I am looking for a man who understands the love in the movie "The Notebook". Even though my friends say it is just a movie, I believe that it can be real. Without all that drama. I'm talking the deep love he has for her.
Is there any man that gets it? If you live in the corner of South-eastern Wisconsin I would love to talk with you.

yeah....ummm....what's love?

Sorry didn't see the movie. Sounds complicated, but Love usually is.
Good Luck

That was a wonderful movie...I have given that movie as an add on to wedding gifts... hopefully they got the message.

I love that movie,and its not just a movie.I have that kind of love,and so do a few other ppl I know.so don't give up,it's possible

See that is what is wrong with relationships. Think with you the heart not your other parts.

Well I kind of like the lady with red dress on.

I've seen bits and pieces of that movie, but I hope to find that love some day. It's not out there, but in you.

Not talking about the sex sences either got your mind in the gutter.There is a good story to that movie.

Very true, it is not out there but in you. It is in me. I can give this love. Just looking for a man who also has it in him...that is hard to find.

My mind is not in the gutter with regards to this movie. I am the kind of woman who looks beyond the physical. Not say that it does not count. But in the long haul of things, it is the affair of the heart that matters most.

Think with your heart....but believe in some Hollywood fantasy???

What is wrong in relationships is that too many people DO believe in that Hollywood fantasy and find that real life just doesn't live up to it.

Then they get disappointed and start looking for the fantasy all over again. Only to be continuously disappointed.

I guess it's good to wish for the best

but applying a work of fiction as your goal is kind of a exercise in futility

Very interesting. I do not find the love that is expressed in this movie is a fanatsy. In the line of work I am I see many couples and I have seen this love many times. So it does exist and that is why I long for it. if I were to long for fantasy I would long for a man who only looked as though he stepped of the cover of a movie screen and who always knew exactly what to say and do. That is not what I look for. Just a true, deep, committed love that will endure. Guess to much to ask of some men. That is why I am still looking.

I agree if that was what I am doing. Have you seen the movie? Are you trying to tell me that there are no men out there who can love a women as this man loves her? On that point I would also disagree. I have seen it many times. As I have seen other love that isn't as deep. But dating is a process. I just choose not to settle for what will not make me happy and in turn not make the relationship work. What has happened that people do not believe in this.

Real life is not like the movies.

Duh!!! Ok men. I know life is not like the movies. Please, if it were all us ladies would be so luv struck that these sights would be dead. What I am saying is the love that the couple shared in "The Notebook" is not just in the movies and I want to know where there is a guy who gets it. Have you seen the movie?
I am not expecting prince charming or Romeo, or even Brad Pitt's younger body. I am not asking for a physical thing. This is an emotional thing. If you can't understand what it is I am saying than my point is made. Men need to get a clue. I am not the only women who so much desires this connection with her man. Sit down watch the movie start to finish and see if you get it.
Trust me, when I find it that will be the luckiest man alive. I have so much to offer him.

The point is some women ARE expecting love to be like it is in the movies. And it's not. They ARE looking for "Prince Charming". And no man is "Prince Charming". When they find that life doesn't follow the script they have written in their heads they bail. Men aren't the only ones who need to "get a clue".

Point made and I agree. Just noting that I am not that women.

The book and the movie were fantastic.

Nicholas Sparks is pretty much the only romantic type material I will read.

As far as I'm concerned, the man understands women, what it means to care for a family, and shows that sacrifice and sensivity is not a sign of weakness in a real man.