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| Topic: Ya, I know I think too much | |
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 I don't wanna  ..... I feel like I am a 22 year old guy who is perfectly content with hanging out with my friends...
Dates can mean new friends.... Tis true....  this is why I love youdoll.....
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Tis true.... this is why I love you doll.....
I love you too! Besides.... if you don't go out on dates... you'll have less funny stories to tell me. 
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I feel like I am a 22 year old guy.... That can pose a few problems. |
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www.High Expectations.com
J/k
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I feel like I am a 22 year old guy.... That can pose a few problems. I'm glad you're back Jist... I missed you. and yes lillith, I have stories for DAYS about bad dates.... |
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If you do decide to lower your standards some..
I always keep a bookmark of this site for occasions like this. http://mailorderhusbands.net/ |
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If you do decide to lower your standards some.. I always keep a bookmark of this site for occasions like this. http://mailorderhusbands.net/ checking it out as we speak....
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However.... it is not so much a matter of being desperate. It is how much effort you put forth and what your expectations are. If you expect every date to be the one? That might make things hard. [I know you don't, btw] That's what I am saying though, i'm so content in my life that I don't feel the need to put forth any effort. Honestly, I think that's the best way to be noticed by someone looking for a secure, happy woman to date. You're not looking for someone to complete you or help yo combat your loneliness, and the people who want more genuine relationships are going to pick up on that and notice you. |
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I'm no authority,but seems like losin' your glasses..you can't limit youself to one room ya gotta look everywhere or you'll never find em'
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So after long conversations with friends both IRL and online, and being asked "Why are you single?" I realized I am too happy with my life. I don't troll bars, I don't cling on, I would rather have the company of friends. This poses a question in my tiny little head then. Do you have to be despirate to find someone? (No offense to my friends who are in relationships, they are great and awesome) but I think I have to lower my standards to "be" in a relationship. Does anyone else think this way? I think on some level you are a little desperate when you start looking. Though as far as I know, looking never results in finding the one you're supposed to be with. Usually they show up when you stop looking. |
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So after long conversations with friends both IRL and online, and being asked "Why are you single?" I realized I am too happy with my life. I don't troll bars, I don't cling on, I would rather have the company of friends. This poses a question in my tiny little head then. Do you have to be despirate to find someone? (No offense to my friends who are in relationships, they are great and awesome) but I think I have to lower my standards to "be" in a relationship. Does anyone else think this way? I say ... BE HAPPY. DON'T WORRY. WHO GIVES A RAT'S ASS about being in a relationship. If you are at peace, you are where you are supposed to be. Now come have a drink and shoot some pool with me
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I never lower my standards. That's why I often go a year or two between 'relationships'. I don't count a hand full of dates a relationship. Also, that's why just dating a person doesn't last long. Usually, if it seems like just a friendship thing, the other person doesn't want that so we eventually stop talking.
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Be content with who and where you are. NEVER lower your standards. I find no company to be preferable to bad company.
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Be content with who and where you are. NEVER lower your standards. I find no company to be preferable to bad company. I think we got off subject here, i'm not talking about me.... I'm saying in a general sense..... I just gave myself as an example to "write the story" |
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So after long conversations with friends both IRL and online, and being asked "Why are you single?" I realized I am too happy with my life. I don't troll bars, I don't cling on, I would rather have the company of friends. This poses a question in my tiny little head then. Do you have to be despirate to find someone? (No offense to my friends who are in relationships, they are great and awesome) but I think I have to lower my standards to "be" in a relationship. Does anyone else think this way? I do
Sometimes I kinda wonder if my standards are realistic or too high though, then I get to wondering, am I just lonely or bored? |
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Be content with who and where you are. NEVER lower your standards. I find no company to be preferable to bad company. I think we got off subject here, i'm not talking about me.... I'm saying in a general sense..... I just gave myself as an example to "write the story" I think that advice could apply to anybody, no? |
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Do you have to be desperate to find someone? (No offense to my friends who are in relationships, they are great and awesome) but I think I have to lower my standards to "be" in a relationship. Does anyone else think this way? you don't have to be desperate to find someone! You have to be desperate to marry them!
All kidding aside. Desperation is detrimental to any type of healthy relationship. A feeling of need like that is not consistent with mutual caring but only with dependence and fear. To have a great relationship, one needs the complete *absence* of any desperation...that is...confidence in other...complete confidence and security. 
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Lily...you mean to tell me that those emails from guys who wanna have cyber sex with you are not keepers?
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Lily...you mean to tell me that those emails from guys who wanna have cyber sex with you are not keepers?
Including you sir....
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Lily...you mean to tell me that those emails from guys who wanna have cyber sex with you are not keepers?
Including you sir....
That was one time.
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