Topic: High Expectations? I Think Not...
Tankk's photo
Sat 04/12/08 03:43 PM

High Expectations...Guys arent wired like that no matter what you expect or fall for a liar...I think gay guys fit your description though. Don't hate me; just tellin it!drinker


I guess only gay guys can decorate or are well groomed too....

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 04/12/08 03:43 PM




HERE ARE SOME THINGS THAT MOST GIRLS WANT FROM GUYS BUT HARDLY GET.....



LEAVE ME CUTE TEXT MESSAGES.

KISS ME IN FR0NT 0F Y0UR FRIENDS.

TRUST ME 0VER EVERY0NE ELSE.

TELL ME I L00K BEAUTIFUL.

L00K ME IN THE EYE WHEN Y0U TALK T0 ME.

TELL ME STUPID J0KES T0 MAKE ME LAUGH.

LET ME MESS WITH Y0UR HAIR.

MESS WITH MY HAIR.

JUST WALK AR0UND WITH ME.

INCLUDE ME IN ALL THINGS Y0U D0.

WHEN I CRY D0 WHATEVER IT TAKES T0 MAKE ME SMILE

F0RGIVE ME F0R MY MISTAKES.

L00K AT ME LIKE I'M THE 0NLY GIRL Y0U SEE.

TICKLE ME EVEN WHEN I SAY ST0P.

H0LD MY HAND EVEN WHEN Y0U ARE AROUND Y0UR FRIENDS.

WHEN I START SWEARING AT Y0U TELL ME Y0U L0VE ME.

LET ME FALL ASLEEP IN Y0UR ARMS.

GET ME MAD, THEN KISS ME.

TEASE ME & LET ME TEASE Y0U BACK.

STAY UP WITH ME ALL NIGHT WHEN I'M SICK.

WATCH MY FAV0RITE M0VIE.

KISS MY F0REHEAD.

GIVE ME THE W0RLD.

WRITE ME LETTERS.

LET ME WEAR Y0UR CL0THES.

WHEN I'M SAD, HANG 0UT WITH ME.

LET ME KN0W I'M IMP0RTANT.

LET ME TAKE ALL THE PH0T0S 0F Y0U I WANT.

KISS ME IN THE RAIN.

CALL ME EVERY NIGHT.

AND WHEN Y0U FALL IN L0VE WITH ME, TELL ME.

AND WHEN Y0U D0 TELL ME, L0VE ME LIKE Y0U NEVER L0VED BEF0RE.........


love i will do itlove

izzie's photo
Sat 04/12/08 03:44 PM

Roughly half of those things sound overly sappy or really annoying to me. "Mess with my hair," "tickle me even if I say stop," "get me mad then kiss me"....uh...no thanks unless you want a good punch in the arm. :tongue:
not necesicarily asking for everything on the list.. and DEFINATELY not everything in one day.. just things to keep in mind.

hikerchick's photo
Sat 04/12/08 03:44 PM
why do you want to kiss in front of someone's friends? Some things should be done in private.

ace_queen's photo
Sat 04/12/08 03:45 PM

it's not a matter of being gay or hardwired like that. but rather knowing how to treat a person you truly care for then it comes naturally



Good answer

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sat 04/12/08 03:45 PM
All I want is honesty,faithfulness, and understanding..and I can't find it..lol

ace_queen's photo
Sat 04/12/08 03:45 PM


High Expectations...Guys arent wired like that no matter what you expect or fall for a liar...I think gay guys fit your description though. Don't hate me; just tellin it!drinker


I guess only gay guys can decorate or are well groomed too....



Hahah... happy

krazykitty323's photo
Sat 04/12/08 03:46 PM

why do you want to kiss in front of someone's friends? Some things should be done in private.

to show them you truly care for this person

ace_queen's photo
Sat 04/12/08 03:47 PM

why do you want to kiss in front of someone's friends? Some things should be done in private.



It's not that it should be done but he should be willing to.. It's not like I'm asking him to have sex in public...

ace_queen's photo
Sat 04/12/08 03:49 PM
I just posted another.... Come check it out....

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sat 04/12/08 03:49 PM

why do you want to kiss in front of someone's friends? Some things should be done in private.

There's nothing wrong with kissing in public..I think kissing and hugging and hand holding etc as a sign of "this is my man/woman and I'm proud to be with them" type of thing.

BlackForkFella's photo
Sat 04/12/08 03:52 PM
O.K. you're young...that explains it.

Winx's photo
Sat 04/12/08 03:57 PM

O.K. you're young...that explains it.


laugh

hikerchick's photo
Sat 04/12/08 04:09 PM
at my age you are much more interested in what goes on in private than about whether people know you kiss.

Moondark's photo
Sat 04/12/08 04:21 PM

You sure do ask for a lot.


The list might look long, but over half of the list is little things that only take a few seconds or minutes of time. A few of them look big, but aren't really. You can't give another person the world, but you can make them feel so important, that it feels like you have giving them the world. The only one that really isn't practical is to be included in every thing you do. But what it really means it to not go out of your way to exclude me from things so it starts to look like you are trying to hide things. At least that's what it would be to me.

I think most women want this to one extent or another. We don't want to be taken for granted and treated like we are interchangable.

welder_one's photo
Sat 04/12/08 04:24 PM




HERE ARE SOME THINGS THAT MOST GIRLS WANT FROM GUYS BUT HARDLY GET.....



LEAVE ME CUTE TEXT MESSAGES.

KISS ME IN FR0NT 0F Y0UR FRIENDS.

TRUST ME 0VER EVERY0NE ELSE.

TELL ME I L00K BEAUTIFUL.

L00K ME IN THE EYE WHEN Y0U TALK T0 ME.

TELL ME STUPID J0KES T0 MAKE ME LAUGH.

LET ME MESS WITH Y0UR HAIR.

MESS WITH MY HAIR.

JUST WALK AR0UND WITH ME.

INCLUDE ME IN ALL THINGS Y0U D0.

WHEN I CRY D0 WHATEVER IT TAKES T0 MAKE ME SMILE

F0RGIVE ME F0R MY MISTAKES.

L00K AT ME LIKE I'M THE 0NLY GIRL Y0U SEE.

TICKLE ME EVEN WHEN I SAY ST0P.

H0LD MY HAND EVEN WHEN Y0U ARE AROUND Y0UR FRIENDS.

WHEN I START SWEARING AT Y0U TELL ME Y0U L0VE ME.

LET ME FALL ASLEEP IN Y0UR ARMS.

GET ME MAD, THEN KISS ME.

TEASE ME & LET ME TEASE Y0U BACK.

STAY UP WITH ME ALL NIGHT WHEN I'M SICK.

WATCH MY FAV0RITE M0VIE.

KISS MY F0REHEAD.

GIVE ME THE W0RLD.

WRITE ME LETTERS.

LET ME WEAR Y0UR CL0THES.

WHEN I'M SAD, HANG 0UT WITH ME.

LET ME KN0W I'M IMP0RTANT.

LET ME TAKE ALL THE PH0T0S 0F Y0U I WANT.

KISS ME IN THE RAIN.

CALL ME EVERY NIGHT.

AND WHEN Y0U FALL IN L0VE WITH ME, TELL ME.

AND WHEN Y0U D0 TELL ME, L0VE ME LIKE Y0U NEVER L0VED BEF0RE.........




i would absolutely love to find a girl that would let me do these things

i tried with my ex-wife, but she would mostly say" would you just shut it?" i gave up...


hikerchick's photo
Sat 04/12/08 05:02 PM
i would absolutely love to find a girl that would let me do these things

i tried with my ex-wife, but she would mostly say" would you just shut it?" i gave up...


We have already determined that she just wasn't worthy of you. I think you will find someone wonderful because you deserve it.

Jim519's photo
Sat 04/12/08 05:09 PM
Expectations are actually the death of most relationships. If you "expect" someone to do something and they didnt? You failed...not them

Very basic rules to live by, Be honest, sincere, respectful, and faithful

welder_one's photo
Sat 04/12/08 05:10 PM
Thanks miss hiker...maybe we will all find our "balance"

Coolguy81's photo
Sat 04/12/08 05:14 PM
Or, instead of that whole list, simply buy you a BMW and throw a handful of diamonds at you.