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Topic: Advice for the Newbies
REDHOTCHELLIPEPPER's photo
Fri 11/16/07 02:18 PM
hey how do u im someone?flowerforyou

Botcher's photo
Fri 11/16/07 03:16 PM
Hi everyone...newbie here... currently separated (6 months) and still figuring it all out. Friends welcome.

Botcher's photo
Fri 11/16/07 03:18 PM
hey redhot...found this in the help area...

A. Sending an instant message is simple — just go to their profile, and if they are online, you'll see a button labeled "Instant Message" near where their friends are displayed. Just click on that button, and a chat session will be opened.


MelissaAnn27's photo
Fri 11/16/07 05:36 PM
Hi everyone!!! And K I cant believe that came from a man. Ur pretty awesome. I hate it when people ask for nude pics and cyber sex....It does nothing for me.

MelissaAnn27's photo
Fri 11/16/07 05:36 PM
Hi everyone!!! And K I cant believe that came from a man. Ur pretty awesome. I hate it when people ask for nude pics and cyber sex....It does nothing for me.

_kismet_'s photo
Fri 11/16/07 06:29 PM
I wasn't 'chewed up and spit out', but I wasn't asking for pix, either. But what happened was, when I first set my profile up, I had a third pic, of myself shirtless, which I *thought* I had set to private. oops!

I quickly received 'advice' on just how tacky it was. It was after I corrected my cybersnafu that I actually started receiving mail.

so kudos to the gal who set me straight, you know who you are.
it was a delicate mix of assertiveness, and femininity. thanx.

asian_kim's photo
Sat 11/17/07 01:35 PM
I am new first time on net even I speak English well enough and have a friend who can help me out if i get confused. Please be tolerant of my new found skills on the internet and would like to just say hello to all of you.

Kim

no photo
Sun 11/18/07 01:09 PM
I am new, and just starting to date again after taking some time off ... just thought I'd say hello ...:heart:

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Sun 11/18/07 02:01 PM
Thank you K! I am brand new. A friend told me there were free sites like yours, and I'm glad I found you!! I'm looking forward to meeting some nice people (men):)

kojack's photo
Sun 11/18/07 06:54 PM
I do not own nor manage this site, I am a member like everyone else. The ones to thank are Mke and Vanchau

silversatin0212's photo
Sun 11/18/07 10:11 PM
I agree with ya. If you can't give respect you don't deserve it.

sandradee11's photo
Mon 11/19/07 08:08 PM
nice kojack
I will remember that and I am new at this so if I make a mistake someone can let me know thanks

kamal010's photo
Tue 11/20/07 10:18 PM
thanks for that wonderfull advice.........

thekre8v1's photo
Wed 11/21/07 07:22 AM
glasses too cool.... good advice - you should start and internet dating do's and don'ts column - LIKE FO' REAL! Nudie pics are for relationships way beyond a first meeting for sure! Bravo to you for setting it right! CHEERS! drinker

waynejessicalynn's photo
Wed 11/21/07 07:49 PM
:wink: hey people! new here.. what am i doing?!
im here to meet cool people. check me out. write me! im here!

zydecomiss's photo
Thu 11/22/07 09:10 AM
New to the site and appreciate the heads up on what is going on.

zydecomiss's photo
Thu 11/22/07 09:12 AM
Hello everyone,

I am new here and am hoping to find a site that is not disrespectful to others and people who are interested in knowing someone on the inside vs the sexual side. Sounds like this may be a good place.

Lakshanas's photo
Thu 11/22/07 11:47 AM
I think you should add that all guys who ask if you are a "freak" automatically get deleted.

CoachKathi's photo
Fri 11/23/07 10:45 PM
New here and the first comment I open is Kojak's from waaaaaay back at the end of January. I just love a straight shooter! Bump back atcha - hope your still around.

I'm getting ready to spout off regarding smoking...or actually the reaction of non-smokers. I know it's baaaad, evil, nasty, a waste of money and according to my doctor, is the root cause of every health problem known to man. BUT I SMOKE. It's in my profile and if I'm going to actually meet someone that I have something in common with, it's just soooo much easier if they smoke also. Why would I be getting Matches from folks that have "NEVER" in their profile? Thank-you, I feel ever so much better for having vented.

eskimo_nell's photo
Sat 11/24/07 07:01 AM
hi just joined 30 mins ago so just looking thanks for the advice very helpful

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