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Topic: Best way to start a relationship.
ethan1100's photo
Mon 10/04/10 02:07 PM
I'm 19 and I have never been in a relationship. I was wondering from people with experience, where do you start?

EquusDancer's photo
Mon 10/04/10 02:13 PM
By starting a conversation to see if that's the sort of person you are even interested in!

buttons's photo
Mon 10/04/10 02:14 PM
find someone you are physically attracted to.. has to be something there.... and secondly get to know them as a friend. find out if you are compatible, <enjoy some same interests, have same ideas about things or goals> and can be mentally attracted to as well.. if all apply ask them on a date.

ethan1100's photo
Mon 10/04/10 08:23 PM
Thanks...Hooyah

Goofball73's photo
Mon 10/04/10 08:30 PM
Ask for her SSN#, urine sample, and ask how her 401K is doing these days.

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 10/04/10 08:40 PM
It all starts with the first Hello....... then you go from there conversation is a must and just being yourself....bigsmile

ethan1100's photo
Tue 10/05/10 12:58 PM
This sounds like useful information. Thanks ladies.

KellyCutie09's photo
Tue 10/05/10 01:58 PM
My best relationships have been with someone I was friends with first. We started hanging out a lot and our feelings got stronger. But once your in the relationship, don't change. Don't act all controlling or jealous if she has other friends. Be yourself and let them get to know you before you ask for more

MeChrissy2's photo
Tue 10/05/10 02:41 PM

Ask for her SSN#, urine sample, and ask how her 401K is doing these days.


If she says her 401K is doing great, she's a dingbat and take a pass. Other than that a smile and nice hello work wonders.:wink:

MelodyGirl's photo
Tue 10/05/10 02:49 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Tue 10/05/10 02:55 PM
I just ask to see them naked first!

I want to see the size of the member, make sure you are circumsized, shaved below the belt, and with no other chest or body hair.

Then there is the performance evaluation! winking

Once a man passes those tests then it's on like Donky Kong!!! laugh

oops Sorry! :laughing:

Seriously, just be yourself and take things slowly. I know that sounds cliché but "real" works, and being comfortable are paramount! Listen to you intuition. If something doesn’t seem right, analyze how you feel.

You are going to make mistakes; that’s ok. Learn from your mistakes though.

If I could do it all over again, I wouldn't THINK of getting into a relationship until I finished my master's degree. Boys got in the way of my education and it took me too long to finish my bachelor's and I am just now finished with my master's - 24 years later. I also would have traveled more. I didn't even know myself or about the world. How could I expect to be in a relationship?? It’s like the dumb leading the dumb.

no photo
Tue 10/05/10 04:09 PM
there are all kinds of relationships, friendship is a relationship..start there and see if it develops into something more intimate..

MelodyGirl's photo
Tue 10/05/10 04:20 PM

there are all kinds of relationships, friendship is a relationship..start there and see if it develops into something more intimate..


:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

chelsea466's photo
Tue 10/05/10 05:17 PM

I just ask to see them naked first!

I want to see the size of the member, make sure you are circumsized, shaved below the belt, and with no other chest or body hair.

Then there is the performance evaluation! winking

Once a man passes those tests then it's on like Donky Kong!!! laugh

oops Sorry! :laughing:

Seriously, just be yourself and take things slowly. I know that sounds cliché but "real" works, and being comfortable are paramount! Listen to you intuition. If something doesn’t seem right, analyze how you feel.

You are going to make mistakes; that’s ok. Learn from your mistakes though.



Well said Melody! ^^ Deffinitly This ^^

flawlessmeans's photo
Tue 10/05/10 06:47 PM

I'm 19 and I have never been in a relationship. I was wondering from people with experience, where do you start?
Show her your penis if that doesnt catch her fined better bate or just give her a kiss.

flawlessmeans's photo
Tue 10/05/10 06:47 PM

Ask for her SSN#, urine sample, and ask how her 401K is doing these days.
LMAO

flawlessmeans's photo
Tue 10/05/10 06:48 PM

My best relationships have been with someone I was friends with first. We started hanging out a lot and our feelings got stronger. But once your in the relationship, don't change. Don't act all controlling or jealous if she has other friends. Be yourself and let them get to know you before you ask for more
This is also very good advice.

flawlessmeans's photo
Tue 10/05/10 06:50 PM

I just ask to see them naked first!

I want to see the size of the member, make sure you are circumsized, shaved below the belt, and with no other chest or body hair.

Then there is the performance evaluation! winking

Once a man passes those tests then it's on like Donky Kong!!! laugh

oops Sorry! :laughing:

Seriously, just be yourself and take things slowly. I know that sounds cliché but "real" works, and being comfortable are paramount! Listen to you intuition. If something doesn’t seem right, analyze how you feel.

You are going to make mistakes; that’s ok. Learn from your mistakes though.

If I could do it all over again, I wouldn't THINK of getting into a relationship until I finished my master's degree. Boys got in the way of my education and it took me too long to finish my bachelor's and I am just now finished with my master's - 24 years later. I also would have traveled more. I didn't even know myself or about the world. How could I expect to be in a relationship?? It’s like the dumb leading the dumb.
Dont shave man dont do it! it itches and chafes when growing back.

MelodyGirl's photo
Tue 10/05/10 07:38 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Tue 10/05/10 07:39 PM


I just ask to see them naked first!

I want to see the size of the member, make sure you are circumsized, shaved below the belt, and with no other chest or body hair.

Then there is the performance evaluation! winking

Once a man passes those tests then it's on like Donky Kong!!! laugh

oops Sorry! :laughing:

Seriously, just be yourself and take things slowly. I know that sounds cliché but "real" works, and being comfortable are paramount! Listen to you intuition. If something doesn’t seem right, analyze how you feel.

You are going to make mistakes; that’s ok. Learn from your mistakes though.

If I could do it all over again, I wouldn't THINK of getting into a relationship until I finished my master's degree. Boys got in the way of my education and it took me too long to finish my bachelor's and I am just now finished with my master's - 24 years later. I also would have traveled more. I didn't even know myself or about the world. How could I expect to be in a relationship?? It’s like the dumb leading the dumb.
Dont shave man dont do it! it itches and chafes when growing back.


It's not supposed to grow back! Why shave only once? Maintenance!

It doesn't itch if a person cares for the skin properly and shaves at least every other day. Women do it every day. It's not rocket science. laugh

No one wants to run their tongue along hairy skin no matter where it is on the body. ill tongue2

flawlessmeans's photo
Tue 10/05/10 07:46 PM



I just ask to see them naked first!

I want to see the size of the member, make sure you are circumsized, shaved below the belt, and with no other chest or body hair.

Then there is the performance evaluation! winking

Once a man passes those tests then it's on like Donky Kong!!! laugh

oops Sorry! :laughing:

Seriously, just be yourself and take things slowly. I know that sounds cliché but "real" works, and being comfortable are paramount! Listen to you intuition. If something doesn’t seem right, analyze how you feel.

You are going to make mistakes; that’s ok. Learn from your mistakes though.

If I could do it all over again, I wouldn't THINK of getting into a relationship until I finished my master's degree. Boys got in the way of my education and it took me too long to finish my bachelor's and I am just now finished with my master's - 24 years later. I also would have traveled more. I didn't even know myself or about the world. How could I expect to be in a relationship?? It’s like the dumb leading the dumb.
Dont shave man dont do it! it itches and chafes when growing back.


It's not supposed to grow back! Why shave only once? Maintenance!

It doesn't itch if a person cares for the skin properly and shaves at least every other day. Women do it every day. It's not rocket science. laugh

No one wants to run their tongue along hairy skin no matter where it is on the body. ill tongue2

LMAO. yeah I shaved to do a stage performance and... i like the natural look better. what man has the time for all that shaveing anyway?

ethan1100's photo
Tue 10/05/10 07:50 PM
I shave mine because it feels better to me. Some guys might not admit that but it's a better choice for me.

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