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Topic: I hate Players
Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Thu 04/10/08 02:57 PM
Women ... Players? ... Really? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I'm staying out of this one I don't want any hate mail coming my way What these men "players" don't realize is that women have been players a long time before they even realized that they were in the game. BUT Their objective is NOT to get laid. It is to get married. To get the commitment. It's a different game altogether. A guy player wants to get laid when he is younger, but when he gets a little older he begins looking for a permanent situation because he is getting tired of the game, tired of working for it so hard. With a wife, she is comfort and convenience, and someone to take care of him when he is old. JB

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Thu 04/10/08 02:59 PM
** the *ing players I just felt like saying that goes away*

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Thu 04/10/08 03:03 PM
Women ... Players? ... Really? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I'm staying out of this one I don't want any hate mail coming my way What these men "players" don't realize is that women have been players a long time before they even realized that they were in the game. BUT Their objective is NOT to get laid. It is to get married. To get the commitment. It's a different game altogether. A guy player wants to get laid when he is younger, but when he gets a little older he begins looking for a permanent situation because he is getting tired of the game, tired of working for it so hard. With a wife, she is comfort and convenience, and someone to take care of him when he is old. JB Oh ... ok So why some just rip your heart out of your chest Play with your feelings then blame everything on you? Different kind of players i guess

Aikido Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 476	Thu 04/10/08 03:06 PM
I've just become apathic to all but my kid. F*ck em all, humans will kill themselfs with time-glad I'm already dead to caring about them just looking for an alien hottie to marry

Jim519 Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 9203	Thu 04/10/08 03:07 PM
I think the meaning of player is in a secret man book...it took over the chapter on HOW TO BE A GENTLEMAN...... Goes both ways, that is a Bi Gender book

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Thu 04/10/08 03:20 PM
Women ... Players? ... Really? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I'm staying out of this one I don't want any hate mail coming my way What these men "players" don't realize is that women have been players a long time before they even realized that they were in the game. BUT Their objective is NOT to get laid. It is to get married. To get the commitment. It's a different game altogether. A guy player wants to get laid when he is younger, but when he gets a little older he begins looking for a permanent situation because he is getting tired of the game, tired of working for it so hard. With a wife, she is comfort and convenience, and someone to take care of him when he is old. JB Oh ... ok So why some just rip your heart out of your chest Play with your feelings then blame everything on you? Different kind of players i guess That ripping your heart out of your chest goes both ways... The hard part of any relationship is the power struggle between the two. It's a power struggle.. who is going to be in control. JB

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Thu 04/10/08 03:27 PM
Women ... Players? ... Really? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I'm staying out of this one I don't want any hate mail coming my way What these men "players" don't realize is that women have been players a long time before they even realized that they were in the game. BUT Their objective is NOT to get laid. It is to get married. To get the commitment. It's a different game altogether. A guy player wants to get laid when he is younger, but when he gets a little older he begins looking for a permanent situation because he is getting tired of the game, tired of working for it so hard. With a wife, she is comfort and convenience, and someone to take care of him when he is old. JB Oh ... ok So why some just rip your heart out of your chest Play with your feelings then blame everything on you? Different kind of players i guess That ripping your heart out of your chest goes both ways... The hard part of any relationship is the power struggle between the two. It's a power struggle.. who is going to be in control. JB

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Thu 04/10/08 03:30 PM
Women ... Players? ... Really? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I'm staying out of this one I don't want any hate mail coming my way What these men "players" don't realize is that women have been players a long time before they even realized that they were in the game. BUT Their objective is NOT to get laid. It is to get married. To get the commitment. It's a different game altogether. A guy player wants to get laid when he is younger, but when he gets a little older he begins looking for a permanent situation because he is getting tired of the game, tired of working for it so hard. With a wife, she is comfort and convenience, and someone to take care of him when he is old. JB Speak for yourself there dollface.....

Aikido Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 476	Thu 04/10/08 03:30 PM
What ever happened to needing eachother, like my grandparents. They love eachother & need the other to create a home for their kids(now grandkids, they taught me more than anyone else)

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Thu 04/10/08 03:33 PM
People don't stay together much anymore I was hoping i would have what my grandparents had I tried

Aikido Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 476	Thu 04/10/08 03:35 PM
People don't stay together much anymore I was hoping i would have what my grandparents had I tried Me too, too bad she didn't care about our kid as much as herself.(she's a leo dont hold it agist her)

JustagirlinMA Joined Wed 04/02/08 Posts: 63	Thu 04/10/08 03:38 PM
What ever happened to needing eachother, like my grandparents. They love eachother & need the other to create a home for their kids(now grandkids, they taught me more than anyone else) It's a different world now. When your grandparents got together, there was no "out". You got married, you had kids, had grandkids and then you died. I think that even though it says in wedding vows that you take them "in good times and bad" that once the bad times come, no one wants to ride them out. It's unfortunate but the chances of a couple staying together after marriage nowadays is a slim 15%.

Aikido Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 476	Thu 04/10/08 03:40 PM
What ever happened to needing eachother, like my grandparents. They love eachother & need the other to create a home for their kids(now grandkids, they taught me more than anyone else) It's a different world now. When your grandparents got together, there was no "out". You got married, you had kids, had grandkids and then you died. I think that even though it says in wedding vows that you take them "in good times and bad" that once the bad times come, no one wants to ride them out. It's unfortunate but the chances of a couple staying together after marriage nowadays is a slim 15%. Guess I'm old fasihioned, that sounds like narvina to me(Wife & kids running around the house)

JustagirlinMA Joined Wed 04/02/08 Posts: 63	Thu 04/10/08 03:42 PM
What ever happened to needing eachother, like my grandparents. They love eachother & need the other to create a home for their kids(now grandkids, they taught me more than anyone else) It's a different world now. When your grandparents got together, there was no "out". You got married, you had kids, had grandkids and then you died. I think that even though it says in wedding vows that you take them "in good times and bad" that once the bad times come, no one wants to ride them out. It's unfortunate but the chances of a couple staying together after marriage nowadays is a slim 15%. Guess I'm old fasihioned, that sounds like narvina to me(Wife & kids running around the house) You are a very rare gem my friend. Keep looking though, your old fashioned girl is out there looking for you right now.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 04/10/08 03:55 PM Edited by Winx on Thu 04/10/08 03:56 PM
People don't stay together much anymore I was hoping i would have what my grandparents had I tried My parents have their 50th wedding anniversary this summer. And they met on a blind date.

soldierforamerica Joined Wed 10/24/07 Posts: 3813	Thu 04/10/08 03:57 PM
whats wrong with a playa you know your white right? white is only a skin color

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 04/10/08 03:57 PM Edited by Winx on Thu 04/10/08 03:58 PM
What ever happened to needing eachother, like my grandparents. They love eachother & need the other to create a home for their kids(now grandkids, they taught me more than anyone else) It's a different world now. When your grandparents got together, there was no "out". You got married, you had kids, had grandkids and then you died. I think that even though it says in wedding vows that you take them "in good times and bad" that once the bad times come, no one wants to ride them out. It's unfortunate but the chances of a couple staying together after marriage nowadays is a slim 15%. Ummm....I thought it was a tad under 50% that marriage worked the first time around.

Aikido Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 476	Thu 04/10/08 03:59 PM
whats wrong with a playa you know your white right? white is only a skin color What about ignorantance?

soldierforamerica Joined Wed 10/24/07 Posts: 3813	Thu 04/10/08 04:00 PM
ignorance is bliss

Aikido Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 476	Thu 04/10/08 04:03 PM
ignorance is bliss yes it is and slavery, the only real freedom anyone has is making up your own mind. Giving that up is done to quickly nowdays, scary I'm a dying & unwanted breed(a thinker & doer)