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Define "Baggage"
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Can someone please define "Baggage" for me? I seriously would not date someone who thought my children, family, or job were considered "Baggage" emotional drama with them or someone in there life. Unresolved difficult issues not very easily tolerated. |
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Not anymore. I had to fix me so I didn't attract the wrong type.
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Personality
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absolutely
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Topic:
420 friendly ? yes or no ?
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try tequila that will alter your mood Quiet, I've done all that stuff. It's not my way now. OK maybe it's not your way... Excellent good for you.... Why does that have to make you non friendly to another lifestyle? Here are copies of two of my posts. It will help explain me. I would like to add that I've attended Nar-Anon meetings and don't want drugs around me. I'm anti-drugs. I'm not closed minded. Been there, done that, grew up. Worked in a drug rehab. Have a person close to me in recovery. Went with them to NA and AA mtgs. I know a lot about it hence...I'm anti-drugs. If a person gets high by using drugs for escape, that person doesn't know who to deal with stress without it. They do not have the coping skills. They didn't mature emotionally. If someone gets high all the time from 10 yrs. old to 20 yrs. old, when they quit they have the maturity level of the 10 yr. old because they didn't deal with life on life's terms. You will hear them talk about this in the NA meetings. I also taught about it in the rehab. I'm glad I can wake up in the morning feeling good about a new life and know that I have a choice today on how I want to live my life. im glad that I am no longer spiritualy dead and now have morals and care about others. Im not against those people who use and their life is hell. I see it happen and can be grateful to see it because it keeps me clean. I have so much to say about this don't get me started or you will hear my lead. lol I hate breaking my anonymity but some things must be said. I talk to addicts everyday. Take them to meetings and they are grateful. I love to see hopeless dopefiends become dopeless hopefiends. Winx I break my anonymity sometimes and it makes no difference. What I said in this says nothing about anyone but me. I've been clean 4 years and proud of it. Im not 20 yrs old anymore and had used for a long time. I know what hard drugs are and 420 isn't anything that gave me a problem. If I pick it back up though it will lead me back to my drug of choice like any other mind altering substance. Nothing would be enough until I got my drug of choice. It makes no difference to me what anybody does. I have put no one down for it. It's there choice. If they can do it good for them. I have no problem with an active user. I like to talk to them it helps me remember where I don't want to be. I've started mtgs, gave leads, served in the program and helped a lot of people. |
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Topic:
Late
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Ever been late for bible study or something else because you lost track of time being on here? gotta go
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Have you...
Edited by
dbh1966
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Tue 01/13/09 03:44 PM
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ever been in a fender bender looking at a beautiful girl/guy you couldn't take your eyes off of.
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Topic:
Choose a wall.
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The guys at the factory that I work at when I pass by them. Those rascals. |
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Topic:
Choose a wall.
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If you were a fly whose wall would you choose?
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of course I judge... crap I judge on exactly what they say in a profile their picture if it macthes their age or not you have guidelines on what your looking for .. and its a necessary evil I guess. I like that. It's honest |
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No one could get me to stop smoking dope but I also know that I can't control what people do or believe either. We have a choice and that's what makes us all so different and life so interesting. Have fun til it's time to stop having so much fun.
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I believe that anyone can be as spritual or as religous as they wish as long as it isn't pushed in someones face and they don't talk about it constantly like they are trying to prove something.
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Edited by
dbh1966
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Tue 01/13/09 11:11 AM
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by their spritual or religous views before getting to know who they are, where they come from, or trials in their life?
There is no religous chat to this. Just a question. |
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Topic:
There should be a law
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I was waiting at a red light this morning behind one car. The light turned green and the driver of the car in front of me was so intent on picking his nose that he never noticed. I lightly beeped the horn once, but no luck. He finally saw the now yellow light and made it through. No such luck for yours truly. There are many different ticketable offenses in NY including a fifty dollar fine for having an air freshener hanging from your rearview mirror. Texting and talking on cell phones while driving have been made illegal here due to the distraction they create. I say make nosepicking illegal for drivers!!! What say you? illegal. azz picking too |
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Topic:
Moral Conundrum
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This is where I am, I’m a Methodist, I’m affirmed to my faith, and fully accept Jesus as my lord and savior and I’m not afraid to tell that to anyone. This in mind, I realize that morality and right or wrong are completely confined to the perception of each and every person. By popular opinion, since that is scientifically applicable as a valid result (through probability) I pose my question: Is being addicted to love, passion, lust, and pleasure, wrong? Chemically speaking, with the acceptation of love, they all have similar reactions that drugs do. I’m finding that they are just as addictive as any drug I’ve heard about, hence my predicament. With my own mind being torn between the two possibilities, my moral perception has been compromised. So I pose it to you, the reader, please respond. 2 questions i would ask myself: Is it moraly wrong or against my beliefs? How is it affecting my life...Is it making my life unmanageable? |
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Topic:
hey
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hey yall! I'm new and just wanted to introduce myself. My name is Sarah! anybody wanna talk just drop me a message! Hi Sarah. Welcome |
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Topic:
420 friendly ? yes or no ?
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same song next verse Good Luck. Enjoy. |
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Topic:
420 friendly ? yes or no ?
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try tequila that will alter your mood Quiet, I've done all that stuff. It's not my way now. OK maybe it's not your way... Excellent good for you.... Why does that have to make you non friendly to another lifestyle? Here are copies of two of my posts. It will help explain me. I would like to add that I've attended Nar-Anon meetings and don't want drugs around me. I'm anti-drugs. I'm not closed minded. Been there, done that, grew up. Worked in a drug rehab. Have a person close to me in recovery. Went with them to NA and AA mtgs. I know a lot about it hence...I'm anti-drugs. If a person gets high by using drugs for escape, that person doesn't know who to deal with stress without it. They do not have the coping skills. They didn't mature emotionally. If someone gets high all the time from 10 yrs. old to 20 yrs. old, when they quit they have the maturity level of the 10 yr. old because they didn't deal with life on life's terms. You will hear them talk about this in the NA meetings. I also taught about it in the rehab. I'm glad I can wake up in the morning feeling good about a new life and know that I have a choice today on how I want to live my life. im glad that I am no longer spiritualy dead and now have morals and care about others. Im not against those people who use and their life is hell. I see it happen and can be grateful to see it because it keeps me clean. I have so much to say about this don't get me started or you will hear my lead. lol I hate breaking my anonymity but some things must be said. I talk to addicts everyday. Take them to meetings and they are grateful. I love to see hopeless dopefiends become dopeless hopefiends. |
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He likes armadildos
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Carey
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I am still looking for chat with some decent men around here that will be there for me and respect me and want to get to know me and have a serious relationship There are decent men out there. It depends what day you catch them, and also "Everyone has issues" Are there any decent women out there? |
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