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lilangel2
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Mon 06/23/08 05:50 AM
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Speaking of Ex's...do you feel that they just wasted some of your precious time here on earth, or do you just chalk it up to learning experience?
I sometimes feel my Ex-boyfriend just wasted my time. What it taught me, I didn't really want to learn 
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Speaking of Ex's...do you feel that they just wasted some of your precious time here on earth, or do you just chalk it up to learning experience? I sometimes feel my Ex just wasted my time. What it taught me, I didn't really want to learn I have to say the same for me |
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I learned a little bit of something from my Ex's....learned what I DO NOT WANT in a relationship.....that's why they are Ex's
 
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Ohhhhh yaaaaaaaaaaa... I feel he wasted a good 8 years of my life, while he rebounded from his....
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what it taught me was distrust
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I don't think he was a waste of my time, well he WAS, but I knew what I was getting into when I did it. I've got to learn to make better choices.
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Well, maybe you didn't want to learn it, life's best lessons are often that way. But, they tend to make you smarter, stronger and better in the long run, painful as they may be.
So, no, I don't feel that any of my ex's were a waste of my time or emotional energy. I took the good and bad and they have helped shape who I've become.
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what it taught me was distrust I ditto that one.. I don't even trust myself anymore |
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Taught me how selfish an individual can be, how self centered, how manipulative, how shallow, how cruel.
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It was a learning experience, in every case. But perhaps I stayed too long after I learned what I needed to know.
As someone once said: "Life can only be understood by looking backward, but it must be lived by looking forward". That, and "hindsight is 20-20". |
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Well, maybe you didn't want to learn it, life's best lessons are often that way. But, they tend to make you smarter, stronger and better in the long run, painful as they may be. So, no, I don't feel that any of my ex's were a waste of my time or emotional energy. I took the good and bad and they have helped shape who I've become. I know life's lessons are for a reason...sometimes good to protect you...but, they can also affect future relationships, don't ya think? |
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no, i don't feel like he wasted my time.
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definitely
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its all part of the trip called life...upon us all a little rain must fall
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It was a learning experience, in every case. But perhaps I stayed too long after I learned what I needed to know. As someone once said: "Life can only be understood by looking backward, but it must be lived by looking forward". That, and "hindsight is 20-20".
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Speaking of Ex's...do you feel that they just wasted some of your precious time here on earth, or do you just chalk it up to learning experience? I sometimes feel my Ex-boyfriend just wasted my time. What it taught me, I didn't really want to learn I'm with you......
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What I am really getting at here...is don't you think you might carry over residual garbage from one relationship to another? How do you keep a new realtionship free from the after effects of a bad relationship?
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Taught me how selfish an individual can be, how self centered, how manipulative, how shallow, how cruel. Were we married to the same guy? 
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Taught me how selfish an individual can be, how self centered, how manipulative, how shallow, how cruel. Were we married to the same guy? I'm not talking about my late husband. I'm talking about a EX boyfriend. |
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What I am really getting at here...is don't you think you might carry over residual garbage from one relationship to another? How do you keep a new realtionship free from the after effects of a bad relationship? You don't. The baggage is almost always there, it helps create who you are. The trick is, though, is learning to carry the baggage and recognizing when your past might be clouding your present judgment. Only when you can recognize it, can you do whatever you need to do to change things. |
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