Okay this is for the men's outlook.
I went on a date last Saturday night from someone I met on the PC, it went well. I can tell he was either not interested or just nervous. Well, he did call me when he got home. He then text me and stated I was everything plus more he was expecting and he wanted to go out again. Great no problem I would like to see where this could go. Anyway he called and texted the last few days and I always responded, I am not one to always make the first call or text

sounds good so far

what's the question?

Did you do the Dirty Dirty with him ?

oops not done~~
I did call at times though, well the last few calls he appeared preoccupied not very interested and me I ask flat out lol if you are not interested I am okay with that just be upfront, he stated he was busy as his notorcycle broke and he was dealing with that, Okay I understand that also. I asked if we were going to do something this weekend, and he didnt sound real excited.
So here is my question, why does he keep calling if he isnt interested?

call'm up and tell'm you're in the tub...soakin..., that should do the trick...

Sounds to me like he only calls when has time... I'de drop it

maybe he really is busy?

or maybe he's just an internet stalker and sharpening his axe?

He's being nice

Ditto

Continue please.

Maybe he wants to keep you on as a spare if nothing else shows up.. if you get the vibe he's not interested then he's probably not.. I'd forget about him... Id rather have someone that digs me

So what is the question?

Is it possible that he might have other plans and he is calling you just enough to keep you interested incase his other plans fall through?

No him and I talked for awhile before we met, and then he called continually for a few days, then it dwindled, I am like hey, If you are not interested then let it go.
I am not one who deals with bs or games really well, he stated he was just busy and stressed. My thing is then why the hell look to get involed if you have roadblocks up. I have not called or text him since then, he has me but I just dont get it.

If we all understood the opposite sex - the world would be a happier place

and farmers would have to pay extra to get the pig's wings clipped

I have been dealing with a similar issue with a guy for a few (6)weeks. He would call and text and call some more several times a day. Even when I went away on vacation.
Well, we dont get to see eachother as often as I like (less than once a week) And now I find out I think more of the relationship than he does. So, I am moving on....if he cant treat me right, someone else will....and yet he is STILL calling. Botton line, always listen to your inner voice. If something doesnt "feel" right, its probably not.

Amen!

could be what sounds like disinterest is just shyness or he's tounge tied. Ask him. Be direct. If it still seems to you to be disinterest or preocupation with something else on his part then the relationship probably won't go anywhere any way, dump him.

Thank you town, yes I do know he is much more shy then I am,I am pretty forward and usually dont have a problem saying how I feel, I dont want to say f this if it because he is shy and learning how to get back into the dating aspect of things, but I am not one to hang around if someone is not interested, I point blank asked if he was and he said yes but I am not feeling it.. I might just be over anaylizing it