RE: Thomas3474

LGBT people have committed no crime against society or nature, so why shouldn't they have a right to marry?

And, if you don't know this already, homosexuality is natural. Many animals practice homosexual behavior.

I would like an answer. To be more specific, it'd be great if your answers aren't one of the following: "It's wrong," "It's gross." "It contradicts the Bible."

You're right that gay marriage might be contradicted in the Bible, but our government is secular - we separate Church and State. Thus, whether gay marriage is legal needs to be a decision made without religion factoring into the picture.

Finally, marriage has, historically, been more like a legal contract than anything. The argument that marriage is primarily a religious ceremony then doesn't really hold water.

I'd sleep on the ceiling.

Carefully, while stroking their ego. =\

Mirror, why do you post so many questions? Where do you get all these questions?
...Personally, I think they're fun. ;-)

Yeah, I'd date that person. Probably be pretty interesting to date someone with such a...different and offensive point of view. If not interesting, then at least a challenge, lol. I wonder if I would last a week in that relationship...?



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Maybe everyone is capable of or willing to cheating under the right circumstances. If that's true, then can we trust anyone to not cheat in the fist place?

I suppose it really comes down to: Can you trust anyone to do or not do anything?

Sometimes. Perhaps, it's better to always have a back up plan or be willing to accept that someone may not meet your expectations.

Lol, okay, I'll shut up.

Yes, I lowered my standards twice. Didn't regret it - turned out to be good people. Should have broken up with them earlier though. ^_^

Haha, if you're willing to pay for the ticket, I'd be willing to fly down there. ;-)

lol, free massages for anyone in NYC! (Can always use the practice!)

Strangely enough, exercise always helps with this kind of feeling. Get's your heart beating and fills your bloodstream with endorphins (which make you feel happy and energetic).

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Endorphin#Activity

Eating spicy food also helps (releases endorphins too).

Lol, hope that's helpful.

Ouch, sorry to hear that. Yeah...bottom line - drop that man fast as you can. =\

I don't know if it's *you* in this situation or if you're asking about someone else or whatever. I'll just address the response to you:

Your husband got this lady pregnant. He's now responsible for that child and, by association, he's responsible for that woman as well. Your his wife though...

For me, the deciding factor is the child who has done absolutely nothing to deserve such a conflicted origin.

Now, if your husband blows off the mother and the kid and comes back to you, that's the easier deal. I'd be suspicious of that if I were you. For your husband to take care of a pregnant woman and finally a child, that's a lot of trouble. If you completely forgive him, I think both you, that woman, and the child are getting the bad deal.

Personally, I'd tell him to be a man and take responsibility for that woman and her child or at least support the lady financially. Then, if I were you, I'd leave him.

As for loving the child, well...the child isn't yours and you are not directly responsible for it, so I'm not sure that's a relevant question. If you do want to take custody of the child finally, then I hope you can finally love the child. The child did nothing wrong; to resent a child because of what the child's parents did just isn't fair. That'd be like hating a child because it's black or something - it's just not fair.

Well, hopefully all that is helpful.

You're right, some people don't write enough. On the other hand, some people write too much or just write one long paragraph.

For example, I looked at your profile. Would you mind breaking that paragraph up a bit? At least so things are separated topically? Sometimes when I see that, I don't even bother to read carefully and instead just skim through.

Now, am I losing something by not bothering to read your profile closely? Certainly, by not knowing you better, I am losing something. However, reading your profile doesn't have much to do with *knowing* you in the "grok" sort of sense, if you get my drift.

Anyway, it's not like my profile's all that great either, so who am I to talk? Well, I can only hope my opinion's worth at least 2 cents, right? ;-)

Thanks for the welcome to the forums. :)

Yes, you're very right - caffeine makes us pee more. Still, I doubt the amount of caffeine in American coffee would prevent absorption of *all* the water in that cup of coffee.

Who said anything about being dehydration anyway? ;)

Boredom - among the strangest of afflictions. It's cause, imaginary; it's cure, to the afflicted, hardly seems worth the effort.

dbad,
Listen, you're getting a lot of harsh comments (deserved or not, I won't say) from the people on this forum. Let me approach the problem from a different angle:

Consider that going abroad or living in extreme conditions changes a person in important ways. When you get back from the military, I guarantee you will be a different you.
Think about it: If you'll be almost a different person by the time you get back, is it really fair to her *or to yourself* to make such a committment beforehand? Is it right to get married?

You have the rest of your lives together, buddy. Wait until you get back to tie the knot with your fiance.

Miss,
You know, there was a recent medical study that found that there is nothing bad about drinking coffee, not even for small children. The only problem is if you drink maybe +40 shots of concentrated coffee, you may over-dose on caffine, but who can drink that much coffee?

Problem is that not all docs read the literature very thoroughly. :-P