It's not the decorations, it's getting off our asses to put them up!

Don't worry, we have our share of assholes too!!! (only kiddin!, I hope)

Mike, Don't care if someone wants you to stay or go. We all have people
that wish that of us! Do what YOU want to do!!!!

Come on, we can't hold a candle to a vibrator!!!

to release!

I had tickets to see Lynyrd Skynrd/ Nugent in late 70's, but Skynrds
plane crashed 2 weeks before concert and saw Nugent/ T-Rex instead!

Creature Features, Columbo, Get Smart !

70's music... Sabbath, Nugent, Santana, Parsons, Dead, Floyd, Beck,
Tull, Stevens, Croce, etc..., etc..., etc...

That people handled their own problems... Now it's, call the cops for
every little dispute or sue someone for looking at you funny.

Michael, I've read your postings on this subject and, not to be mean,
concluded you are obsessed with her. She probably did the only thing she
could have.... cut off all communications with you. I don't know the
whole story, but I think you've put the weight of your happiness
(w/her), on her shoulders. She's afraid to do or say the wrong thing,
feeling responsible for what your reaction might be, than being able to
be herself and feel comfortable you can handle it. What you write almost
makes you sound suicidal for her love. She can't, and shouldn't, have to
feel this way, and sees a side of you she wish she hadn't.
Reconciliation at this point is probably beyond the realm of reason to
her since you can't just change what you mightn't care for in a person,
but in the future, try to tame your obsessive behaviors and live with
your insecurities and keep them to yourself and you just might find that
you hadn't the need to feel those ways in the first place, when you find
true love. Just a thought...

Wow, wake up dude! How old are you? Seek some professional help. You are
beyond whipped and are asking for more. Start your healing and move on.
Your drama episodes are probably what's scaring her away (and they are
scary... not normal)... If they're for real, I truly feel sorry for you.

There's a reason for everything!

Chopperdan, It takes two to tango, no matter who takes the lead! I knew
more women that cheated on their men than men on their women!!! But I'd
venture to say the percentages are fairly equal!

Iceprincess, I guess this is what my underlying problem is....
understanding how a woman thinks! I know a lot of woman who also have
this reaction, but I just look at it like, no matter how much it hurts
me, it is unforgiveable and doesn't deserve any more of my time. And you
did say it happened more than once! If you didn't divorce, I'd bet it
would've happened again and again. Especially if he knew you'd accept
him back!

I don't even understand the wife(?), if my significant other was
cheating ,or doing their best at trying to cheat on me, the relationship
would be over! I wouldn't blame anyone but them, and couldn't care less
about who it was they did it with and sure wouldn't care to talk with
who they chose either!!! Ain't no cure for infidelity damage to a
relationship. Wether the person really does change their ways, it is
also the other persons trust that must be fully regained. Chances of
both these things happening, in my opinion, would be about one in a
thousand!!! A sure sign to move on!

Damagedheart,
It isn't that gullible is written all over your face, it's that
self-centered asshole is imbred into his! His type cares only for one
thing.... himself. Doesn't matter who he hurts to get what he wants!
Just a pitiful excuse for a human being at best! He prays on the trust
of decent people, so don't sweat it, but unfortunately, expect it. Don't
be surprised if it happens again! Just try to read between the lines of
bull-shit before fully accepting them!

Unfortunately, it is the minority of scammers and other dishonest people
who prey on decent people that destroys trust in a great majority of us.
We go on the defense to protect ourselves from it happening again,
questioning who we can really trust, which in turn, hurts relations
between honest people.

Will someone please remove the dish from in front of ChubbyCherub!!!!!

OK, you got me!!! I cannot tell a lie. The acid dish really was put
there by "Morena"!!!!!

My probation prohibits me from currently being a jello head.... but if
you can keep a secret......