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Hi samantha. It is so unfutunate that some men are still no more what the claim to be. Just dry your tears and move on, you will see better and more responsible men only if you stick 2 JESUS OUR LORD AND SAVIOUR for direction. Meanwhile he never appreciated u for who you are, probably u showed him more love and trusted him more and he took it for granted. I would not want you to give up on trusting men or your man because he was not made for you that is why when he gets drunk the real him unveils, but would you agree with that no experience is lost? If yes then you will be better in your next relationship. So take care and always be a good girl. Not everyone is a Christian. Don't jesus preach. 
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Tue 10/05/10 07:39 PM
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I just ask to see them naked first! I want to see the size of the member, make sure you are circumsized, shaved below the belt, and with no other chest or body hair. Then there is the performance evaluation!
Once a man passes those tests then it's on like Donky Kong!!! 
 Sorry! 
Seriously, just be yourself and take things slowly. I know that sounds cliché but "real" works, and being comfortable are paramount! Listen to you intuition. If something doesn’t seem right, analyze how you feel. You are going to make mistakes; that’s ok. Learn from your mistakes though. If I could do it all over again, I wouldn't THINK of getting into a relationship until I finished my master's degree. Boys got in the way of my education and it took me too long to finish my bachelor's and I am just now finished with my master's - 24 years later. I also would have traveled more. I didn't even know myself or about the world. How could I expect to be in a relationship?? It’s like the dumb leading the dumb. It's not supposed to grow back! Why shave only once? Maintenance! It doesn't itch if a person cares for the skin properly and shaves at least every other day. Women do it every day. It's not rocket science.
No one wants to run their tongue along hairy skin no matter where it is on the body.  
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looks or brains?
Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Tue 10/05/10 07:31 PM
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Well Maybie idd wear a suit. but the be with him part better com quick cause idd just be thinking about taking the damn thing off the entire time. Necked is soooo much better than suited anyhow. High fashion doesn't necessarily mean a suit. Check out Michael Kors, Dolce and Gabbana, et al, and their casual line. Hot and comfy clothes!! |
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looks or brains?
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I updated his wardrobe from the 90's (at his own request) and he not only appealed to me due to his intelligence but also physically. A well dressed man can melt a room and if he has confidence to boot he may just be unstoppable. I agree also. I can't handle someone without fashion sense and who is void of a modern couture vibe. Some people are catwalk material but are hiding in their horrible clothes and style!
Seriously though - the renewed confidence can melt a room when a person walks in dressed to the nines. If they are stupid, they won't get a chance at a make-over anyway.
So, we loop back to being the whole package!!!! A person can have it all! 
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looks or brains?
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All of it - the whole package.
I don't believe in settling, compromising or having to barter my affection towards someone. I was single for 10 years and kept waiting, and waiting. It was worth it.
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Ego much?! She gets jealous because you are better looking then her?! Lmao! What do you do, strut like a rooster and crow about it? Snap! I missed that one! That is a little chauvinistic and misogynous. 
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new on this site
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I don’t rate profiles or pix. I do, however, offer feedback.
Your main pic is not very flattering. Your sunglasses block your eyes, and the pic is too far away. An ideal pic would be closer, with a smile (show ‘em you have nice teeth), without a hat (show ‘em you have hair), and without sunglasses so your eyes are visible. Join the forums to meet active members! Yayy!! 
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Its nice to know I got so much support hopefully I will find a good woman You don't need us or support.
You are better off figuring life out yourself.
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how young is too young?
Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Tue 10/05/10 04:57 PM
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This question is too subjective with too many variables.
For me, I only date guys 12-15 years my junior. I vibe much better with younger men. I’ve met 50 years old who have the mentality of a 5 year old; conversely, I’ve met 23 year olds who have their lives together, and could easily be a more responsible adult. |
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Tue 10/05/10 04:25 PM
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lol, playing cards is one of my passions (yes, I do make money doing it- Live and Online). This particular picture was taken at local poker tournament, because my good buddy needed to get quite few pictures for one his performing arts classes. I live five miles from AC and I know a few people who make good money playing poker for a living. Most end up losing their poker money at the other casino games. If you can win at poker and not lose the money to other house games then it sounds like a fun life. Still, a better picture might help you in the searching for a date department. I think many women see poker as pure gambling and will think you are someone who will lose the rent money. Do you not have any pictures of yourself in front of the bathroom mirror while holding up your cell phone camera? Like they do on myspace? Oh gawd! Not the myspace illness!
Hmm, I'm not sure which is worse: shirtless, bathroom mirror pic with cell phone or gambling addict? How about just a nice, straight forward smile, right? (just not in "mom's" basement with Star Wars toys).
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there are all kinds of relationships, friendship is a relationship..start there and see if it develops into something more intimate..
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why
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Melody, life is good. Big smile for you 
MIKE!!!!  
Are you happy??? You look radient Very much so! I hope you are well my friend! Miss you! |
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No showing of hoo haws or thingamabobbers. Sometimes my thingamaboobers just wanna show up to the party!
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Melody, life is good. Big smile for you
MIKE!!!!
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to quote MJ and PM ' there is good and bad in everyone' Who is MJ and PM?? |
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I've had this happen more than one and I don't have time to always go out to the bars and go out and date so im not being a drama queen im just asking if anyone else experiences this crap Well, there's your problem. You meet girls at bars!  
I didn't mean to offend you. I have the "pull up your big boy/girl pants and move on” attitude.
I'm one of those few people that rolls my eyes at "whiney" posts or "why, why, why". I am not very patient with airing issues nor am I the type to coddle, pat someone on the back and say, "its ok". I stand by my advice though. If you keep having these problems you need to look at yourself and the decisions you make. Take control of your life. If you are dating bimbos then either change it – or date them and don’t complain about it. (jk!!!) I’m being a schmartie pants.
I will say that knowing you have a problem is the first step to fixing it! Yayy!!
I'm sure someone can offer advice who has been there. |
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why
Edited by
MelodyGirl
on
Tue 10/05/10 03:39 PM
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Don't get involved with drama queens. What you described is not normal and sounds nonsensically dysfunctional.
Take responsibility for the type of girl you are dating and make a change. Raise your dating standards to avoid those situations - maybe with a girl who has more going on in her life than you; education, volunteering, etc. I can't believe adults would carry on like that ...
Drama is evil. Even this post is a lil bit 'o drama.
I wish you better choices in dating. Learn from your mistakes!
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Hey Chris, welcome to Mingle. You should go to the new members section and check it out. Be sure to read the rules. The forums are really more for discussion but the site has cool tools to meet locals in your area. Hope this helps. I'm Julie, your cruise director. 
The Looooove boat! Exciting and new .....
Wanna be Issacc? Can I be Gopher? Yes!!
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to all the ladies
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I've never been to know to "get at" anyone but I will welcome you to Mingle!!
That's not what the bathroom wall says Melody 
Lies! All LIES!!!
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hi all
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Welcome
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