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Topic: What is your Purpose?
BlueskyJ's photo
Wed 04/16/08 03:40 PM
Edited by BlueskyJ on Wed 04/16/08 04:04 PM
My last girlfriend asked me this....i don't have an answer....she gave me a religious answer, "living your life for God"
she also said everything happens for a reason...

Now i disagree with both comments....I find it hard to believe that we have some special purpose & somehow, like a scientist we are supposed to discover what that purpose is....

I also don't think everything happens for a reason....I have seen pointless drive-by killings & read about other pointless murders & find it unbelievable that people think there is a purpose for something like that....

what are your thoughts? Do you have a Purpose? what is it? Does everything that happens happen for a reason?

msberrypicker's photo
Wed 04/16/08 03:42 PM
maybe your purpose is to live life the best you can and pass on your knowledge to others,

irad8you's photo
Wed 04/16/08 03:42 PM
Life isn't a dress rehearsal

writer_gurl's photo
Wed 04/16/08 03:44 PM
I believe everything does happen for a reason,it may not be pretty but there's a reason for it...and you make your life what it isbigsmile

hellkitten54's photo
Wed 04/16/08 03:45 PM
Yep, I believe everything happens for a reason. People die in drive-bys for a reason. Senseless, yes. But darwin doesn't play around. He is evil!:tongue:




jtip1977's photo
Wed 04/16/08 03:46 PM
My purpose has something to do with Boobies. That's all I know

Dandilyon's photo
Wed 04/16/08 03:46 PM
I half agree w/you and half w/your gf. I WANT to believe everything happens for a reason, but the children's deaths, elderly women getting raped - what reason is that for? OK, maybe the child's death will bring the parents closer to God and the lady getting raped will put the rapist behind bars prohibiting him from doing it again.

For me, I know I have a purpose. To tell my story. I don't speak to crowds, I don't write books and I am not a therapist. But I have been to the Dark Side of the Moon many manty times, for many years at a time too.

So my purpose is to let people know where I was, what I did to change it, and where I am now. For me, that is fulfilling enough/.

no photo
Wed 04/16/08 03:47 PM
I don't believe there is any purpose to life other than that which we choose to give it. I don't believe everything happens for a reason, because that requires, by definition, someone or something doing the reasoning, determining what the reasons are or will be. As I am not superstitious, I cannot attribute "motives" to someone/something which I do not believe exists.


USmale47374's photo
Wed 04/16/08 03:48 PM
I'm agnostic, so I believe the only real reason I'm alive is to pass on my genes to the next generation.

Lozer's photo
Wed 04/16/08 03:53 PM

I'm agnostic, so I believe the only real reason I'm alive is to pass on my genes to the next generation.


Well, don't agnostics
half believe in Christ/ half don't??
There was no reason to post that
you were if..you know, it had nothing
to do with it...

0_o

It'd be like someone posting and saying,
"Hey, how's the weather today?
I'm agnostic.."

But idk where I stand on this;
I believe in Karma, and that's about it.
xD

BlackForkFella's photo
Wed 04/16/08 03:53 PM
I believe everything does happen for a reason. When s#*t happens to me its usually a prod to go in a better direction. And its gets me down sometimes but then I realize that without that prod I'd still be in the same old rut. As far as that "living for God" thing, thats a personal decision.I personally don't; but I understand theres a hell of a lot in this universe that science can't begin to comprehend. And if you're an agnostic or aetheist you're on your own...

codelockbox's photo
Wed 04/16/08 03:55 PM
the purpose of life is the pursuit of happiness.

Now life or living many things can happen.

I believe we do our best in life, and all things we do is for us to be happy. The bad things that are done. Murders, Killings, ect...ect... They are also done for a reasons as a end result to make one happy.

Having a baby killed, or blowing up a plane to me or you or anyone else might not be happy or the pursuit of happiness yet to the one doing this task in some way of there mind it is.

I understand and believe GOD, has some huge plan with all of us. We just can not understand the process in which it takes.

I can not say why the 3 year old had to be tossed in the dumpster and I can not explain why a little girl was rapped and killed. Very bad acts happen to good people all the time why? I am not god its his big plan, I am just here for the ride.

But I can tell you this, everything we do in life is for a purpose and I believe in my heart it's for happiness. In some way or another how ever the act is done, its to be happy. Bad things come from this.

hellkitten54's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:00 PM
BTW, the jerk had a special purpose.:wink:

AngelLight's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:01 PM
My purpose is to Love and be Loved.

And yes, in my life experience, I've found that there is a purpose to everything, and I mean everything that happens.


Single_Rob's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:07 PM
yup, I am here for da womenz

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:11 PM
Edited by Fade2Black on Wed 04/16/08 04:21 PM
I totally believe my purpose is to live life to the full, honor God with everything I do, love my family and friends with everything in me ...

And leave a positive mark on this world ............



oh ya .. and drive men crazy .. yummy love

hmmmm wonder how I'm doin frown glasses




BlueskyJ's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:16 PM
Edited by BlueskyJ on Wed 04/16/08 04:17 PM
And leave a positive mark on this world

well you left a coffee stain on my shirt this morning *wink* Does that count?

j/k....boy r u gonna get some comments.....

u r doing great!!!! flowerforyou

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:19 PM
I have no Idea

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:20 PM
Edited by Fade2Black on Wed 04/16/08 04:22 PM
awww thanks baby - what a nice thing to say


oh I took the 'other' thing to email - it's pretty well gone glasses it's the class thing to do.



and I added something to my post up there laugh laugh laugh


ladyliz1417's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:23 PM
I've always heard everything happens for a reason. Just haven't figured out the reason for most of it.

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