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Can u felt in love with aparson u dont know that well or u havent heard
their voices or their pictures |
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not me zion
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not me
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i met a woman off pof one time and she had an older pic on her profile
when I met her in person she looked like a crackhead or meth addict and I cannot be with someone who looks like that or does that stuff |
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LMAO, well hell I pass that test sure dont look like a crack head got to
much meat to be a crack head lool |
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lol Txs meat's a good thing
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I dont Know but I feel some thing for this Woman That i believe is loved
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Noway not me but I can say you can become good friends
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well you're young and if you fall in love that easy be prepared for
several heartaches before you find the right one, hopefully I am wrong and you become one of the lucky few |
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u think so but i like the giel all i do is just think of her
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I know I could not fall in love with someone I didnt know, Sometimes
when we feel insecure we open ourselves up to have stronger feelings as we want it so bad, Be careful as someone usually gets hurt, not all the time but it might happen. |
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try to arrange a meeting if you're that interested only then will you
know if you can fall in love with someone you have not met |
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i understand but i dont feel insecure i just feel that she is mind
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Hummm sorry I can not and would not let myself fall for an image a piece
of paper and a few words no way Jose. Get to know them set up a meet your young don't set yourself up for a big heartbreak. Life is too short. You never know someone till actually you live with them but you can get to know them and you can't do that if you have never meet them or at least talk to them alot. But even then don't throw caution to the wind. Heartbreak is a real thing that hurts deep down to the soul. Think about your actions before you just jump in with both feet. Would you jump into a dark well not knowing how deep it was or where you would end up? Think Not so please give it some thought about your feelings and do a reality check!! |
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i have been hurt really deep but i always get throught and percfetly
undarstand your point and i agreed but i wish u would feel what am feeling |
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Well be it love or be it lust or be it just strong feelings,
You are going to have to meet her to really take any of your feelings further!!!! So no matter what the feelings are NOW they may still change upon meeting them???? |
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I have felt that Zion believe me but I had meet them before I felt that
way. |
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your brain plays tricks on you when it doesn't know what to make of the
rush of hormones runnig through your veins. you get to see a very little part of that person through words, sometimes you talk on the phone, perhaps you saw a picture that you liked and usually that's the first step. So you start by liking the way she looks and in your mind that means she is right for you, that she is smart, she is caring, she might be a good companion. You imagine how she dresses up, you think about her in your social context. it all seems to connect because there is not much room for more or for things to go severely wrong. you look forward to those moments so you're in the right mood when you talk to her. all seems perfect and you very much want it all to be perfect. you want things to be right so much that the fact that you can't be together, or havent been together yet makes it seem even more desirable. we always want what is unattainable, what is hard to get, what is not available to all. same principle applies to advertisement, right? last chance to win, last days of sale, lowest prices today and tomorrow only! you feel like this is it, you don't want to pass it up, you want to secure it, make that purchase, buy that ring, move to a different state to be together. And it all happens so fast. Weeks after you first spoke you already feel in love. sometimes it happens in the same week, a couple days later. it's all real but your interpretation is wrong. what you feel is real in the context it happens. and because it happens the way it happens, it may change once the context changes. once you meet, it all changes. you get to see the person face to face, hear their voice, and the image you created of that person is confronted with the real thing. a major part of it is body language, which is crucial in attraction. you never got to see that body language, sometimes you even feel like you dont understand her words anymore. So keep all this in mind when putting your feelings into perspective. Dont make any bindig decisions until you have met in person and have spent quite some time together. and by that i dont mean a week vacation together or she visiting you for a week at your town. i mean live your day to day life but now including the new person somewhere in it. do you still match? then invest in it. above all give it time and a fair chance. and if it doesnt work, well nothing went wrong, it's just that there were a few missing parts all along. have fun and stay safe! |
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Zion getting over something like a heartache is a task you can
accomplish but you get left with scars and sometimes those scars can affect future relationships although you should not let them , but it happens, best not to get too much scar tissue buildup if ya can help it |
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well zion bro, i don't think you can fall in love with someone you never
seen or heard or seen there pic no way. |
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