If you meet a person from across town for a date and the date doesn't work it's no big deal.

Some guys who message me live too far away for dating so I say no to their offers. I am not big on web dating. I want to get to know the guy in real life.

I've had some guys offer to travel from across the country (or further) just for a date. I totally don't get this.

It's seems like too much pressure. If I decided I didn't feel any chemistry between us I would feel like I would have to stretch the date out just because he traveled so far. I would feel pressured to make the date work instead of just relaxing and being myself.

Would you accept a date from a guy you only talked to for a week on the web and who lived across the country or even further away? Lets say you really didn't know him well and you didn't even know if he is right for you.

The guys I am referring to I would go on a date with if they lived across town.

Thoughts?

Silent Night

I would and I even say so in my profile. Love is hard to find and I feel I should go where I find it.

You already know that I already did....and you were not "nice"....not even close

no I said good night to a couple of people. I have said that I don't go to bed until 5am many times.

It's talk about in one of your chat threads

edit....Ok suspended then. She then got so upset she sent me a personal message.

I reported her message

Pete asked me to post a pic of myself tonight holding up two fingers. I did so. Then your friend dan99 implied Pete was fake.

I did more than many of you have done.

izze

Do you have a quote showing me saying mean things about another?

I'll wait.

Only one of my threads was deleted.

The rest were started by many of you. Your friend dan99 lost his thread tonight. Your little group lost another thread last night and someone was banned.

Two of the threads that you consider mine were actually started by guys I rejected.

I have received no warnings and my post contain no insults of others

Sounds like daydreamer is doing the whining about people "she" doesn't like being able to post.

"She" is whining because "she" doesn't like some people and they make "her" cry.

Night izze

Goodnight daydreamer.

Have a pleasant night "girl"

daydreamer


I see. All the conditions just happen to fit your profile.

You just want to shut up people you don't like.

Sorry "girl" but it doesn't work that way.

daydreamer


I know you do. I looked back at my post and you responded in almost every single thread I made and 50% of your responses were insulting.

You actually just jump into threads to start drama. You are very much like me.....almost EXACTLY like me.

daydreamer

Then some people would make 30 fake profiles and lock out people they didn't like.

Sounds like a bad idea.

Free speech is good. Speech controlled by a few people that don't like others is bad.

daydreamer



It seems not many here do that. It seems they actually jump into threads with people they don't like.

Right OP? You know what I am talking about exactly.

I am up. My bedtime is usually 5am

Your main photo picture is turning me on....is that bad?

I am shy at first but after I get to know someone I have an easy time of it.

I like the night. It's quiet and peaceful and my wifi runs faster because all the day computer people are not jamming it up.

Hi directandwrite

CNN just said that Ford didn't need the money and wouldn't take it.

I say let GM and that other one fail.

Somehow I think the guys running those companies will figure out a way to save their company with out the bail outs because they want to keep their multi million dollar jobs.

pass what? O you mean winning me?.... it's ok ...you couldn't find me. I hide well.

lol...

Same here. I know how you feel. I am 21 and I want to be a young mom. I just don't want to rush into anything with the wrong guy.