Bah! Just lower your standards and come fishing with me

What you have going on is great! No need to troll for a guy. If someone comes along than tada! icing on the cake.

A relationship will not complete you. Your already there.

I wouldn't have to lower my standards with you doll....

Lily
I think along the same lines as you, some people try and tell me that I sabotage any real interest in relationship, because I have high standards and expectation! I see that comment alone as their ignorance. I would not knowingly nor subconsciously ever sabotage any chance of happiness, but by the people I have met, no one has captured my eye nor my interest. Should I start a relationship with these people because they are interested, NOPE and I dont.

I'd rather be alone than in the wrong company and this includes only one party being interested.

Desperate I am not, choosy definitely but I am worth it!!!

That's why your one of the wives.

I didn't word this quite right, (I was in quite a mood yesterday...and spilling over into today unfortunatly) But the guys that do actually catch my eye, you talk, have a good time (IRL and OL) then go somewhere, like I am supposed to follow or something, or request their company. I'm just not that girl.

My friends afford me love, and security, and great times, so for a man to "keep" me, he has to work for it.

I have a friend that I used to work with (no longer do) and we still have lunch once a week or so. He calles me his girlfriend (recently divorced) I tell him"If I was your girlfriend you'd pay." So he tells me "It's by title only, and comes with no benefits." I him.

I'm with you except for the "keep" me part.. lmao
I am not one to be "kept" cause I bore easily
(jk) I dont need the title just the benefits

haha, that's what I told him.....

I guess I was more mature then? I accused you of being homosexual, I think.

I'm not a homosexual... just curious.....

Ya can't argue with having more options, I suppose.

Girl's gotta have options...Stock options, clothing options, shoe options..............

Lowering your standards puts yourself in the path of risk and abuse.

On the contrary, I think that the desperate never really find anybody.

If you're actually happy with yourself, you'll have the true capability to be happy with someone else.

Hell no! Never lower your standards. Now if you meet someone that you think might be worth discarding one or two then by all means go for it. But... have you ever heard the song Settlin' by Sugarland? Listen to it. May become your new theme song

being single or in a relationship boils down to this, Do you want to be lonely or aggravated

Kaseynej, if your still on here, I'm in lust with you my dear, you are very pretty and smokin hot

why are women so looney anyway

being on a relationship site makes us all pretty sad, pathetic and desperate at first glance, I know, "I'm just here for friends and forums" yeah right, most are not, they hope to find someone, but this is a strange place to do it, people on here want to be exclusive and date and have relationships based on phone calls, im's and emails, thats just strange no matter how you look at it. even if you meet, how can you know if so and so is the one for you based on a meet, true love and devoted relationships take a long time to build, the internet tends to make people want to speed up the process, wont work though, people tend to set there standards not only too high, but beyond finding anyone,lots of people on here actl like they are "all that" and more, act like they are perfect and are seeking the perfect one, good luck with that, you will get what you deserve in the long run.