I don't think I'm on that list.

Nope you're not doll....

But I got one emailing me calling me a slut right now, even tho he was the one who offered to "bare all" isn't that funny how when imature men don't get what they want, all of a sudden the woman is a slut.....

I wouldn't know.

I'm sorry I guess I'm really not that good at flirting.

It's not either of you sillys.....

I'd want to get to know you first before I offered to "bare" anything. But maybe that's just me.

That is what respectable adults do...ones who are not retared socially, or bi-polar, which I believe he is.

I just wanna know if you're gonna suck it or not. j/k

Levels out, you make decisions based on your partner as does your partner. I don't think either of them would lower their standards to do so, but compromise would be made so they may both be happy...with that in mind, I think I know why I'm single.

When someone great comes along I will seize the chance but I havent come across that in real life.......maybe I dont go out enough>>>???? Or maybe I just seen whats out there and shun the idea of being stuck with some guy I dont really love? Hmmmmmmmm its all a mystery isnt it???

yes it is for some of us

I do agree with you on the standards and being despirate. Although i do want to be with someone and i am talking about a commeted relationship i do have some standards of what i would like in a partner. I might add at this point when i was married i,we,seldum went to the bar. If i get into a relationship in the futer i will seldum or not at all go to the bar,although i do work at a bar now,and i am not looking for a relationship from a bar persay.

I stoped looking and no one has showed up yet,lol

(((Lily))) This is completely off topic but I just looked at your pic and I have the same comforter!!!

You said it,inmature and probably always will be. I don't think your a slut,infact i think your preaty upstanding.

i wouldn't lower my standards...i think its a package deal so i like to look at the contents of the whole package....finding the right fit is just not that easy....i too am content with my life...and while i do date, i figure at least i can have a good time and maybe make a new friend.....so here's to you and you quest or nonquest

I would like a nice relationship, but if it doesnt happen, I will be fine on my own. I've been fine so far.

The only reason to let someone into your life is to make it better. If you have to lower your standards and compromise yourself, you are not making your life better. So what is the point?

Some guys have gotten pissed at me because I don't seem to care one way or another whether I ever have another relationship. They seem to take it personally if a woman is not willing to do whatever it takes to win them. I don't want "a" man; I want "the" man. Anything else is just a waste of my time and I have precious little of that.