Topic: Help....What do I do-He is BiSexual
Derekkye's photo
Thu 04/24/08 07:25 PM
just say "bye" :smile:

cdanny47's photo
Thu 04/24/08 07:26 PM
:smile: delete button!!!!!!!!!!!!

brian325's photo
Thu 04/24/08 07:26 PM
JustSayBye laugh laugh laugh

writer_gurl's photo
Thu 04/24/08 07:27 PM
Wow!!That's crazy...If you really don't feel comfortable with it move on.Ya'll could catch something while doing that and I'm not talking about a cold either

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Thu 04/24/08 07:27 PM
enjoy it big time.bigsmile

shoesmonkey's photo
Thu 04/24/08 07:29 PM
Personally, I would run for the hill's and take a bleach bath!!!!!!!!!!1

StatGirl's photo
Thu 04/24/08 07:30 PM

Time to move on. Probably shouldn't have been teasing about marriage that soon. Guys don't take that well usually. This bi/swinging stuff could have been what has been keeping him back from you, but it could a way to get you to end things. And both could be true at the same time.


I *think* she was teasing HIM about being married since she barely sees/hears from him. But regardless, I was also leaning towards thinking he was making up a story to run her off.

If a guy is going to be THAT open, he would have been THAT open from the start. And if he was being truthful about this lifestyle, he would have just told her about it and not have just suddenly tried to drag her into a weekend orgy - not knowing if she was even into that or not.

The whole thing reeks of a fib to me.


dae11x's photo
Thu 04/24/08 07:30 PM

one word...std's


wait that was actually three words broken down but...get the picture? laugh
Precisely. Whether he's a swinger or bi is irrelevant. He's sleeping around. grumble grumble

bgeorge's photo
Thu 04/24/08 07:31 PM


the best guy i ever had was bi...but that was 20 some yrs ago...funny thing he lives in nashville and i work w/this dude and was dating him and he had the same last name...it was his uncle...small world


he was dating his uncle?

lol...i was dating his nephew...crazy...but fun

mry's photo
Thu 04/24/08 07:32 PM

just say "bye" :smile:



hi honey..

Italy0219's photo
Thu 04/24/08 07:33 PM

sad sad sad I have been meeting a guy off and on for about 4 months..For the first time after a terrible divorce i thought maybe i could move on and have a future with this guy...I only get to see him about an hour a week and he never calls me at night or on the weekends...i understand he spends his weekends with his kids..I started pressuring him and teasing him about being married.after trying to convince me otherwise today he springs this on me...He wants me to go to a weekend with him where everyone is swingers,,,this is something he has been doing for awhile...and wants me in this part of his life...he also told me he is bisexual and i needed to prepare myself for that part of this weekend....I really care for him, but this is like nothing i have ever done before and dont know which way to turn...or should i just turn him away and start over again without him????



Just happened to see a book today while I was browsing the bookstore, the title was..."Why women put up with crap from men and how to stop" now mind you I did not buy this book, but I think this is a prime example, this probably is not you, and you should not change and try to put up with this, just cause you "care" for him..you will ultimately hate yourself and him...get out now and find someone that suits you better...!!!flowerforyou

Derekkye's photo
Thu 04/24/08 07:33 PM


just say "bye" :smile:



hi honey..


hi peanut butter

livelife68's photo
Thu 04/24/08 07:33 PM
personally I'd run like He!! noway

no photo
Thu 04/24/08 07:33 PM
Run - I have yet to have a guy friend who is bi-sexual who doesn't just end up saying he's gay. A few of them said it was a stepping stone...

Invest time in him as a friend, because that is ALL he has invested in you if he hasn't bothered to call, or put forth an effort other than to say "hey come to this orgy with me"

Just walk away...there is someone out there who will call you, and want to see you as much as he possibly can...and will not want to share you with other guys.

joshlisenby2007's photo
Thu 04/24/08 07:34 PM
START OVER...........NEXT

kayliz88's photo
Thu 04/24/08 07:34 PM



the best guy i ever had was bi...but that was 20 some yrs ago...funny thing he lives in nashville and i work w/this dude and was dating him and he had the same last name...it was his uncle...small world


he was dating his uncle?

lol...i was dating his nephew...crazy...but fun


hahah i thought u meant he was dating his uncle too.

sethwyo's photo
Thu 04/24/08 07:34 PM
Edited by sethwyo on Thu 04/24/08 07:36 PM
Rember that U cant ever take doing something like that back,
IF U cant live with what Uv done then DONT DO IT in the 1st place.
consider it.

Thomas27's photo
Thu 04/24/08 07:34 PM

Wow!!That's crazy...If you really don't feel comfortable with it move on.Ya'll could catch something while doing that and I'm not talking about a cold either

Swinging groups shouldn't be that open and cautious who they bring into their circle. Most are invitation only I believe.

no photo
Thu 04/24/08 07:35 PM
run,run forrest run .get outa dodge . that is sick grumble explode :angry: mad brokenheart noway ohwell embarassed : no frigging . i am available

Angel1545's photo
Thu 04/24/08 07:36 PM
Don't do anything you are not comfortable with just to keep him. There are plenty of other men out there (or so I'm told) but don't let yourself get hurt or catch anything.