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Topic: WIDOWS AND WIDOWERS
cuppy59's photo
Tue 06/10/08 07:54 PM
Hey Everyone...busy for me too...

Roll Call

Cathy is hereflowerforyou

knightless's photo
Tue 06/10/08 07:55 PM
Connieflowerforyou , Donflowerforyou

knightless's photo
Tue 06/10/08 07:56 PM
Cathy flowerforyou

Hope everyone is doing good tonight.

cuppy59's photo
Tue 06/10/08 07:58 PM

Cathy flowerforyou

Hope everyone is doing good tonight.


Chipper...I am...been beating up skeletons in a dungeon and dragons game in the game room here tonight...My character name is Calliope and Im a 3ft hobbit...this pic is my avitar...lol

knightless's photo
Tue 06/10/08 08:04 PM
That is pretty cool...hope you slaughtered the bad ones...:smile:

cuppy59's photo
Tue 06/10/08 10:43 PM
Hell...you cant stab skeletons...I wasnt prepared....so when I went after them with the fine staff and torch I fell on the floor on my rump...

Nite all....flowerforyou

cuppy59's photo
Tue 06/10/08 10:51 PM

I guess my biggest lesson learned through all that was no matter how hard times were for me there was ALWAYS someone else who had it harder. I can't imagine watching someone fade away or holding them when they go. Reading what some of you have gone through makes my problems seem tiny. So, here I sit. Eating a turkey sandwich and some salad. Anyone up for a nice game of mahjong?

Ron


Im sorry..I didnt introduce myself...Hi Ron..Im Cathy...I wondered about that same thing...Im thinking and let me know if im wrong guys....its very hard when you find out that you are going to lose someone..the shock hits you and you have to keep a smile for them...After the long illness...you see them suffering and you are suffering inside...you become exhausted with all your relentless efforts and you finally accept it...pain has different levels and we all move them at different times...The loss of a loved one suddenly...is like a brick wall fell on you and you feel lifeless and lost in a matter of minutes..that is if you really are capable of understanding what has happened..your affairs are not in order, because you never thought it could happen to you...Then by some small chance you have enough energy to start doing things on your own...Even the simplest tasks seem so difficult.....ok...Im rambling again

auburngirl's photo
Wed 06/11/08 12:56 AM
Well everyone it's Wednesday a.m Friday is the 9th anniversary of hubby's death. Hangin in...hoping you all have a good day! flowerforyou

cuppy59's photo
Wed 06/11/08 02:19 AM

Well everyone it's Wednesday a.m Friday is the 9th anniversary of hubby's death. Hangin in...hoping you all have a good day! flowerforyou


Hang in there, Connie...we are here for you..ill need you on the 23rd and the 28th....

Hugs her across the land...Cathy

auburngirl's photo
Wed 06/11/08 02:50 AM
CATHY!!!!!!flowerforyou

cuppy59's photo
Wed 06/11/08 02:53 AM

CATHY!!!!!!flowerforyou


I didnt even go to sleep yet and I feel great...go figure...drinker

auburngirl's photo
Wed 06/11/08 02:55 AM
laugh laugh I haven't been to sleep either. One minute I'm bawling the next I'm laughing....noway

cuppy59's photo
Wed 06/11/08 03:01 AM
whats up chicka...girl...gimme hug and Ill see if I can help you...sugar...

auburngirl's photo
Wed 06/11/08 03:01 AM
I see a Kiteman wandering around out there!! Good morning !! flowerforyou

auburngirl's photo
Wed 06/11/08 03:02 AM
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{CATHY}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}


There ya go!


I wanted to ask you what is coming up on the 23rd and the 28th?

cuppy59's photo
Wed 06/11/08 03:04 AM

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{CATHY}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}


There ya go!


I wanted to ask you what is coming up on the 23rd and the 28th?


the 23rd would have been my 30th wedding anniversary and the 28th is 2 year anniversary of his death...

cuppy59's photo
Wed 06/11/08 03:04 AM

I see a Kiteman wandering around out there!! Good morning !! flowerforyou


How do you see that...hes how many feet in the air...lol

auburngirl's photo
Wed 06/11/08 03:05 AM
:cry: :cry: flowerforyou

EXTRA big hugs! Ty for telling me.

cuppy59's photo
Wed 06/11/08 03:06 AM

:cry: :cry: flowerforyou

EXTRA big hugs! Ty for telling me.


No crying please...I need you to make me laugh till it hurts...just like ill do to you on Friday...deal...shakes hands and knocks her in the pool....I thought you said you were thirsty...lol

auburngirl's photo
Wed 06/11/08 03:08 AM
laugh laugh Girl you are too funny. Ok you got a deal!

For now though I'm headed to bed! lol I'll see you later {{{{Cathy}}}flowerforyou

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