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I’ve often thought about what it is that makes people happy—what one has to do in order to achieve happiness.
1- First and foremost is good health. If you do not enjoy good health, you can never be happy. Any ailment, however trivial, will deduct something from your happiness.
2- Second, a healthy bank balance. It need not run into crores, but it should be enough to provide for comforts, and there should be something to spare for recreation—eating out, going to the movies, travel and holidays in the hills or by the sea. Shortage of money can be demoralizing. Living on credit or borrowing is demeaning and lowers one in one’s own eyes.
3- Third, your own home. Rented places can never give you the comfort or security of a home that is yours for keeps. If it has garden space, all the better. Plant your own trees and flowers, see them grow and blossom, and cultivate a sense of kinship with them.
4- Fourth, an understanding companion, be it your spouse or a girlfriend or a best friend. If you have too many misunderstandings, it robs you of your peace of mind. It is better to accept the differences than to be quarreling all the time.
5- Fifth, stop envying those who have done better than you in life—risen higher, made more money, or earned more fame. Envy can be corroding; avoid comparing yourself with others.
6- Sixth, do not allow people to descend on you for gossip. By the time you get rid of them, you will feel exhausted and poisoned by their gossip-mongering.
7- Seventh, cultivate a hobby or two that will fulfill you—gardening, reading, writing, painting, playing or listening to music. Going to clubs or parties to get free drinks, or to meet celebrities, is a criminal waste of time. It’s important to concentrate on something that keeps you occupied meaningfully.
8- Eighth, every morning and evening devote 20 minutes to meditation or introspection.

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well i just want to know that whether the request has been accepted or declined.

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Thank you and your suggestion been noted.
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When you first meet someone who interests you, it's common to be totally infatuated. It's almost like the other person can't do or say anything wrong. Overtime, you want to get to know the person better and this means having some honest conversations. There are a millions things to ask a person, but the most important questions depend on the stage of the relationship and where you want it to go.
First Date Questions
Getting to know someone is an adventure in itself! As you learn about each other, it's fun to ask silly questions and laugh together. These questions will give you a sense if you're on the same page together. Just make sure your relationship isn't all about asking questions. Get out there and share some memorable activities too!

If you could have any superhero power, what would it be?
Would you ever be naked in public?
If you could have any career, what would you choose?
What's the best gift anyone has ever given you?
If you had three wishes, what would they be?
If you were going to sing karaoke what song would you choose?
What is your favorite movie and why?
Where is your ideal vacation spot?
Who is your favorite person in the world?
What makes you feel most alive?

Questions for Girlfriend or Boyfriend
Now that you've been dating for a while, here are some questions to use when things are heating up. You can also try some questions to test your compatibility. Remember, you're not interrogating your partner, bring up these questions naturally in conversations and over time as your relationship progresses.

Have you ever been in love?
Have you ever had your heart broken?
What does a successful relationship look like to you?
What happened in your last relationship?
Are you friends with your former boyfriends or girlfriends?
What has been the best decision you've ever made?
What was your first impression of me?
What is your biggest fantasy?
What is your biggest fear?
Is there anything about yourself you would change?

It’s hard not to take it personally when a friend request goes unanswered.

Developing a thicker skin can certainly help you feel less hurt when you don’t see a notification about someone you sent an invite to, but thinking about the possible explanations why you haven’t seen a response yet works even better. Most likely, the other party has something else going on that’s very different from your experience. They probably don’t hate you at all!

So, take a deep breath and wait for your turn !!

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well i am talking about how to start a conversations for being just a friend with a woman....

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and what in the case when a man is looking only for a decent friendship with a woman and in return receives no response at all !!

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