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Topic: Would it be easier for you
Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Fri 05/09/08 07:15 PM
to make a list of things you want in a relationship or a list of things you want to avoid in a relationship?

ffdickie Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 930	Fri 05/09/08 07:15 PM
Maybe what I want. Thinking of the negative kinda sucks

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Fri 05/09/08 07:16 PM
Maybe what I want. Thinking of the negative kinda sucks I agree.

justme32 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 1515	Fri 05/09/08 07:16 PM
to make a list of things you want in a relationship or a list of things you want to avoid in a relationship? Both.

polypeasant Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 1319	Fri 05/09/08 07:17 PM
what you want.... you probably know from experience what you don't need so look for the positive

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Fri 05/09/08 07:17 PM
yes.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Fri 05/09/08 07:18 PM
At this point I don't know anymore

kendrab90 Joined Tue 04/15/08 Posts: 1917	Fri 05/09/08 07:18 PM
I usually just make a list of what i need at the grocery store

bgeorge Joined Fri 09/14/07 Posts: 7850	Fri 05/09/08 07:18 PM
hmmmmmm...i know what i don't want...and what i do want...but i've never been able to put the whole pkg together yet...

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Fri 05/09/08 07:20 PM
List of things I want to avoid

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Fri 05/09/08 07:21 PM
The list to avoid would be short compared to the novel of my desires. For sure!

forever_fifites Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 1092	Fri 05/09/08 07:22 PM
Hell, who's complaining, just have one and work it out later.

BetterDazes Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 710	Fri 05/09/08 07:23 PM
I usually just make a list of what i need at the grocery store giggle giggle Why bother with lists, if I don't know what the heck I want and don't want by now I might as well become a nun!

ffdickie Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 930	Fri 05/09/08 07:25 PM
If you list things that you want to avoid, sometimes thats viewed as high maintenance, (men or women) or cocky, arrogant..... start to think that everyone can be "good" until proved otherwise

TwilightsTwin Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 11054	Fri 05/09/08 07:26 PM
I dont like checklists

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76392	Fri 05/09/08 07:28 PM
Well we could all make list but what good would that do. Sometimes we must learn to take the good with the bad. No one is perfect not even us. Just base it on that the other person is kind and has a good heart and go from there.

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Fri 05/09/08 07:30 PM
If you list things that you want to avoid, sometimes thats viewed as high maintenance, (men or women) or cocky, arrogant..... start to think that everyone can be "good" until proved otherwise Nah, you have to prove to me that you're worthwhile in order for me to take a chance on ya. I won't sit around until you truck up. Too late then.

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Fri 05/09/08 07:31 PM
Well we could all make list but what good would that do. Sometimes we must learn to take the good with the bad. No one is perfect not even us. Just base it on that the other person is kind and has a good heart and go from there. i'm thinking if your making a list. Esn't that kinda setting yourself up for a fall? No one is ever going to fit what you would like in a relationship. This is why people say let who ever your with be who they are.

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Fri 05/09/08 07:32 PM
why set limitations? why not just enjoy meeting people, if you're lucky you'd click if not make a friend.

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Fri 05/09/08 07:33 PM
Okay people it's not a REAL list....lol people are so friggin literal!