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Sat 06/13/15 12:53 AM


He approach me first. So, i decided to walk in his life without second thought and never ask myself how i feel for him. Because, all i think is maybe he like me. When i notice that later on, he doesnt care about my presence. Now, i wonder if i like him.
oops


This leads me to a bigger question -

Should I live with someone I love or with one who loves me?

But what is your question?


Your talking about one-sided love. Its not gonna work. Both of you, will going to suffer in a relationship.

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Sat 06/13/15 12:35 AM
He approach me first. So, i decided to walk in his life without second thought and never ask myself how i feel for him. Because, all i think is maybe he like me. When i notice that later on, he doesnt care about my presence. Now, i wonder if i like him.
oops

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Mon 06/08/15 06:36 AM
Edited by miles143 on Mon 06/08/15 06:38 AM

Can't say I have but I wish you happiness.

Whenever I want answers to random questions I usualy Google it ohwell






Thanks. smile2
Good for you. You have nothing to worry with all of your questions.

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Mon 06/08/15 06:07 AM
Have you ever had this feeling that you dont know where to put yourself? You dont know what you really want and who you want to be with. Theres a random question in your mind but you can't find answers. Its sucks, isn't it? There is someone who are sincerely trying their best to make you happy but still you keep looking on the other way around to find the happiness. Its kind of weird. But i feel this moment at finding myself. I just wanna know if somebody has an experienced like this. Its so confusing.

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Thu 06/04/15 05:23 PM

The only time I ever feel it is better to tell someone is if you have deceived them and they were building their image of the relationship around that lie. To me truth is always easier to accept that trying to unravel lies.


Yes, i agree with you. Its more easier to go on with your life if you know the truth and you have closure in the relationship.

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Thu 06/04/15 04:52 PM

It's a common human trait to want answers. When my ex wife and I were going through our divorce she never would fully admit why she wanted the divorce. I figured out that she had an affair and I did wonder why she would never talk to me about it (since I felt she owed it to me). But after a while I finally came to the realization that sometimes not getting an answer is sufficient. But that's just me.


If thats your wife, then she got all the chance to tell you honestly about it. Waiting an answer and find it on our own is a long process. But then, being patience just to get the answer that we wanted is a virtue.

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Thu 06/04/15 04:41 PM

well said
I would also add that sometime they do tell you why they are leaving or that they are leaving you just don't always get the note
or don't want to see or hear it as it happens.




Sometimes, they dont speak it out specifically. Because they think that you'd probably understand. But the fact is, we all want an explanation to clarify everything. And i guess, only numb person who can't see or feel enough.

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Thu 06/04/15 06:13 AM

it is a very odd phenomenon. I come from a small town, went to small schools up thru undergrad school. I never encountered this type of behavior until I moved away from home and was divorced years later. So it is either something accepted in the midwest, or times have changed.




You forgot something. Feelings has changed too in unexpected way. and when that time comes, they dont know how to deal with it.

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Thu 06/04/15 06:13 AM

it is a very odd phenomenon. I come from a small town, went to small schools up thru undergrad school. I never encountered this type of behavior until I moved away from home and was divorced years later. So it is either something accepted in the midwest, or times have changed.




You forgot something. Feelings has changed too in unexpected way. and when that time comes, they dont know how to deal with it.

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Thu 06/04/15 05:43 AM

I think not telling someone why, hurts much more than telling them why. I'd want to know the reason. A man or woman, who just never comes back, without explaining why, is dodgy. And if they see each other, in the street one day, I'm sure the one who left, will try to make up some sort of excuse, as long as it sounds decent. "Can we be friends? After what YOU did to me? No. We definitely can't. Goodbye". That's all I'd say to him and I'd walk off holding my head up high. After all, he chose to leave.


Wow! what you said to him is awesome. Its a slap on his face. Nice one.:thumbsup:

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Thu 06/04/15 05:28 AM


You have every right to leave someone.
But atleast tell them why!
Because what hurts more than being left, is knowing that you're not worth an explanation of why they left you.
I can certainly sympathize with you cause that has happened to me before. It is their own cowardly way of dealing with leaving you. hope you find the one who will treat you right. flowerforyou


i know someone who said that, some of men are just shy to tell frankly if they dont like the girl anymore. But you are right, they're just coward. Those kind of person are not man enough to tell the truth. But im not generalizing about everything.

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Thu 06/04/15 05:15 AM

That feeling really sucks.when you just assume it's totally over and there's no closure in ur relationship.and you got the surprise of ur life when you found out he already deleted and blocked you in social network sites without any explanation what's your fault.he ignores your calls and messages but still keeps you in Skype.you want to hate him but you still love that jerk.your getting hurt in the process but you still have a soft spot for him in your heart.moving on is easier said than done.

oh well,life.but I do believe in karma....what goes around,comes around.


yeah. right! karma is always around. the problem with other guys are they are dying to get you in the first place. And when they dont like you anymore. They just left you hanging.

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Thu 06/04/15 05:10 AM

flowerforyou i hope you find closure...
:thumbsup:
i hope so.

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Thu 06/04/15 05:00 AM

I had this feeling before


that moment, you dont know what to do. You keep questioning yourself why it happened like that or like this.

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Thu 06/04/15 02:20 AM


You have every right to leave someone.
But atleast tell them why!
Because what hurts more than being left, is knowing that you're not worth an explanation of why they left you.
there the ones not worth it,,sounds like thay have alot of growing up to do,hang in there and move on,,,,


Of course, moving on is the best thing to do. Its one of the choice we have after we are being left.

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Thu 06/04/15 01:50 AM
You have every right to leave someone.
But atleast tell them why!
Because what hurts more than being left, is knowing that you're not worth an explanation of why they left you.

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Fri 05/29/15 02:50 AM


Having a fair complexion and black skin doesn't make you less beautiful.
You know why?
Because you can't see the beauty of the stars, without the darkness in the night. ;)


well said I have never understood 'race' attraction either since each race has billions with a billion different combinations of features

but, as someone else said, noone is going to be EVERYONES Type and if people so choose to eliminate a billion people from their potential pool because of their ancestry(or skin color) its their loss

not yours,,,flowerforyou


waving i believe that there are some people who driscriminate black person and i dont understand why. We are both humans.

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Fri 05/29/15 02:27 AM

We need more text walls on here..:thumbsup:


yeah.. i guess so :)

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Thu 05/28/15 04:19 PM

She's 86 actually but still a stripper and porn star, according to her.

http://butthatsnoneofmybusiness.com/86-year-old-grandma-becomes-a-stripper


oh my god! unbelievable.
this is really happening to her. well, she did what makes her happy.

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Thu 05/28/15 04:04 PM
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