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Topic: I have a question
buttons's photo
Tue 06/17/08 07:46 AM


if he has kids and you end up having a relationship with him i think you should really think about it because being a step parent can be tough
hypothetically........he's 45 if he had a kid at 21......they'd be 24......so if it didnt work with the old guy......maybe he has a son your age.....drinker laugh
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awolf1010's photo
Tue 06/17/08 07:48 AM


I am just looking to see what people think


I met this guy online and he is really sweet. He is romantic and we have good chemistry. He says that I turn him on but says he respects me so hes not trying to get into my pants. The only problem is that hes 45 and I'm almost 21. I am worried that the age gap would be a problem.



Should I go out with him?


Sorry, if a man that age is after you, there is somthing wrong here. Girl, move on and find some a little closer to your age. Please don't take this personal, but at thye age 21, your still learning about things in life that at his age he should know alread. What would you really have in common?
I agree .....

buttons's photo
Tue 06/17/08 07:52 AM
ill tell you this.... if i ever went on a date <with a guy my own age>.... and he starts speaking right away and going on and on about getting into my pants that would creep me out... and even before he meets ya.. what normal guy would even speak of that? i could see it if a guy had a few dates already and said it .. but it seems to be an odd discussion if you ask me.... my point is..... it seems to be the start of maniuplation to me.... and or perhaps some guilty feeling that he is already having twords her cause of her age....

Fade2Black's photo
Tue 06/17/08 09:27 AM
Edited by Fade2Black on Tue 06/17/08 09:27 AM
being you are just coming into adulthood .. that's a LOT of difference and I totally believe in age differences.

hmmmmmmmmmm this one is a bit much .. just sayin ..

but again it's your call sweets. You happy let it roll. love


come share your story on my DEMI/ASHTON Thread if you like ..

http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/133959

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