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Thu 10/16/08 08:28 PM
wuts up people

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Wed 10/15/08 08:44 PM
single and not looking. wat the @#%#1 am i doing here? i guess i am looking.

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Wed 10/15/08 08:37 PM
and why?

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Wed 10/15/08 08:20 PM

I was best friends with a girl for a year. Firstly it killed my chances of meeting an actual girlfriend. Secondly her ex husband got her pregnant. Then I find out she wanted to be more than friends. They got back together and we never hang out or talk any more; jealousy from husband as he knows she wanted more from me. I miss her as a friend but I can do without the complications.

If this was a guy friend there would be no wanting any more from each other, no jealous partners, no complications. So yes, a platonic friendship with the opposite sex is possible but beware the potential drama and complications it can bring you.



What a sad story. Great advice though.

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Wed 10/15/08 08:12 PM

If there is a spark there that keeps you up at night....you ain't gonna be just friends. If you smell her scent when she is miles away...you ain't gonna be just friends.

If you send her on a beer run solo or will fart in her presence unapologeticlly....then you are friends.

Basic stuff bro.



that's some funny stuff

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Wed 10/15/08 08:09 PM
and i grew old in seconds.


I put in my vote...

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Wed 10/15/08 07:58 PM
without expectations and or thoughts of being with that person? please advise

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Wed 10/15/08 09:49 AM
Edited by Jessy001 on Wed 10/15/08 09:53 AM
I would ask family only. I tested my "friends" once. I pretended to be in need. I asked for help and they either said no or went behind my back talking trash about how well off i was but now i was broke. U can't go wrong w/ family. They are the only people I would help. And of course children, charities, and the homeless.