

HELL NO - I don't know the specifics of course, but do not go back to him. Physically and verbally abuse? You don't deserve that.



Can I ask why you didn't stop him? I'd have been off that table in a split second!



It's wrong for many reasons. How do you know that he washed his hands after touching his last patient? What did they have that he maybe gave to you? Like someone else said, here in the US, someone else has to be in the room for those exams. And if you told him NO - you didn't wanna be examined and he did it anyway? You need to report him, PERIOD and do NOT go back.

Just my opinion of course.


thanks for your opinion.

i think the thing that bothers me most is he did a vaginla exam with no gloves and he never washed his hands. tears



well i said no to the examination, and he said he had to, this doctor as been virbually abusive to me before and im pretty scared of him, so i just did as he said.



hes been very virbually agreesive to me before, and he has to other patients to, he has a reputation and not a good one.

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Thu 06/26/08 03:38 PM



Can I ask why you didn't stop him? I'd have been off that table in a split second!



It's wrong for many reasons. How do you know that he washed his hands after touching his last patient? What did they have that he maybe gave to you? Like someone else said, here in the US, someone else has to be in the room for those exams. And if you told him NO - you didn't wanna be examined and he did it anyway? You need to report him, PERIOD and do NOT go back.

Just my opinion of course.


thanks for your opinion.

i think the thing that bothers me most is he did a vaginla exam with no gloves and he never washed his hands. tears



well i said no to the examination, and he said he had to, this doctor as been virbually abusive to me before and im pretty scared of him, so i just did as he said.


Some doctor, can you say......lawsuit and termination?


i dont know

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Thu 06/26/08 03:39 PM


Well when a doctor examines your bum, sometimes you just drop pants and bend over the table. But THEY DO WEAR GLOVES. Kinda scary though, I mean imagine if that wasn't his finger but something else grumble Anyways, what do you plan on doing from this violation? What is your action?


i didnt bend over anything, he told me to bend over standing up. i have no idea what to do. frown



Ok well if you sue, I want 10% laugh Just kidding. This isn't a joke. Sorry.

Well, who would know better than a lawyer right? I dunno... Did you think the doctor was cute? Because maybe it is just me being a guy..... But if a female doctor was cute and touched me without gloves, I think would be like love

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Thu 06/26/08 03:39 PM
Sounds like you need to find another Dr. you can trust and not be afraid of. You shouldn't have to be afraid of your Dr. You can have all your medical records sent to the new Dr.

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Thu 06/26/08 03:39 PM
I sure can, this guy deserves to be taken for everything he has from you and others who've been through similiar. You could actually blow the lid off this guy really when you think about it if you spoke up.

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Thu 06/26/08 03:40 PM

a doctor does a examination of your bum, doesnt put you on the examaming bed, and just tells you to stand up, bend over, lower your pants and then he opens your butt cheeks wearing no gloves??
As the doctor begins a prostate exam with one arm on your shoulder and then the other arm comes onto the other shoulder while he's still doing the exam... noway noway noway

"Feels good."

"Excuse me?"

noway noway noway

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Thu 06/26/08 03:41 PM




Can I ask why you didn't stop him? I'd have been off that table in a split second!



It's wrong for many reasons. How do you know that he washed his hands after touching his last patient? What did they have that he maybe gave to you? Like someone else said, here in the US, someone else has to be in the room for those exams. And if you told him NO - you didn't wanna be examined and he did it anyway? You need to report him, PERIOD and do NOT go back.

Just my opinion of course.


thanks for your opinion.

i think the thing that bothers me most is he did a vaginla exam with no gloves and he never washed his hands. tears



well i said no to the examination, and he said he had to, this doctor as been virbually abusive to me before and im pretty scared of him, so i just did as he said.


Time to start tape recording your visits! If you make a complaint now, he is going to say it's your word against his,it will be very messy to prove this.You should have gone straight to the reception desk and report it !!


i didnt think to, i didnt even know if he was wrong in doing what he did, thats why i started this thread.


The moment you felt uncomfortable that was the moment it was wrong, your instincts told you this...Heed it.

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Thu 06/26/08 03:41 PM



Well when a doctor examines your bum, sometimes you just drop pants and bend over the table. But THEY DO WEAR GLOVES. Kinda scary though, I mean imagine if that wasn't his finger but something else grumble Anyways, what do you plan on doing from this violation? What is your action?


i didnt bend over anything, he told me to bend over standing up. i have no idea what to do. frown



Ok well if you sue, I want 10% laugh Just kidding. This isn't a joke. Sorry.

Well, who would know better than a lawyer right? I dunno... Did you think the doctor was cute? Because maybe it is just me being a guy..... But if a female doctor was cute and touched me without gloves, I think would be like love


no i dont think hes cute, and i dont like what hes done to me

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Thu 06/26/08 03:42 PM


Can I ask why you didn't stop him? I'd have been off that table in a split second!



It's wrong for many reasons. How do you know that he washed his hands after touching his last patient? What did they have that he maybe gave to you? Like someone else said, here in the US, someone else has to be in the room for those exams. And if you told him NO - you didn't wanna be examined and he did it anyway? You need to report him, PERIOD and do NOT go back.

Just my opinion of course.


thanks for your opinion.

i think the thing that bothers me most is he did a vaginla exam with no gloves and he never washed his hands. tears



well i said no to the examination, and he said he had to, this doctor as been virbually abusive to me before and im pretty scared of him, so i just did as he said.


If he did a vaginal exam before that way, there's no way I would have gone back to him. Plus I would have stopped him when I noticed he didn't put gloves on and told him to or I'd be off the table in a heartbeat. If he'd been verbally abusive before and I felt uncomfortable with his practices before, there's no way in hell, I'd go back. I would have transferred doctors months ago if I were having doubts if what he was doing as a doctor was inappropriate.

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Thu 06/26/08 03:42 PM

Sounds like you need to find another Dr. you can trust and not be afraid of. You shouldn't have to be afraid of your Dr. You can have all your medical records sent to the new Dr.


i think thats what im going to do. i came out crying yeaterday because he was nasty to me. infact whenever i see him i normally come out crying because hes been vibually rude and agressive to me, and he does this with other patients to, not just me. i am very scared of him.

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Thu 06/26/08 03:43 PM

I sure can, this guy deserves to be taken for everything he has from you and others who've been through similiar. You could actually blow the lid off this guy really when you think about it if you spoke up.


yes i know

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Thu 06/26/08 03:45 PM



Can I ask why you didn't stop him? I'd have been off that table in a split second!



It's wrong for many reasons. How do you know that he washed his hands after touching his last patient? What did they have that he maybe gave to you? Like someone else said, here in the US, someone else has to be in the room for those exams. And if you told him NO - you didn't wanna be examined and he did it anyway? You need to report him, PERIOD and do NOT go back.

Just my opinion of course.


i am going to chnage doctors, but as im under so many different consultants its to hard to do right now, plus its very hard finding a new doctor. ive inquired about this after the first time.
thanks for your opinion.

i think the thing that bothers me most is he did a vaginla exam with no gloves and he never washed his hands. tears



well i said no to the examination, and he said he had to, this doctor as been virbually abusive to me before and im pretty scared of him, so i just did as he said.


If he did a vaginal exam before that way, there's no way I would have gone back to him. Plus I would have stopped him when I noticed he didn't put gloves on and told him to or I'd be off the table in a heartbeat. If he'd been verbally abusive before and I felt uncomfortable with his practices before, there's no way in hell, I'd go back. I would have transferred doctors months ago if I were having doubts if what he was doing as a doctor was inappropriate.

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Thu 06/26/08 03:45 PM




Can I ask why you didn't stop him? I'd have been off that table in a split second!



It's wrong for many reasons. How do you know that he washed his hands after touching his last patient? What did they have that he maybe gave to you? Like someone else said, here in the US, someone else has to be in the room for those exams. And if you told him NO - you didn't wanna be examined and he did it anyway? You need to report him, PERIOD and do NOT go back.

Just my opinion of course.


i am going to chnage doctors, but as im under so many different consultants its to hard to do right now, plus its very hard finding a new doctor. ive inquired about this after the first time.
thanks for your opinion.

i think the thing that bothers me most is he did a vaginla exam with no gloves and he never washed his hands. tears



well i said no to the examination, and he said he had to, this doctor as been virbually abusive to me before and im pretty scared of him, so i just did as he said.


If he did a vaginal exam before that way, there's no way I would have gone back to him. Plus I would have stopped him when I noticed he didn't put gloves on and told him to or I'd be off the table in a heartbeat. If he'd been verbally abusive before and I felt uncomfortable with his practices before, there's no way in hell, I'd go back. I would have transferred doctors months ago if I were having doubts if what he was doing as a doctor was inappropriate.


i am going to chnage doctors, but as im under so many different consultants its to hard to do right now, plus its very hard finding a new doctor. ive inquired about this after the first time.


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Thu 06/26/08 03:45 PM

a doctor does a examination of your bum, doesnt put you on the examaming bed, and just tells you to stand up, bend over, lower your pants and then he opens your butt cheeks wearing no gloves??
sick sick sick sick

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Thu 06/26/08 03:47 PM





Can I ask why you didn't stop him? I'd have been off that table in a split second!



It's wrong for many reasons. How do you know that he washed his hands after touching his last patient? What did they have that he maybe gave to you? Like someone else said, here in the US, someone else has to be in the room for those exams. And if you told him NO - you didn't wanna be examined and he did it anyway? You need to report him, PERIOD and do NOT go back.

Just my opinion of course.


thanks for your opinion.

i think the thing that bothers me most is he did a vaginla exam with no gloves and he never washed his hands. tears



well i said no to the examination, and he said he had to, this doctor as been virbually abusive to me before and im pretty scared of him, so i just did as he said.


Time to start tape recording your visits! If you make a complaint now, he is going to say it's your word against his,it will be very messy to prove this.You should have gone straight to the reception desk and report it !!


i didnt think to, i didnt even know if he was wrong in doing what he did, thats why i started this thread.


The moment you felt uncomfortable that was the moment it was wrong, your instincts told you this...Heed it.


i know, plus he had to give me my injection in my bum to, he could have done that at the same time, but no he had to do it twice frown

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Thu 06/26/08 03:47 PM


Sounds like you need to find another Dr. you can trust and not be afraid of. You shouldn't have to be afraid of your Dr. You can have all your medical records sent to the new Dr.


i think thats what im going to do. i came out crying yeaterday because he was nasty to me. infact whenever i see him i normally come out crying because hes been vibually rude and agressive to me, and he does this with other patients to, not just me. i am very scared of him.


Are you sure he's not one of those "fast track" doctors? He certainly needs a lot more training if not to brush up on his "bedside manner" certainly to re-train to become a "proper" doctor............This bloke is a MAJOR joke and belittling a very professional profession!!

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Thu 06/26/08 03:47 PM
i havent read this whole thing because i dont need to...but from what ive read...wtf is wrong with this doctor??? ive never heard of one as sick as he isnoway noway sick grumble

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Thu 06/26/08 03:48 PM
i asked him if i could see another doctor in the same practice, but he refuses, he says im the only doctor you can see here, no one else in this practice.

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Thu 06/26/08 03:49 PM



Sounds like you need to find another Dr. you can trust and not be afraid of. You shouldn't have to be afraid of your Dr. You can have all your medical records sent to the new Dr.


i think thats what im going to do. i came out crying yeaterday because he was nasty to me. infact whenever i see him i normally come out crying because hes been vibually rude and agressive to me, and he does this with other patients to, not just me. i am very scared of him.


Are you sure he's not one of those "fast track" doctors? He certainly needs a lot more training if not to brush up on his "bedside manner" certainly to re-train to become a "proper" doctor............This bloke is a MAJOR joke and belittling a very professional profession!!


no hes not a fast track doctor, quite the opposite

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Thu 06/26/08 03:49 PM
And another thing Deb...how could you not have known that what he did was wrong?huh dont you work in the medical profession or use to?flowerforyou