God forbid to have a Pacific Islander in Wisconsin.

And then you looked. It was a joke. way to go.

I'm 45 on the outside, 60 inside, 35 according to the Gregorian Calendar.

Lol, this is probably him you're talking about, with a no picture account.

Guys only approach 2 or more women, in a gang. As far as I know, most guys are not very comfortable hitting on a woman who is hanging out with her girl-friend. They know they can't split one off, because the other gets protective, or you yourself will not abandon your friend to talk one-on-one with a guy. And it's not very comfortable to talk to 2 women at once, or it's not gonna be the talk you want to hear. Also, most guys don't think that girls hanging out with another g/f is out to find a date, but more likely they are not looking for anyone. Just some advices.

Go with the quiet guy at the bar who looks sober and holding onto his first beer for hours. He is out to find someone. Ask him what time it is, and then the weather...he is shy, that's why he won't initiate, but once he gets going...

I have never thought of this before.

Sure. Deep down all women are. They are actually born as homosexuals and they develop the liking of men after age 13-14. Later they re-gain their love for women again, and remain bi-sexuals for life.

Don't you hate that?

I've been on so many vacations and various travel plans and parties etc.. where I had to go with a couple. Or 2 couples. It burnzzzz inside!

And there is the family thing, when you go with your brother or sister or mother or relatives somewhere.
The whole concept of being a family member around all the time ruins everything.

So, for a while now, anytime someone asks me to go somewhere and I know I'm gonna be a 3rd wheel, I refuse, because it makes me feel worse than not going anywhere. I know they want me to feel good or being nice, etc..but I just can't do it. I had enough of experience in those 3rd wheel role - vacations and every minute with a couple having fun is like a reminder of my situation.

But you see? There is the key. You have plans. That's a clear-cut and realistic plan which can work. (The real estate thing is outside of your control, hopefully things get better)
What I was referring to was, people in a long distance relationship with absolutely no clear-cut plans now and not even in the future.

Tell me about it...haha! My entire 10s and even 20s was nothing else but going by other people's suggestions, instead of mine, and look where it has taken me..

So I do things the way I like, even if the whole planet disagrees.

Ok, but it depends on what kind of a relationship we are talking about. Others wouldn't be comfortable in that sort of relationship. No offense. I couldn't do it, and I won't.

It all depends on how others want to perceive us. It's kinda like dressing. I don't want to wear what others like, but what I like. So i refuse to be dressed up by others.

Same with the photos. I got plenty of pics taken by others, and it's rare when I like it, even if others like it.

Topic: How to get and keep a man

ohh...bingo! Had one of those. And then I was trying to restrain myself to say something like "please enough of explanations and stories" , and I couldn't. So she got mad at me. Whatever.

It could be worse. Having pictures taken of something or someone, by someone else.

There is no right or wrong in this. I just posted an article, and it was for fun, but unfortunately the dating sites like this are full of dead serious people.

women are looking for guys who aren't on dating sites.

There is no need for any sort of analytical responses , and forget about those who do the "you may/you may not" sort of thing, because that will leave you where you are right now.

Here is the answer: yes

It will die off after a while and it will go off faster, the longer you won't see him.

Emails, chit-chats, phone calls are no substitute either. Forget about the whole thing, if you or your loved one has no plans and no way to move together within months.

Haha, you don't know me. Don't worry, I got plenty of original theories, ask others.

Are you upset about this thing exists, or upset about me posting it, or just generally "upset" or you are hatin?

My post wasn't serious Jeannie, LOL!


"with great power, comes with great responsibility". This is the problem in today's world. The richest in the world did not have to work hard to reach their status, and they are irresponsible and they waste away their position. Actually, come to think of it, the richest people worked the least (stock market) for their wealth and defied the Darwinian rule of the "survival of the fittest" by manipulating the rules and roles and changing around values and what is value in a way, that favors them. That's why you don't see millionaires and billionaires investing in alternative energy or working on a new invention, since they have no inspiration, neither the will or desire to go forward, even though their status and wealth would make tremendous difference and they have everything they need to have to take care of their necessities and still come out on top, unlike most people who are fighting just to get by and have no time , power, or financial backing to do anything else.

Anyone else - who worked hard to reach a good status- knows how hard it is, or what is to be living by scraping the bottom of the plate for crumbs.

And this is also the Achilles' heel of today's irresponsible riches out there. They are shooting themselves in the foot, since they don't know anything better and eventually ruin everything around them , including themselves.

In a summary - like it or not - we have the most irresponsible people in power, and that's why the world sucks right now.