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I'm 19 and I have never been in a relationship. I was wondering from people with experience, where do you start?
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By starting a conversation to see if that's the sort of person you are even interested in!
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find someone you are physically attracted to.. has to be something there.... and secondly get to know them as a friend. find out if you are compatible, <enjoy some same interests, have same ideas about things or goals> and can be mentally attracted to as well.. if all apply ask them on a date.
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Thanks...Hooyah
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Ask for her SSN#, urine sample, and ask how her 401K is doing these days.
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It all starts with the first Hello....... then you go from there conversation is a must and just being yourself....
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This sounds like useful information. Thanks ladies.
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My best relationships have been with someone I was friends with first. We started hanging out a lot and our feelings got stronger. But once your in the relationship, don't change. Don't act all controlling or jealous if she has other friends. Be yourself and let them get to know you before you ask for more
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Ask for her SSN#, urine sample, and ask how her 401K is doing these days. If she says her 401K is doing great, she's a dingbat and take a pass. Other than that a smile and nice hello work wonders. |
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Tue 10/05/10 02:55 PM
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I just ask to see them naked first!
I want to see the size of the member, make sure you are circumsized, shaved below the belt, and with no other chest or body hair. Then there is the performance evaluation! Once a man passes those tests then it's on like Donky Kong!!! Sorry! Seriously, just be yourself and take things slowly. I know that sounds cliché but "real" works, and being comfortable are paramount! Listen to you intuition. If something doesn’t seem right, analyze how you feel. You are going to make mistakes; that’s ok. Learn from your mistakes though. If I could do it all over again, I wouldn't THINK of getting into a relationship until I finished my master's degree. Boys got in the way of my education and it took me too long to finish my bachelor's and I am just now finished with my master's - 24 years later. I also would have traveled more. I didn't even know myself or about the world. How could I expect to be in a relationship?? It’s like the dumb leading the dumb. |
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there are all kinds of relationships, friendship is a relationship..start there and see if it develops into something more intimate..
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there are all kinds of relationships, friendship is a relationship..start there and see if it develops into something more intimate.. |
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I just ask to see them naked first! I want to see the size of the member, make sure you are circumsized, shaved below the belt, and with no other chest or body hair. Then there is the performance evaluation! Once a man passes those tests then it's on like Donky Kong!!! Sorry! Seriously, just be yourself and take things slowly. I know that sounds cliché but "real" works, and being comfortable are paramount! Listen to you intuition. If something doesn’t seem right, analyze how you feel. You are going to make mistakes; that’s ok. Learn from your mistakes though. Well said Melody! ^^ Deffinitly This ^^ |
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I'm 19 and I have never been in a relationship. I was wondering from people with experience, where do you start? |
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Ask for her SSN#, urine sample, and ask how her 401K is doing these days. |
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My best relationships have been with someone I was friends with first. We started hanging out a lot and our feelings got stronger. But once your in the relationship, don't change. Don't act all controlling or jealous if she has other friends. Be yourself and let them get to know you before you ask for more |
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I just ask to see them naked first! I want to see the size of the member, make sure you are circumsized, shaved below the belt, and with no other chest or body hair. Then there is the performance evaluation! Once a man passes those tests then it's on like Donky Kong!!! Sorry! Seriously, just be yourself and take things slowly. I know that sounds cliché but "real" works, and being comfortable are paramount! Listen to you intuition. If something doesn’t seem right, analyze how you feel. You are going to make mistakes; that’s ok. Learn from your mistakes though. If I could do it all over again, I wouldn't THINK of getting into a relationship until I finished my master's degree. Boys got in the way of my education and it took me too long to finish my bachelor's and I am just now finished with my master's - 24 years later. I also would have traveled more. I didn't even know myself or about the world. How could I expect to be in a relationship?? It’s like the dumb leading the dumb. |
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Tue 10/05/10 07:39 PM
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I just ask to see them naked first! I want to see the size of the member, make sure you are circumsized, shaved below the belt, and with no other chest or body hair. Then there is the performance evaluation! Once a man passes those tests then it's on like Donky Kong!!! Sorry! Seriously, just be yourself and take things slowly. I know that sounds cliché but "real" works, and being comfortable are paramount! Listen to you intuition. If something doesn’t seem right, analyze how you feel. You are going to make mistakes; that’s ok. Learn from your mistakes though. If I could do it all over again, I wouldn't THINK of getting into a relationship until I finished my master's degree. Boys got in the way of my education and it took me too long to finish my bachelor's and I am just now finished with my master's - 24 years later. I also would have traveled more. I didn't even know myself or about the world. How could I expect to be in a relationship?? It’s like the dumb leading the dumb. It's not supposed to grow back! Why shave only once? Maintenance! It doesn't itch if a person cares for the skin properly and shaves at least every other day. Women do it every day. It's not rocket science. No one wants to run their tongue along hairy skin no matter where it is on the body. |
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I just ask to see them naked first! I want to see the size of the member, make sure you are circumsized, shaved below the belt, and with no other chest or body hair. Then there is the performance evaluation! Once a man passes those tests then it's on like Donky Kong!!! Sorry! Seriously, just be yourself and take things slowly. I know that sounds cliché but "real" works, and being comfortable are paramount! Listen to you intuition. If something doesn’t seem right, analyze how you feel. You are going to make mistakes; that’s ok. Learn from your mistakes though. If I could do it all over again, I wouldn't THINK of getting into a relationship until I finished my master's degree. Boys got in the way of my education and it took me too long to finish my bachelor's and I am just now finished with my master's - 24 years later. I also would have traveled more. I didn't even know myself or about the world. How could I expect to be in a relationship?? It’s like the dumb leading the dumb. It's not supposed to grow back! Why shave only once? Maintenance! It doesn't itch if a person cares for the skin properly and shaves at least every other day. Women do it every day. It's not rocket science. No one wants to run their tongue along hairy skin no matter where it is on the body. |
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I shave mine because it feels better to me. Some guys might not admit that but it's a better choice for me.
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