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Maybe he wants to keep you on as a spare if nothing else shows up.. if you get the vibe he's not interested then he's probably not.. I'd forget about him... Id rather have someone that digs me Definitely gotta have someone that digs you. |
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The flying iguanas did it.
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The question here, officer, is whether or not YOU know how fast I was going...
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Later Gypsy
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but Im on a cheese run..........Im jonesing for cheese yanno??? Lord, woman. You're something else. Good luck with that cheese. |
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Ohhhhhhhhhhh its too hard..... <------listening to janice joplin right now!! You gave up that easy? After all the lyrics we've been through? Shame, shame. Summertime is my fav from her. |
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Hey Gypsy Whatcha up to, sweetie? How did the new paint color work out for ya? Got the house put back together? Lol, glad to hear it. Let's see what you got... Lying here in the darkness I hear the sirens wail Somebody going to emergency Somebody's going to jail |
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Hey Gypsy Whatcha up to, sweetie? How did the new paint color work out for ya? Got the house put back together? |
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Hey Gypsy
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You sound like such a sweet woman...he just may not be geared that way. Or he may not understand. Men are simple creatures, and often times our unintentional actions are misundertood as intentional actions.
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How can you have any pudding, if you don't eat your meat?
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Well if you don't know, now ya know.....
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Best wishes...I enjoyed the conversation.
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Women do it too. Refer to the " OK....WTF " thread I started a few days ago...lol Some guys are just exceptionally lonely. Some guys are really insecure and need the validation of someone telling them that they wish they were with them. Some guys are just exceptionally bored and have nothing better to do. "Some guys"..."some guys"..."some guys"...some women, too! Sorry. " SOME " women do it too..lol It just seems that so many preconceived notions/habits concerning one particular sex may be a bit skewered. There are fouls on both sides of the line. Bad people are bad people, regardless of details. Yes Duey, I know you are right, but I seem to be getting a lot of these, always do. Why can't I find a normal guy not afraid to commit? I wish I knew.....or could help you with that answer. I just think it's important to NOT let the past, in any way, dictate the future. The "next person" should never pay the tab for the last. And I believe that. That is a great thing to believe. But can you honestly say that, having been burned before, you don't take any of the lessons learned from that experience and apply them to a new relationship? To say that someone has to " let go of the past " sounds all well and good. The problem with that idea is that our past is what makes us who we are. To " let go of " it, would be to disregard all the things we have learned in our lives, and keep making the same mistakes over, and over, and over again. The definition of insanity is to keep repeating the same actions, always expecting a different result. I would NEVER say or imply that I don't take the lessons learned from that experience and apply them in the future. However, there is a fine line, but a VAST difference between that and carrying baggage. The next person DOES NOT owe the tab of the last person! I won't say one should let go of the past; you're right! The past experiences make a big part of who we are. But they connot DICTATE us, that's what's happening. Certainly, don't repeat the same failed actions. But by the same token, but too many good people are sitting on the sidelines because of a few failed plays. |
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Women do it too. Refer to the " OK....WTF " thread I started a few days ago...lol Some guys are just exceptionally lonely. Some guys are really insecure and need the validation of someone telling them that they wish they were with them. Some guys are just exceptionally bored and have nothing better to do. "Some guys"..."some guys"..."some guys"...some women, too! Sorry. " SOME " women do it too..lol It just seems that so many preconceived notions/habits concerning one particular sex may be a bit skewered. There are fouls on both sides of the line. Bad people are bad people, regardless of details. Yes Duey, I know you are right, but I seem to be getting a lot of these, always do. Why can't I find a normal guy not afraid to commit? Because an awful lot of guys have gotten severely burned when they committed to someone. Therefore, the guys that aren't afraid to commit, are generally the ones who aren't old enough to be bitter yet. Marriages...losing 1/2 if not more of what you own, even if you owned it before the marriage...getting tour heart stomped on a few times... Those things all contribute to a man being more willing to BE committed ( like...self hug jacket committed ) than to be " committed " to one woman. The willingness to commit to one person doesn't really seem to be the " normal " thing anymore. An awful lot of women have been burned, too. Shoot, read the threads! Propably the majority of PEOPLE (not one sex) that are young and haven't been burned, are the one's not bitter yet. I understand the 50% divorce rate; I've very unfortunately contributed. And some of those that didn't get married, have still experienced a heart stomping. Sometimes more than once, as you said. Those things don't contribute to a woman/man doing anything other than learning and growing. Life can be a b!tch, and no one promised anyone a prize. I will agree; "The willingness to commit to one person doesn't really seem to be the " normal " thing anymore." I just know that 'the normal' can be affected by you and I. And I won't give up on love until I don't have breath. |
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I can't argue with that.
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Women do it too. Refer to the " OK....WTF " thread I started a few days ago...lol Some guys are just exceptionally lonely. Some guys are really insecure and need the validation of someone telling them that they wish they were with them. Some guys are just exceptionally bored and have nothing better to do. "Some guys"..."some guys"..."some guys"...some women, too! Sorry. " SOME " women do it too..lol It just seems that so many preconceived notions/habits concerning one particular sex may be a bit skewered. There are fouls on both sides of the line. Bad people are bad people, regardless of details. Yes Duey, I know you are right, but I seem to be getting a lot of these, always do. Why can't I find a normal guy not afraid to commit? I wish I knew.....or could help you with that answer. I just think it's important to NOT let the past, in any way, dictate the future. The "next person" should never pay the tab for the last. And I believe that. |
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Women do it too. Refer to the " OK....WTF " thread I started a few days ago...lol Some guys are just exceptionally lonely. Some guys are really insecure and need the validation of someone telling them that they wish they were with them. Some guys are just exceptionally bored and have nothing better to do. "Some guys"..."some guys"..."some guys"...some women, too! Sorry. " SOME " women do it too..lol It just seems that so many preconceived notions/habits concerning one particular sex may be a bit skewered. There are fouls on both sides of the line. Bad people are bad people, regardless of details. I totally agree. Thanks...I know it's a tough subject :) |
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