Topic: I have a question
itsmetina's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:15 PM
well do whatever you feel good aboutflowerforyou

Troyd879's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:16 PM
Edited by Troyd879 on Mon 06/16/08 10:17 PM
Think about it, he's playing the angle for sure.. He knows his only hope is to play it cool....

I'm not saying don't do it, I'm just saying watch out for the chance that it may just be a dog and pony show up front....

RKISIT's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:19 PM
hell no he is going through a mid age crisis,beware

Voluptuous's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:19 PM
I wouldn't if I were you.noway
Can you seriously see yourself with this man?
Is he someone you would want to be intimate with in the future?
Don't go by what he says (everyone has thier own agenda)
You be responsible for your own actions.
If something is telling you not to...then I would trust your gut.

Good luckflowerforyou

forever_fifites's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:20 PM
general guide: his age divided by 2 plus 7 equals minimum age he should date.

45/2 = 22 1/2 + 7 = 29 1/2 and you are only 21.

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:22 PM

Yes because all white men dream of asian girls. Are you sure you are 45?
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MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:22 PM

well do whatever you feel good aboutflowerforyou
flowerforyou yepflowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:24 PM

Oh yeah, this should go for ALL women:

If you do NOT feel safe going out with someone,
THEN DO NOT GO OUT WITH THEM!!!!!


Forget the age, if you feel something telling you not to trust them, then RUN!!!!!
flowerforyou trueflowerforyou

iRon's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:25 PM
just make sure he brings his wife that way there will be more people there....bad joke.



My point, be careful I think age is only an issue if you have daddy issues.........I am being bad I'm sorry


no mater how big of a jerk I am being the truth is you will never know unless you try and to not try and find out would be a shame.

Good luck

YourLove1's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:25 PM

Yes because all white men dream of asian girls. Are you sure you are 45?
NO not all white men dream of asian girls , youre reading to many books laugh laugh laugh laugh

Citizen_Joe's photo
Tue 06/17/08 02:38 AM

I am just looking to see what people think


I met this guy online and he is really sweet. He is romantic and we have good chemistry. He says that I turn him on but says he respects me so hes not trying to get into my pants. The only problem is that hes 45 and I'm almost 21. I am worried that the age gap would be a problem.



Should I go out with him?


On a positive note, you're not almost 18. noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway

And to reitterate...

noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway

Citizen_Joe's photo
Tue 06/17/08 02:39 AM

general guide: his age divided by 2 plus 7 equals minimum age he should date.

45/2 = 22 1/2 + 7 = 29 1/2 and you are only 21.


Little math problem on the low end

18/2+7 = guest shot on www.familywatchdog.us

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Tue 06/17/08 06:21 AM
personally i dont think age is anything but you should beware of child predators.so be careful and get to know each other well before going into that.

TheShadow's photo
Tue 06/17/08 07:10 AM

I am just looking to see what people think


I met this guy online and he is really sweet. He is romantic and we have good chemistry. He says that I turn him on but says he respects me so hes not trying to get into my pants. The only problem is that hes 45 and I'm almost 21. I am worried that the age gap would be a problem.



Should I go out with him?


Sorry, if a man that age is after you, there is somthing wrong here. Girl, move on and find some a little closer to your age. Please don't take this personal, but at thye age 21, your still learning about things in life that at his age he should know alread. What would you really have in common?

dicimus01's photo
Tue 06/17/08 07:24 AM
Edited by dicimus01 on Tue 06/17/08 07:26 AM


general guide: his age divided by 2 plus 7 equals minimum age he should date.

45/2 = 22 1/2 + 7 = 29 1/2 and you are only 21.


Little math problem on the low end

18/2+7 = guest shot on www.familywatchdog.us

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


I tried that
10/2+7 = 5th grader with a big ego

joshyfox's photo
Tue 06/17/08 07:29 AM
Edited by joshyfox on Tue 06/17/08 07:30 AM
Be cautious, he may pose as respectful and not wanting to get in your pants, just so he can get in your pants. Age is not really a factor, but bear in mind this guy has been around long enough to possibly learn a few tricks to attract and trick young naive women.

buttons's photo
Tue 06/17/08 07:35 AM
sounds to me you are uncomfortable.. and have some doubts about it.... id say no then.... for me i dont beleive in that much of a age difference... just my opionion.. facts are you havent even met him yet and uncomfortable worrys me... and to point out that hes even talking about getting in your pants or not is a strange sign...flowerforyou

no photo
Tue 06/17/08 07:35 AM
i think you should ask your mommy, and see what her perspective is.....

buttons's photo
Tue 06/17/08 07:43 AM

Be cautious, he may pose as respectful and not wanting to get in your pants, just so he can get in your pants. Age is not really a factor, but bear in mind this guy has been around long enough to possibly learn a few tricks to attract and trick young naive women.
drinker drinker joshyfox i so agree.. although i just have one experience with this action as my brother is 43 and his gf like 26. a lot of what i see is a total control thing....

awolf1010's photo
Tue 06/17/08 07:45 AM

if he has kids and you end up having a relationship with him i think you should really think about it because being a step parent can be tough
hypothetically........he's 45 if he had a kid at 21......they'd be 24......so if it didnt work with the old guy......maybe he has a son your age.....drinker laugh