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Why is it so hard to find some one now days, is it that theres to many people, or is it theres not enough?
Why do I become angry when I see happy couples while at the same time I feel like crying. Why when I see a couple kiss do I feel this urge to run and hide and become emberassed because I wish it was me "not so much kissing that girl just in general". Why is it we all come here looking for the one day after day constantly checking our email box when ever we get home from work hoping some will see what inside of us and just want to love us? Why do we all feel so alone now days, and why are we alone? Is it our looks, our personallity, events that have happned that have driven us to hide from the arms of another. Is it the fact we get nearvous when ever we see some one who makes our heart thump, while at the same time being held back by this thought that were not good enough? Is it only me who feels like this or am I just stupid? |
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Wow....
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Hi, I know exactly how you feel
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It's not just you and you are not stupid...
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Its not just you.
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Yes I hear you. And whats worse is everytime a relationship fails, we want to put ourselves through it all over again.
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Good, Maybe I am just feeling a bit down right now I dnk but I hope you guys dont think Its sounds crazy.
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You are not stupid but you seem very unhappy. I get happy when I see people kiss because it is an inherently happy thing. I can feel happiness for other people.If you can't, then you should consider getting some sort of help. I wish you well.
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You're not stupid
too many people doing too many things with too many hangups and too many preferences resulting in way too many possible combinations before finding the right one that even a super computer couldn't figure it out. |
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It is a part of life. Some people get love early in their lives, while others get it later. Us, singles, either appreciate the single life and wait for love to come or envy people with the loved ones. We can go through these emotions when we feel the need to be wanted...to be held...to hear someone say "you're special". Might as well train a parrot to do so. I go through these motions too hun. But the only way I get over it is by flirting my butt off with guy friends. Don't worry. That special lady is out there for you. She may not even be on this computer. She may be out there...somewhere...and you (as well as I) are on this computer. All the best for you hun.
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if we were'nt lonely...we would'nt be here.
I think we are very cautious about who we meet. I just saw this rappist on the news... and guess what.... I saw him online too!!!!!!!! |
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Good, Maybe I am just feeling a bit down right now I dnk but I hope you guys dont think Its sounds crazy. No...this doesn't sound crazy...it is very thought provoking and probably the deepest post I have seen on here in long time. It cuts right to the bone! Sure makes you stop and think. Thanks for posting this tonight.  |
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You do seem very unhappy, but as far as the questions, some of them I can relate to, so you're not alone.
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Why is it so hard to find some one now days, is it that theres to many people, or is it theres not enough? Why do I become angry when I see happy couples while at the same time I feel like crying. Why when I see a couple kiss do I feel this urge to run and hide and become emberassed because I wish it was me "not so much kissing that girl just in general". Why is it we all come here looking for the one day after day constantly checking our email box when ever we get home from work hoping some will see what inside of us and just want to love us? Why do we all feel so alone now days, and why are we alone? Is it our looks, our personallity, events that have happned that have driven us to hide from the arms of another. Is it the fact we get nearvous when ever we see some one who makes our heart thump, while at the same time being held back by this thought that were not good enough? Is it only me who feels like this or am I just stupid? |
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Dude, you read my mind
Very well said. |
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Not a prob, trust me I allways got odd thoughts in my head, I honestly must say I feel for all of us, the heart ache when we think about it at times can be unbearable, as you just saw I even Yes a man can despair from time to time, I just simply cant understand why I have such a self destructive manor about my self while at the same time I want what I tear myself away from.
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Truer words were never written. You are not stupid-many of us feel that way. I know I do. You are not alone in your feelings-know that!!
Can't figure out how to put my reply @ the bottom of a previous post. I know, I'm a tard. |
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I think a lot of people feel this way. You're definitely not alone - even if you just go by the responses you see in here. One mentioned that it's an inherently happy thing when you see people kiss. This is true. I feel happy for them, but it's heart breaking at the same time. I understand the wishing it were me. It's about wanting to feel that for ourselves. I have felt all the feelings you wrote down and I'm sure you had more & just didn't include them. I'm there with you. For me it's definitely situations that have driven me here.
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Dude, you read my mind Very well said. Exactly
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