Topic: The Big Question Is?
Wolfeyes58's photo
Fri 04/04/08 03:43 PM
The Big Question Is?

I have pondered
And wondered
Contemplating my thoughts,
I've rendered
And surrended
All that I've sought.

The big what if
Seems so stiff
She decides to come back,
Should I take her in
Or just be a friend
Keep my dignity intact?

The old saying goes
And it really shows
Who the one is to blame,
I've been hurt once
Twice to the punch
Will I ever win this game?

DanielBilliam's photo
Fri 04/04/08 03:53 PM
Another big question is what would happen if you ate corn for an entire week? Would you crap nothing but corn?

Or how about telling me what "crips" think of santa claus

When you delete your recycling bin, where does it go?

If your car is traveling at the speed of light do your headlights work?

I do like your poem

Wolfeyes58's photo
Fri 04/04/08 03:55 PM

Another big question is what would happen if you ate corn for an entire week? Would you crap nothing but corn?

Or how about telling me what "crips" think of santa claus

When you delete your recycling bin, where does it go?

If your car is traveling at the speed of light do your headlights work?

I do like your poem

Uhhhhh thanks I think....you do have some pondering questions yourself.

ominousman26's photo
Fri 04/04/08 03:56 PM
my big question is...should i get soup or salad?laugh

Wolfeyes58's photo
Fri 04/04/08 04:01 PM

my big question is...should i get soup or salad?laugh

If it makes the answer easier...

ArtGurl's photo
Fri 04/04/08 04:02 PM
Perhaps you are 'thinking' too much ... flowerforyou

There is who you think you are ... and there is who you truly are ...


One lives in the head ... the other in the heart


:heart:

Wolfeyes58's photo
Fri 04/04/08 04:07 PM

Perhaps you are 'thinking' too much ... flowerforyou

There is who you think you are ... and there is who you truly are ...


One lives in the head ... the other in the heart


:heart:

I'm just wondering if I should go with my heart or finally come to my senses Sherrie...I'm getting over the hurt, now just wondering if I should take her back if she comes back.

ArtGurl's photo
Fri 04/04/08 04:11 PM


Perhaps you are 'thinking' too much ... flowerforyou

There is who you think you are ... and there is who you truly are ...


One lives in the head ... the other in the heart


:heart:

I'm just wondering if I should go with my heart or finally come to my senses Sherrie...I'm getting over the hurt, now just wondering if I should take her back if she comes back.


we can spend a lifetime's worth of energy on 'what if' ... live today ... in this moment ... flowerforyou

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 04/04/08 04:16 PM
Never let the what if's guide you, if it happens then make the choice then which I may say only you can make that choice. I know at times that sounds like a cop out but... only you know what you both have been through and where your heart is but don't forget to let your mind speak as well.flowerforyou

Wolfeyes58's photo
Fri 04/04/08 04:17 PM

Never let the what if's guide you, if it happens then make the choice then which I may say only you can make that choice. I know at times that sounds like a cop out but... only you know what you both have been through and where your heart is but don't forget to let your mind speak as well.flowerforyou

Thanks Kristi....When that time comes...we will see.


And thanks again Sherrie.

pkh's photo
Fri 04/04/08 04:18 PM
awww Robert wish I had the answers for you,glad your back and only you can answer that.Have missed you and your words.Think you gave me some advice on this awhile back...hugs

Redsoxfan1's photo
Fri 04/04/08 04:18 PM
I think from reading this that you SHOULD try and let her go completely Robert, if she hurt you like that, you don't need any reminders at all!flowerforyou I was in your shoes before, cut her out completely!flowerforyou :heart: (just being truthful!)

Wolfeyes58's photo
Fri 04/04/08 06:03 PM

awww Robert wish I had the answers for you,glad your back and only you can answer that.Have missed you and your words.Think you gave me some advice on this awhile back...hugs

I think everyone is right...I shouldn't have put this on the shelf for everyone to see....just for me to decide...but I appreciate your sweet words.

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Fri 04/04/08 06:29 PM
flowerforyou (((Robert))) flowerforyou

LAMom's photo
Fri 04/04/08 08:18 PM
:heart: Robert :heart:

The answer is within you,,, Take the time you need .. flowerforyou

I enjoyed our conversation tonight,, Just remember always,, I love you and adore our friendship,, I want you to be happy,,, then and only then can you see, feel and Live life to the fullest,,, Life is too short sweetie,, Be you Be happy,, Live,,,

Hugs sweetie,,,
:heart: flowerforyou

Wolfeyes58's photo
Sat 04/05/08 06:35 AM

:heart: Robert :heart:

The answer is within you,,, Take the time you need .. flowerforyou

I enjoyed our conversation tonight,, Just remember always,, I love you and adore our friendship,, I want you to be happy,,, then and only then can you see, feel and Live life to the fullest,,, Life is too short sweetie,, Be you Be happy,, Live,,,

Hugs sweetie,,,
:heart: flowerforyou
I too enjoyed our conversation Denise and will love you and hold your friendship close. I will be happy, I will be strong and the decision will be easy after the healing. Not when I'm vulnerable. :heart: :heart: :heart:

Wolfeyes58's photo
Sat 04/05/08 06:35 AM

flowerforyou (((Robert))) flowerforyou

Thanks for the hugs Susan...I surely could use them right now.

lacileo1's photo
Sat 04/05/08 06:41 AM
You write from my heart too. So many unanswered questions. Feel as if in a limbo area. It's hard when the head and the heart are arguing as to what to do.

The answer will come in time flowerforyou (at least I hope it does for you and for me)