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| Topic: Do you feel your Ex just wasted your time? | |
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Wasted time?
I waste time all the time. When you think about it wasted time is just time that was spent without anything productive coming from it. So yes, my exes and I have wasted losts of time. Today I wasted time even without a man being around, so I really can't blame any wasted time on an ex, but on myself. |
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Speaking of Ex's...do you feel that they just wasted some of your precious time here on earth, or do you just chalk it up to learning experience? I sometimes feel my Ex-boyfriend just wasted my time. What it taught me, I didn't really want to learn  Not so much, I have a beautiful little girl from my prior marriage...I'd say they were all (all relationships) good learning experience |
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Boy thats a loaded question for me.. Give me about 10 more yrs and I may have an answer
 
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TY Lily
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Lov2fish that's some deer!
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to everything there is balence, i have been the one who got manipulated, but i cant dwell on it, or it will affect other relationships, and i have been the one manipulating, and did not learn until i experianced the loss and saw the damage i caused. both learning experiances for me which helped me become who i am today. if you end up dwelling in a new relationship you are sabotaging your chances of it working out. i feel cheated right now, but in choking on my own words maybe its my ex's turn to experiance the loss of me to help make her into the person sho she needs to be. either that or maybe she's right and everything is my fault??lol..
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yes, she left and took my make-up !
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i learned lots of things from my ex. I am also amazed at how cruel a man can be when they share a child with someone.
i have learned to be cautious. i have learned to trust nobody. i hope that i have learned from my mistakes. and my children teach me forgiveness, innocence, and acceptance, and love...how to truly love |
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People waste your time when they lie to you. You waste your own time when you close your eyes to their lies and pretend everything is okay. In essence, we waste our own time when we lie to ourselves.
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I waste more time in the bathroom.
My marriage was a great experience. It even ended on good terms. |
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What I am really getting at here...is don't you think you might carry over residual garbage from one relationship to another? How do you keep a new realtionship free from the after effects of a bad relationship? I don't think it's just a matter of having more baggage. I think we get stronger and know more about ourselves and what we're looking for in another person. There are things I didn't like about my ex but overlooked them.. now I know to look for those certain things in the next one. |
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