I sleep in my favorite old "Amazing Spider Man T-Shirt" that I bought years ago at a comic convention. Because of this two of my ex boyfriends started calling me Amazing Amanda. The name stuck.

"Amazing Amanda, Amazing Amanda, if she can't do it then nobody can."

Come on now people get out there in the forums make some new friends. Don't be shy

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The declarations and demands and manifestos that people put up in their profiles amuses me also. As do some of the statements people make in threads concerning their expectations on qualities that they seek in others. Most of what they say is because of their past experiences and some of it is a right out defense mechanism. Don't believe me? Ok. Don't you just love people who build the worlds biggest wall to keep everyone out and then wonder why noone comes to visit them? REPEATED CASE IN POINT: The people who opt to use the filters on their profile but go overboard. The computer server filters work. They are not human. They don't falter with emotions and feelings or judgements. They do their job- to block people out. So I find it amusing when someone uses the filter blockers. They set the parameters so tight that they are untouchable/ uncontactable. They set the filters for non smokers/ not married/ sex preference male\ female/ age limitations- within a tight span- 30 to 32 years old/ location within 25 miles. Then they start a thread called "Why won't anyone talk to me?" BECAUSE THEY CAN'T YOU BIG DUMMY! Your filters won't let ANYONE contact you! DUH! You've set your filters so tight the computer keeps everyone out. You've built the perfect fortress. The epitamy of shooting yourself in the foot. Hope you're happy alone. Deep down its what you really want.

Awe I'm sorry to hear that is happening to you! You should share as much or as little as you want hon! There is no wrong or right way to approach someone. You should be yourself always. If they are going to like you, it should be for who you are! But I do agree...post in the forums as much as possible and get yourself noticed. Don't limit yourself to the locals. You will be surprise at how many friends you make and how many more responses you will get. Some people don't post in the forums, but read them. It's a good way of branching out!

lol i got this as the message for a friend request...

"Your lips, your eyes, your soul Are like a work of art, The most creative thing of all Is your beautiful heart. If you were a painting, No colours could express The beauty deep inside you, A rainbow, nothing less. If you were a sculpture The clay could hardly make Your figure of an angel Without one mistake. If you were a euphony No choir could really sing All the beautiful music Your eyes could possibly bring. So here I am, an artist, With inspiration beyond belief But to capture such rare beauty, I'd have to be a thief. "



ummm....yeah...about that...

I replied actually, and said only after the shower. He said, too bad. I think that is a hot look. I told him to have great day.