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If you join the forums, you will make friends. It just works that way. Some find love too. Welcome.
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Edited by
romance1
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Thu 07/09/09 02:41 PM
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I have answered already but my post was deleted. Probably because they thought it was rude. Sorry, the truth hurts sometimes.
Now i will try to tell you that in a polite form. Ok, here we go: Where were you before? All the good men are married already honey. They were not waiting for you for some reasons. Do you know when are ladies supposed to marry? I am sure you do. Before they reach 30 at least. You are the middle eastern so you should know about this very well. Your men probably warned you about tis but you did not listen to them that is why now you are 45 and single. Good luck in your search. |
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I have answered already but my post was deleted. Probably because they thought it was rude. Sorry, the truth hurts sometimes. Now i will try to tell you that in a polite form. Ok, here we go: Where were you before? All the good men are married already honey. They were not waiting for you for some reasons. Do you know when are ladies supposed to marry? I am sure you do. Before they reach 30 at least. You are the middle eastern so you should know about this very well. Your men probably warned you about tis but you did not listen to them that is why now you are 45 and single. Good luck in your search. wrong. 
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Some are out there chasing 25-35 yr olds only to find out they become the "old man" of the peer group. I can attest to that
 I don't know where I should be, too busy with being a mom, dad, taxi, home maintenance guy, etc..etc..
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Edited by
SPRINGBREEZ
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Tue 08/04/09 06:25 AM
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I have answered already but my post was deleted. Probably because they thought it was rude. Sorry, the truth hurts sometimes. Now i will try to tell you that in a polite form. Ok, here we go: Where were you before? All the good men are married already honey. They were not waiting for you for some reasons. Do you know when are ladies supposed to marry? I am sure you do. Before they reach 30 at least. You are the middle eastern so you should know about this very well. Your men probably warned you about tis but you did not listen to them that is why now you are 45 and single. Good luck in your search. I haven't read the reply that you are saying was deleted. Can I remind you that just because I come from Middle east we all should not get married in our 20's at least not in my family. More to the point that alot of people whom got married soon as you've suggested above statistically just live together produce kids and commit adultery and that is a fact, because a lot of those good men that you referred being married hit on me hundred times in the past, some times even with their wife being present!! No thank you I don't mean those men!! I wanted to have a life like that I could have married years ago, for me a partner is some one to who is my best friend, lover,confidant, through thick and thin. Please don't feel sorry for me, because I am 45 and single because I assure you that I have had a good life and some good boy friends,actually since turning in to my 40's young good looking guys have been interested and I experienced some lovely times with them but don't mind to find a life partner with whom to enjoy my life better, not just a man with baggage, and problems to call him my Husband. |
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We have been burnt too many times by you crazy women, so you make a move first.
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crazy women
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crazy women
Not always a bad thing... |
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We have been burnt too many times by you crazy women, so you make a move first. I am not crazy  Ok...maybe a LITTLE crazy 
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I joined this site in hope of getting to know more people! and may be to find somebody to bond with and eventually to share my life with, but what is going on?? isn't there any body with the same view on this site? 
WE ALL view it from THIS SIDE of our monitor,,,wink,lol |
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I don't know
I have met some of the nicest men EVA here I could list them but that wouldn't be fair to the others! Ya know nice people just find Each other !!! 
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well did you meet any more new people you did not know before? Have you been posting regularly? Do you communicate with anyone on a regular basis so you can get to know each other better? If you are doing all these things then what is the problem as it seems to me you get what you put into this site in general.
I do not even have a photo of myself online and have met new people and type to them. I have even met one in person and took her out to eat in real life. There are plenty of people on here that are nice and real and your age as well. |
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What happended to the good men ages 35-55 huh? Well, part of the men that age will be completely jaded by now, either through lack of luck (like me) or because some other woman ruined him for the rest of you (i.e. divorce). That's just part of them though. You see, a truly honest to god good man is easy to find, you probably already know one, but just can't see him. He's that guy that's attentive to you, helps you out when you need it, sometimes shows up with pizza and beer just to watch movies with you. Oh, you probably tell the gals "he's just a friend," but I bet if you asked, he's dying to go out with you. Now a woman's first response is usually "I don't feel that way about him." But in fact, most ladies just have never thought of having those feelings for that type of guy, and a friendship is a great place to start a relationship. So, that's where you find a few more of the "good" ones. Another place to find them, church. I'm not saying become a religious zealot by any means. But some people need the inner peace derived from sitting in a large room with 200 strangers. Meditation helps no matter where you do it, but some need that. These good men, probably aren't even on the internet dating sights. Might not have the self confidence to do it. Just remember, most truly good men have had some person in the past take complete advantage of there soft hearts, and then dump the like a bad habit when something that only appeared better came into view. These men will be cautious, emotionally conservative and rather quiet. They know they can be easily hurt and are less likely to put themselves into situations where it can happen again. If you feel you're having to wait for a guy to come around, odds are, he's a good one. Be patient, and a little agressive, you'll bag him. YEAH, what he said... Exactly what he said... 
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SPRING, put the shoe on the other foot girl, i feel your pain. this site is like the lamest site ive ever been on. a lot of unsociable stuckup girls here. snap *&^%$#$@ like are all you girls on that time of the month, at the same time ??? lol i hear you JOHN, and tbrich imdn nice girls are RARE. TAKES TIME, too meet people hear. lol rofl lmfao yea rightttt like what 6 months. got to be crazy to be here. like one flew over the cuckoo nest lol
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SPRING, put the shoe on the other foot girl, i feel your pain. this site is like the lamest site ive ever been on. a lot of unsociable stuckup girls here. snap *&^%$#$@ like are all you girls on that time of the month, at the same time ??? lol i hear you JOHN, and tbrich imdn nice girls are RARE. TAKES TIME, too meet people hear. lol rofl lmfao yea rightttt like what 6 months. got to be crazy to be here. like one flew over the cuckoo nest lol
WHOA WHOA WHOA, There are a lot of nice lovely ladies on this site. Talk to them to be friends, don't try to jump in their pants. Some of them don't want to date, they only want friends, read thier profile before you jump in and start asking...Then you wont get the stuck up answers.. |
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You guys are still quoting me? You should have stopped that long ago. I've seen that copied and pasted many times and you know what? No one paid any attention any time you did it.
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WHOA WHOA WHOA, There are a lot of nice lovely ladies on this site. Thank you John |
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SPRING, put the shoe on the other foot girl, i feel your pain. this site is like the lamest site ive ever been on. a lot of unsociable stuckup girls here. snap *&^%$#$@ like are all you girls on that time of the month, at the same time ??? lol i hear you JOHN, and tbrich imdn nice girls are RARE. TAKES TIME, too meet people hear. lol rofl lmfao yea rightttt like what 6 months. got to be crazy to be here. like one flew over the cuckoo nest lol
WHOA WHOA WHOA, There are a lot of nice lovely ladies on this site. Talk to them to be friends, don't try to jump in their pants. Some of them don't want to date, they only want friends, read thier profile before you jump in and start asking...Then you wont get the stuck up answers.. 
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You guys are still quoting me? You should have stopped that long ago. I've seen that copied and pasted many times and you know what? No one paid any attention any time you did it. sorry that was just begging to be quoted |
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You guys are still quoting me? You should have stopped that long ago. I've seen that copied and pasted many times and you know what? No one paid any attention any time you did it. sorry that was just begging to be quoted No need to apologize, you were just doing what you thought best. It's just that I now realize it's not them, it's me. I'm just not visible to the single female. I think that once a woman is wearing a gold band with a diamond in it I become visible, must be a reation with the gold. I found out that women can't hear me when I ask them out. I didn't realize that. For years I just figured that they didn't like me or were ignoring me. Turns out the "no" that I so frequently got, was just natural reaction. One of the women I had asked out recently revealed this information to me. You see shortly before her wedding, like all betrothed people, she was giddy with matchmaking. So she says to me one day "you know you should find yourself a good woman." I replied "****, you wouldn't go out with me when I asked you out, why would you think some other woman would?" To wit she retorted "when did you ever ask me out?" After giving her no less than for examples of when I asked her out she simply said "I kind of remember talking about that with you, but I didn't realize you were asking me out." A couple of days later it hit me, women just can't hear me (or apparently see me, but that's another story), I apparently am just too good of a friend to think of in "that way." Hence, a guy like me can never successfully ask a woman out, so any advice I may or may not have on the subject could only be a wrong answer. |
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