He approach me first. So, i decided to walk in his life without second thought and never ask myself how i feel for him. Because, all i think is maybe he like me. When i notice that later on, he doesnt care about my presence. Now, i wonder if i like him.

This leads me to a bigger question -

Should I live with someone I love or with one who loves me?

But what is your question?

Well, do you?

All the more reasons to go slow. Nothing forbids communicating for a good while without engagement and nothing forbids dating for a couple of years or more to be somewhat sure that it's a relationship worth making efforts for.

Your talking about one-sided love. Its not gonna work. Both of you, will going to suffer in a relationship.

Hmm."..i still thinking about it.

Lol...if you like him, you like him. If you don't, then you don't.

If he doesn't care about your presence at all...no sense in complicating the meaning of "like"...

He doesn't care of your presence,make him care by your absence nah i think this person don't really like you but he just dont want to hurt you..truth hurts but we should accept it.

You have a point.

or maybe he like me before but you know people change.

So maybe you both need to talk.

That's right..guess you have answered your own question.

smart guy. i never think that, until you give me a clue.

Sometimes people are over-friendly. I'm not sure if he's into you. Maybe he was just extra happy the day he approached you. Maybe he's good at hiding his feelings. If you feel you need to be around him more, it will have to come from YOU, as even I'M not sure how he feels about you. It's up to you to try to win him over. Is he worth the effort?

Thank you for this. I dont know if his worth the effort, but i'll try to observe :)

Know thyself woman
next time take time in beginning
and every step way and ask
yourself how you feel

It's the walk of life..

I'm trying to figure out what exactly HAPPENED.

A guy "approach you first"? "I think he like me"??

What the heck does that mean?

"When i notice that later on, he doesnt care about my presence. "

Not meaning to pick on your English, or your way of expressing things, I just really don't know what you are talking about.

In particular, what I am getting from this VERY sparsely described situation, is that when this guy showed interest in you, and made some unique effort to pursue you, you ASSUMED that there was a hell of a lot of meaning and depth of understanding of you as a person, behind the fact that he approached you. As in, that he somehow knew all about you, and wanted everything about you in his life.

If that's the case, then you assumed way too much. People approach and date other people to FIND OUT all that stuff, not because they "know it" somehow.

As for later, when he seems not to care about your presence, that too might be due to you ASSUMING a lot of meaning where there is almost none.

For one thing, with some of us, when we develop confidence in another person, and like being with them, we don't always show it ostentatiously. In fact, the more comfortable they are with you, the less they will show it. It's the leading cause of nonsense like the "I wish you behaved more like you did when we were dating" crap.

But on the other hand, some people are so caught up in their own assumptions, as soon as you do what they expect of you, they treat you like baggage.

All in all, a relationship based on a boatload of assumptions, is likely to suffer big bumps. BIG bumps.

But I can't tell what's really going on with yours, because there's not enough to go on.