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Topic: Help....What do I do-He is BiSexual
xoxoxlaurixoxox's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:28 AM
Ok I have tanken up with the majority,,I love sex and I am a fat girl but I dont have to do something this unethical to keep a man...I always try to live by the fact if my kids wouldnt be proud of who i am I wont go there...although they are all grown now...I am sure this would still not make them proud of me...And I am a registered nurse....I should know better...thanks for all your advice...and if you see anyone on a white horse out there send them my way...lol

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Fri 04/25/08 12:38 AM
Wear a body condom@@@!!!noway indifferent

Jtevans's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:49 AM

Go...take some naked pics and move on...laugh



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FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 04/25/08 01:22 AM

sad sad sad I have been meeting a guy off and on for about 4 months..For the first time after a terrible divorce i thought maybe i could move on and have a future with this guy...I only get to see him about an hour a week and he never calls me at night or on the weekends...i understand he spends his weekends with his kids..I started pressuring him and teasing him about being married.after trying to convince me otherwise today he springs this on me...He wants me to go to a weekend with him where everyone is swingers,,,this is something he has been doing for awhile...and wants me in this part of his life...he also told me he is bisexual and i needed to prepare myself for that part of this weekend....I really care for him, but this is like nothing i have ever done before and dont know which way to turn...or should i just turn him away and start over again without him????


Swinger's insinuate lack of control, therefore a failed relationship from the get-go. Never could understand swinger's and I suppose they come up with their own reasoning for what they do...but ultimately it's just a control issue.

hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/25/08 04:44 AM

Ok I have tanken up with the majority,,I love sex and I am a fat girl but I dont have to do something this unethical to keep a man...I always try to live by the fact if my kids wouldnt be proud of who i am I wont go there...although they are all grown now...I am sure this would still not make them proud of me...And I am a registered nurse....I should know better...thanks for all your advice...and if you see anyone on a white horse out there send them my way...lol


Oh dear, I am a fat girl too but I am picky when it comes to men. I would rather be alone than to compromise myself. I stick by my preferences, my ideals, my values and my beliefs. If no one can fit within the parameters of my preferences, then I am better off alone. A woman should not need a man. She should want one; the right one.

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Fri 04/25/08 04:56 AM
wow if you're ok with it, go for it.
if not, say so and move on.

What happens behind closed doors between consenting adults is their business, so you can participate if interested/curious etc. Not the life for me, but thats my opinion

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