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Truer words were never written. You are not stupid-many of us feel that way. I know I do. You are not alone in your feelings-know that!! Can't figure out how to put my reply @ the bottom of a previous post. I know, I'm a tard. Just clic where it says Quote in the bottom right corner of the persons post. You'll figure it out. 
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I truely hope each and every one of us finds our some on even if its just a friend, ok I feel so gay im crying to god damn bryan adams SCREW HIM AND HIS EVERY THINHG I DO!!!!!!!!!!! GRRRRRRRRRRR gets angry to counter the sadness! LOL
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Not a prob, trust me I allways got odd thoughts in my head, I honestly must say I feel for all of us, the heart ache when we think about it at times can be unbearable, as you just saw I even Yes a man can despair from time to time, I just simply cant understand why I have such a self destructive manor about my self while at the same time I want what I tear myself away from. I think it's hard to do, ya know? Give our everything only to be hurt. I'm assuming most of us in here have "been here, done that" and we're leery of letting it happen again. So, we want so badly to feel love, but when it looks us in the eye, we shy away because we're afraid inside of opening up again. I think that's why we're online doing this (at least for me). It's not face to face. It's not truly opening up to someone when you talk to a computer screen. |
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I truely hope each and every one of us finds our some on even if its just a friend, ok I feel so gay im crying to god damn bryan adams SCREW HIM AND HIS EVERY THINHG I DO!!!!!!!!!!! GRRRRRRRRRRR gets angry to counter the sadness! LOL It's not gay. You're just expressing your emotions that are bothering you. I've seen a few guys like this too. One of them found his wife out of the blue when he wasn't even looking. You're cool.
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There is nothing wrong with crying, I cry when I'm happy, I cry when I'm sad. I am where you are now.But Bryan Adams?(Just kidding, trying to evoke a smile!):) Vince Gill is what I listen to, he has a song called "When I Call Your Name", that makes me bawl every single time I hear it.
 Thanks for the tip, I will try it next time! |
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HEHE thanks O-o its hard for men, heres another philisophical question for you ladys and gents.
This is another thing I have noticed in life 1 when a man breacks up with a women 9 - 10 times his buddys dont really care nor do they even bother to ask him how he feels, he therefor as a male is trained from day one to hide that it might have hurt maybe even have broken his heart. 2 when women are broken up with or break up with the man there friends 9 - 10 times are there for her and help her through it she is therefor trained from day 1 to express her emotions freely and becomes in truth a much stronger person than the x male partner in this way. Why is it that the world is built in such a way, why can we men not just let it flow without constantly worrying we will be seen as gay or a loser. |
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Because men were taught to be strong in all situations. Just as he should take head of a household, be the provider, and such. This is a short answer from me.
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HEHE thanks O-o its hard for men, heres another philisophical question for you ladys and gents. This is another thing I have noticed in life 1 when a man breacks up with a women 9 - 10 times his buddys dont really care nor do they even bother to ask him how he feels, he therefor as a male is trained from day one to hide that it might have hurt maybe even have broken his heart. 2 when women are broken up with or break up with the man there friends 9 - 10 times are there for her and help her through it she is therefor trained from day 1 to express her emotions freely and becomes in truth a much stronger person than the x male partner in this way. Why is it that the world is built in such a way, why can we men not just let it flow without constantly worrying we will be seen as gay or a loser. That is so true, and one of the reasons its difficult for men and women to truly communicate, because men are conditioned to believe that's it not ok to express their emotions. It would be wonderful if more men felt the way you do. You are wise beyond your years, if only more men were willing to be so introspective. |
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Its funny most people whenh they meet me think im atleast 27 because im quiet and have these points of view O_o.
It often leads to me never being carded!!!!!!!!!!! mahhahahaha |
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Its funny most people whenh they meet me think im atleast 27 because im quiet and have these points of view O_o. It often leads to me never being carded!!!!!!!!!!! mahhahahaha How old are you...if you don't mind me asking? 
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Im 20 :( sadly, Although I am glad im still young it just means Ill be even wiser by the time im 27 finally O-o...ofcourse if Im still posting on here at 27...some thing it truely terribly rong with me ! LOL
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It is rare of someone your age(your pic gave it away, I can tell, I have a son about your age) to have such maturity. Most people aren't willing to think so much about such important things, they just go along and hope that everything will turn out ok. With age comes the realization that that doesn't happen. I have been in your shoes, I am there now. All I wanted was for my ex-bf to love me, and he didn't. We were together for 4 years, I guess I was stupid in hoping that eventually, he would fall in love with me. I can't go through my life being w/someone who doesn't love me, I can't go through life w/o someone saying those words to me, so I ended our relationship. Now, all I can do is wonder why? Why didn't he love me? What was so terrible about me that he didn't love me after 4 years? I don't have answers, only questions. So, don't despair. You are on the right path-though it may take a while to see the light @ the end of the tunnel.
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Also if any body would like feel free to email me, im bored as hell!
I hope this doesnt come off creepy :P LOL P.S. My name is satan I like long walks on the beach and killing baby seals JK allways wanted to say that. |
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Im 20 :( sadly, Although I am glad im still young it just means Ill be even wiser by the time im 27 finally O-o...ofcourse if Im still posting on here at 27...some thing it truely terribly rong with me ! LOL Oh dear...you have plenty of time. At least you have a good head on your shoulders. 
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Why is it so hard to find some one now days, is it that theres to many people, or is it theres not enough? Why do I become angry when I see happy couples while at the same time I feel like crying. Why when I see a couple kiss do I feel this urge to run and hide and become emberassed because I wish it was me "not so much kissing that girl just in general". Why is it we all come here looking for the one day after day constantly checking our email box when ever we get home from work hoping some will see what inside of us and just want to love us? Why do we all feel so alone now days, and why are we alone? Is it our looks, our personallity, events that have happned that have driven us to hide from the arms of another. Is it the fact we get nearvous when ever we see some one who makes our heart thump, while at the same time being held back by this thought that were not good enough? Is it only me who feels like this or am I just stupid? Why is it so hard? Because we all want what we can't have, and "love" is probably the one thing most of us can't seem to get. |
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Misslibra I feel for you honestly, and as a brother libra I can tell you its not easy being the balancer.
as libras we often find ourselves pondering over why, while at the same time trying to figure out how to make it better next time. So heres my advice to you, you are a smart beautifull women dont let time slip by as I have for the past 3 year's. "wich may not seem like much to some but still the point remains" Just remember that he obviously wasnt good enough for YOU not the other way around. and remember were all here for you, whilst we may not be you're prince charming we are you're friends so join us, join the twisted side we have cookies! AND DENTAL yes forgot that dental see very nice teeth hmm yes indeed...*whispers under breath* - now if we only had eye coverage maybe I could see this damn keyboared in the dark >_<- |
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Misslibra I feel for you honestly, and as a brother libra I can tell you its not easy being the balancer. as libras we often find ourselves pondering over why, while at the same time trying to figure out how to make it better next time. So heres my advice to you, you are a smart beautifull women dont let time slip by as I have for the past 3 year's. "wich may not seem like much to some but still the point remains" Just remember that he obviously wasnt good enough for YOU not the other way around. and remember were all here for you, whilst we may not be you're prince charming we are you're friends so join us, join the twisted side we have cookies! AND DENTAL yes forgot that dental see very nice teeth hmm yes indeed...*whispers under breath* - now if we only had eye coverage maybe I could see this damn keyboared in the dark >_<- Thank you for your kind words, we Libras seem to analyze and agonize over everything. 3 years is a long time, but one thing you can be thankful for is that you are wise, and still have age on your side. I wish I had been as wise as you @ your age. I feel that time is running out for me. Others may see me as picky, but I am afraid of giving my heart away, only to be rejected again. So, its easier to be here on the computer, instead of taking a chance on love again. Though I am cautiously optimistic, I have a date tomorrow with someone whose profile I read on this site! |
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