mhm i'm pretty sure she likes me too, but I'm not 100% sure. I don't just want to ask her.. I'd rather just hang out with her again hopefully and see where things lead to. I'm sure she at least is interested.. either that or she just kisses any guy that will look at her :-X

i meant like as in want to be in a relationship with. I don't mean you despise them just a platonic relationship.

yea.. thats the reason i made this topic.. im trying to see the general consenus of this type of behavior without asking the person because I don't want to push her away from me...

So Malena.. if some guy u were just friends with went to hold ur hand u would refuse?

Still uh holding hands with some girl and kissing and telling? I really don't know what the status is.

when you knew that person who you did it with liked you?

i was pretty nice last night.. i offered the girl i was with my jacket, and held her to keep her warm. i still don't know if she likes me :-X

Pictures are overrated. I don't have a picture.

Not sure. I think I'm single, but I'm kind of "seeing" someone.

yea, she did. We didn't talk last night (besides a quick chat and a good night) because she's busy with a paper and a test. She showed me all the work on her computer it sure is a lot haha. I'm pretty confident that she has interest in me, but is not quite ready for me to her boyfriend. We did meet online with the intention to date, and I'm thinking she needs more than one hang out session to decide what she really wants. She did tell me she was really happy I came and all night she kept smiling at me and I did it back to her. I think theres definitely some hope left, and as far as I'm concerned I'm keeping optimistic about the whole situation. I kissed her because I figured what did I have to lose? We're friends sure, but I have the intention of eventually having a serious relationship with this girl.

yea, i agree with you. she just seems a little hesitant to put herself out there to get hurt. I'm not sure what to expect, maybe I'll find out if we hang out again. I have no expectations it may have been a spur of the moment kiss session, or it may have been here true feelings. Either way I'm not too worried about this. Thanks for your input.

Yea, I know she doesn't want a relationship right now. I just think she sent me the wrong message with the whole holding hands/kissing thing. I'm not even sure what I want with her yet, I'm just gonna keep it simple.

Happy. I really could care less though.

I was talking to thor22 sorry. he said gee is this a tough one? I understood your response and agreed with it.

it is a tough one. Did you read 90% of my original post? Just because she let me kiss her doesn't mean she likes me...

no she was into it i kissed her like 4 times and she was holding me during it.

So, I went to my friends college tonight to hang out with her. I want some "analysis" on what happened. She "picked" me up with her friend (in the parking lot) introduced me and then we went to her friends room. Gets boring here.. we sat there for like an hour not doing much we chatted a little, but her friends came in and talked all girly stuff (its an all female university). Eventually I pulled out my ipod and she got her headphones and we started listening to my ipod together.. and we talked about some songs and stuff. Anyway after this we went to her dorm, and her roommate was in and out all the time we were there. We sat on her bed and talked for a bit.. I held her hand and she just seemed a bit distracted. We talked about if she liked anyone and she said "im not sure what I want yet" so i asked bluntly do you like me and she said "well for now we're friends but could get to more". So it's 8:45 and we walk back to my car.. I see shes cold (she refused my coat earlier) so i grab her hand and she holds back (she didnt earlier) and then i put my arm over her to try and keep her warm. Anyway we get to my car.. and I give her a kiss.. a few times.. she seemed to like it and ends with "bye I can't wait to talk again and see you". Do you guys think theres a chance for a relationship? I'm not entirely sure she likes me in that way, but I guess me kissing her showed I had interest and she did hold my hand back when we went outside and held my hands when we were kissing.

yea.. i meet new ppl all the time, but it's so diff when its someone u know before u meet (someone from online). I'm sure I'll be fine.. she just told me shes nervous too, so I guess it's going both ways. I should be fine tomorrow.

im meeting someone for the first time tomorrow, and i'm really nervous.. Is there anything I can do to try and alleviate this? :(

we didn't meet on here.. i only asked because I don't drive more than 20-25 minutes usually. I really like her, and if things continue to go well I will go see her if she wants.