whats with all these people wasting my time with the no pic on the profile? it just screams hi i'm trying to hide something. its like hey thanks for the big hint to just bypass you!!!! why would you not post a current pic??? are you trying to disappoint?

to everything there is balence, i have been the one who got manipulated, but i cant dwell on it, or it will affect other relationships, and i have been the one manipulating, and did not learn until i experianced the loss and saw the damage i caused. both learning experiances for me which helped me become who i am today. if you end up dwelling in a new relationship you are sabotaging your chances of it working out. i feel cheated right now, but in choking on my own words maybe its my ex's turn to experiance the loss of me to help make her into the person sho she needs to be. either that or maybe she's right and everything is my fault??lol..