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Topic: Quetion
ZION's photo
Mon 01/22/07 05:25 PM
Can u felt in love with aparson u dont know that well or u havent heard
their voices or their pictures

FedMan's photo
Mon 01/22/07 05:25 PM
not me zion

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 01/22/07 05:27 PM
not me

FedMan's photo
Mon 01/22/07 05:27 PM
i met a woman off pof one time and she had an older pic on her profile
when I met her in person she looked like a crackhead or meth addict
and I cannot be with someone who looks like that or does that stuff

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 01/22/07 05:31 PM
LMAO, well hell I pass that test sure dont look like a crack head got to
much meat to be a crack head lool

FedMan's photo
Mon 01/22/07 05:32 PM
lol Txs meat's a good thing

ZION's photo
Mon 01/22/07 05:33 PM
I dont Know but I feel some thing for this Woman That i believe is loved

TheShadow's photo
Mon 01/22/07 05:34 PM
Noway not me but I can say you can become good friends

FedMan's photo
Mon 01/22/07 05:35 PM
well you're young and if you fall in love that easy be prepared for
several heartaches before you find the right one, hopefully I am wrong
and you become one of the lucky few

ZION's photo
Mon 01/22/07 05:36 PM
u think so but i like the giel all i do is just think of her

ShagnaC's photo
Mon 01/22/07 05:36 PM
I know I could not fall in love with someone I didnt know, Sometimes
when we feel insecure we open ourselves up to have stronger feelings as
we want it so bad, Be careful as someone usually gets hurt, not all the
time but it might happen.

FedMan's photo
Mon 01/22/07 05:37 PM
try to arrange a meeting if you're that interested only then will you
know if you can fall in love with someone you have not met

ZION's photo
Mon 01/22/07 05:40 PM
i understand but i dont feel insecure i just feel that she is mind

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 01/22/07 05:44 PM
Hummm sorry I can not and would not let myself fall for an image a piece
of paper and a few words no way Jose. Get to know them set up a meet
your young don't set yourself up for a big heartbreak. Life is too
short. You never know someone till actually you live with them but you
can get to know them and you can't do that if you have never meet them
or at least talk to them alot. But even then don't throw caution to the
wind. Heartbreak is a real thing that hurts deep down to the soul. Think
about your actions before you just jump in with both feet. Would you
jump into a dark well not knowing how deep it was or where you would end
up? Think Not so please give it some thought about your feelings and do
a reality check!!

ZION's photo
Mon 01/22/07 05:48 PM
i have been hurt really deep but i always get throught and percfetly
undarstand your point and i agreed but i wish u would feel what am
feeling

no photo
Mon 01/22/07 05:50 PM
Well be it love or be it lust or be it just strong feelings,
You are going to have to meet her to really take any of your feelings
further!!!! So no matter what the feelings are NOW they may still change
upon meeting them????

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 01/22/07 05:50 PM
I have felt that Zion believe me but I had meet them before I felt that
way.

piffs's photo
Mon 01/22/07 05:51 PM
your brain plays tricks on you when it doesn't know what to make of the
rush of hormones runnig through your veins. you get to see a very little
part of that person through words, sometimes you talk on the phone,
perhaps you saw a picture that you liked and usually that's the first
step. So you start by liking the way she looks and in your mind that
means she is right for you, that she is smart, she is caring, she might
be a good companion. You imagine how she dresses up, you think about her
in your social context. it all seems to connect because there is not
much room for more or for things to go severely wrong. you look forward
to those moments so you're in the right mood when you talk to her. all
seems perfect and you very much want it all to be perfect. you want
things to be right so much that the fact that you can't be together, or
havent been together yet makes it seem even more desirable. we always
want what is unattainable, what is hard to get, what is not available to
all. same principle applies to advertisement, right? last chance to win,
last days of sale, lowest prices today and tomorrow only! you feel like
this is it, you don't want to pass it up, you want to secure it, make
that purchase, buy that ring, move to a different state to be together.
And it all happens so fast. Weeks after you first spoke you already feel
in love. sometimes it happens in the same week, a couple days later.

it's all real but your interpretation is wrong. what you feel is real in
the context it happens. and because it happens the way it happens, it
may change once the context changes. once you meet, it all changes. you
get to see the person face to face, hear their voice, and the image you
created of that person is confronted with the real thing. a major part
of it is body language, which is crucial in attraction. you never got to
see that body language, sometimes you even feel like you dont understand
her words anymore.

So keep all this in mind when putting your feelings into perspective.
Dont make any bindig decisions until you have met in person and have
spent quite some time together. and by that i dont mean a week vacation
together or she visiting you for a week at your town. i mean live your
day to day life but now including the new person somewhere in it. do you
still match? then invest in it. above all give it time and a fair
chance. and if it doesnt work, well nothing went wrong, it's just that
there were a few missing parts all along.

have fun and stay safe!


FedMan's photo
Mon 01/22/07 05:52 PM
Zion getting over something like a heartache is a task you can
accomplish but you get left with scars and sometimes those scars can
affect future relationships although you should not let them , but it
happens, best not to get too much scar tissue buildup if ya can help it

romee's photo
Mon 01/22/07 05:52 PM
well zion bro, i don't think you can fall in love with someone you never
seen or heard or seen there pic no way.

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