LexFonteyne


Lexfonteyne.... You sound just like a guy. lol. We girls don't care about math....we want love.

I know what you mean though.

I don't have the experience yet to know if that's true for me. I do know I am afraid of being alone. I don't want to be alone.

heartSoul

You have the perfect user name for this topic.

I don't even know if I would know if someone spoke to my soul. Maybe I am too young.

Great profile you have. I need mine to be more like yours. Maybe I could get guys responding that are closer to what I am looking for.

Until it happens live on CNN it will be forever a mystery like bigfoot and the missing socks after clothes washing.


Wouldn't that be cool if it did happen live? Not to a good person....but maybe some real bad murderer.

I am posting in your thread.

Telephoneman

I know what you mean but most people in my town seem to eat where I work (it's a small town) so that use to be tough. Now I am on Mingle.....so I will try to get my Honey from out of town.

You are right. My ex boyfriend still has lunch here. It get awkward.

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To TelephoneMan regarding your post ^^two up. ....Ouch! Sorry for that. I do worry about that myself. When I meet guys I sometimes fall for their looks or sexiness and I wonder if I really like THEM or just their looks.

I see some hot looking guys at work that I know I would not get along with but boy do I wish I could .............stuff.

They should do like I did. Get on a dating site after they get out of school.

That is a funny story though. I guess I shouldn't complain about my small town...at least I have never had to do that.

Who are you replying to TelephoneMan with your references post?

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O I C it wasn't me. Never-mined

TelephoneMan thank you very much for the serious and thoughtful response. I was hoping for serious responses like yours.

This is my favorite line....."Love is deeper and more meaningful. Love is what you do all the rest of the time when you're NOT having sex"

I heard that somewhere else and it's something I say. I can't believe you know it too. I mean I can believe it.......it's just odd seeing one of my favorite lines popping up in someone else's post. I don't remember who first said it.

SitkaRains

Same for me. What good is money if you live your life unloved?

To lighthouselover. I said " Most people marry people that live near them. People they work with or go to school with...etc. (so says a website on marriage statistics)"

Try google. There are dozens of websites that have stats on who people marry (and how long the marriage last). Most people marry those that they meet in their every day lives. People near by...so says the sites.

Do you have anything constructive to add to the OP? If not I'll be skipping over your post then.

lighthouselover..sight my source for what?

I personally feel we can create love (with the right person). My source for that comment is ME. Where you asking about something else?

Why would it be? Isn't love making or sex a big part of a relationship? We are not talking about dumping a spouse because she/he suddenly got bad in bed....right? You are just talking about dating. I wouldn't date a guy who was bad in bed unless.......1-he was a good learner and I could teach him well or 2-He had a lot of other really good qualities.

Try Here

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/182724

To kidatheart70. I agree. When we do find someone special it is so easy to meet new people that we are always comparing the person we have found to the new people. Is the grass greener over there type deal.

It's not like the old days where the wife stayed home and the only guy she saw everyday was the mailman. The guys back then didn't see as many other women around because women were not in the work force.

Now we have competition everywhere. We can create love many times if we choose.

Teresa1901

thx.

It's was the topic of a paper I wrote in High School 3 years ago. I had to get up in front of the class and give a speech on it. I got a 100% on my speech and a 96% on the paper (too many grammatical errors).

True love.

My tips are good (I am a waitress) . I don't need a million dollars.

kidatheart70
A million soul mates? I've never heard anyone say that before. That would make your job easier.

Good luck. Seriously.

I could never win this game. There will always be someone posting behind me.

*looks over shoulder*