Topic: hhhhmmmmm
Lily0923's photo
Mon 04/28/08 10:23 PM
Have you ever suspected someone of something...but didn't have a way to prove it?

I think I got lied to today....

I'm a pretty good judge of character, but I may be too emotionally involved.

So what do you do to see if your hunch is correct?

Cambolaya65's photo
Mon 04/28/08 10:25 PM
i wasnt being dishonest when i said you melt me.....

Etrain's photo
Mon 04/28/08 10:25 PM
I didn't liedevil devil devil laugh laugh laugh

nonchalantwendy's photo
Mon 04/28/08 10:25 PM
confront them.........

livelife68's photo
Mon 04/28/08 10:26 PM
call them on it.

Etrain's photo
Mon 04/28/08 10:26 PM
gut em like a fishdevil

no photo
Mon 04/28/08 10:27 PM
You could let the scenario play out, keeping various key points relevant to the situation in mind. The offending party is bound to slip up and change his or her story at some point, and will be outed as a result.

Or you could just be a little more direct and call "bull-honkey" to his/her story. You might not get much mileage out of that, though.

Lily0923's photo
Mon 04/28/08 10:28 PM

i wasnt being dishonest when i said you melt me.....


Like the witch of the West???

Beachfarmer's photo
Mon 04/28/08 10:30 PM
Edited by Beachfarmer on Mon 04/28/08 10:31 PM


i wasnt being dishonest when i said you melt me.....


Like the witch of the West???



Or when I said, "Sorry about that house falling on your sister."


JKlaugh flowerforyou

lily38's photo
Mon 04/28/08 10:31 PM
trust your insticts. my ex lied chronically and pathologically. I had gut feelings about it, and knew deep down he was lying and cheating, but I stayed in a state of denial until I couldn't deny it any longer. If you feel something isn't right, chances are you may be on to something.

Silntstrnger's photo
Mon 04/28/08 10:33 PM
if u know they are being dishonest than u should call them out on it.

Cambolaya65's photo
Mon 04/28/08 10:37 PM
im the iguana,you the microwave

Lily0923's photo
Mon 04/28/08 10:38 PM
It's not that easy, it's about their past, and they are just a friend, and it's not like it's going to ruin our friendship, but I really don't like to be lied to.

I've let this fester all day.

It's eating my soul....laugh laugh laugh

Alright maybe not that bad....drinker

writer_gurl's photo
Mon 04/28/08 10:39 PM

gut em like a fishdevil

I'm with you on that one!!:wink:

ShadowLands's photo
Mon 04/28/08 10:47 PM

It's not that easy, it's about their past, and they are just a friend, and it's not like it's going to ruin our friendship, but I really don't like to be lied to.

I've let this fester all day.

It's eating my soul....laugh laugh laugh

Alright maybe not that bad....drinker


Either call them on it or blow it off. Do not let it eat you like a cancer because that is exactly what it will do. If it is not that big of a deal and it is in the past.....blow it off. Just be mindful of this in any future dealings with this person.

missy51970's photo
Mon 04/28/08 10:48 PM
Lily..Ive nevr known you to be one who doesnt speak her mind... You do, your honest and sometimes brutally but such is life.. I admire and repsect you for that.. Ifyou know its true ..call them on it.. flowerforyou

no photo
Mon 04/28/08 10:49 PM
Let them dig a deaper hole or prove me wrong.....then call the on it if I was right.

Lily0923's photo
Mon 04/28/08 10:50 PM

Lily..Ive nevr known you to be one who doesnt speak her mind... You do, your honest and sometimes brutally but such is life.. I admire and repsect you for that.. Ifyou know its true ..call them on it.. flowerforyou


Missy will you marry me? :heart:

I don't like sticking my neck out unless I'm 100% sure....

It tends to get cut off that way...

missy51970's photo
Mon 04/28/08 10:52 PM


Lily..Ive nevr known you to be one who doesnt speak her mind... You do, your honest and sometimes brutally but such is life.. I admire and repsect you for that.. Ifyou know its true ..call them on it.. flowerforyou


Missy will you marry me? :heart:

I don't like sticking my neck out unless I'm 100% sure....

It tends to get cut off that way...



Yes my love I will marry you!!:heart:

Unless youre 100% sure I would keep it to yourself for awhile longer and see what happens doll!!

lily38's photo
Mon 04/28/08 10:56 PM
It's a friend? Well, depends on what they're lying about. Is it, "I have never eaten sugar once in my life", or more like, "I killed my ex husband and dismembered his body...." Some things you simply overlook.....others you contact the FBI.