There are absolutely no words adequate to describe the emotion and sorrow of this news. All of my thoughts and prayers are with everyone affected across this great land. God rest the souls of those who are no longer with us and comfort those left behind. Strength and protection to those heroes left with the selfless and unimaginable task of risking their lives for the mere hope of finding a father, a mother, a sister, a brother, a son, or a daughter alive. On this day hug the ones you love a little longer than normal, do not pass up an opportunity to say I love you. Show appreciation to all those assigned to protect and serve, thank a fireman or an EMT, these are the heroic individuals that do not know you but will willingly loose their lives to give you yours. Salute those in our military, they protect our way of life that can no longer be taken for granted.

Hey Stranger {LowRange} it's great to see you again, long time and no speak, sorry for my long absence here on Mingles. Thank you so much for your incredible patience with me. Since last spoken, it's been rather busy, stressful, and depressing. I received word my grandma is dying and is in hospice care. I went up to see her with my family a few times. I haven't been able to focus on all else and the other people that matter in my life, my friends, being my Mingles friends! I hope that you have been well and life's been treating you kindly. What's been up with you?

Only after two posts, you can actually say that CAREFUL! Not all the women are fakes as you said, that's like saying all guys are fake, and I don't believe that to be true. And this is coming from a girl who's been abused a majority of her life. With that poor attitude you possess, you might not get any women at all. Choose wisely your words my friend!

esperanza, which in Spanish = Hope. I hate the name so much that I use my middle name as my first name. And so, I go by Victoria or "Torie" by short.

Misanthropic

From Boogie Nights to Charlie Wilsons War to Capote, he was fantastic in everything. He made you understand his character, even when his character was being an *******. That is a rare talent; this is a huge loss.
I wont pretend to sympathize with relatives who I only discovered reading the news, of course their loss is immeasurable, but I can��t understand their loss, never having known the man. I know his work, its nuance and beauty. I can only imagine the man behind it, but it is the promise of his future work that pains me.

R.I.P. Philip Seymour Hoffman (July 23, 1967 -�� February 2, 2014)

Trigger

Smuggle

Hi fellow Mingles user, A little bird whispered in my ear *points to you* and said its your birthday tomorrow, so for you, I wanted to dedicate a few words: lots of joy, happiness, health and love. and on this day with candles, cake and blessings I will wish you many more happy days, memorable moments and very special years to come. May your birthday and all your days be filled with Peace and love. May you see the joy of life in all people, places and things. Fun and laughter surround you today and echo out into all the lives you touch. Thinking of you on your special day. Have a great day and be special and kind to yourself. Take some time FOR YOU, it's your turn and your time. And relish every moment of it. Breathe it in and let yourself feel pampered and singularly deserving. You are an individual expression of the Great I Am. Treat yourself accordingly with joy and love. Birthday hugs and kisses to you from simply a friend, Torie

Conniving

Consume

Conundrums

From my perspective, ever wonder what makes a guy special from the rest of the bunch?

A girl's mind works in strange ways-as if you didn't know-and the things that attract them to men are mostly NOT what you expect .

Ever noticed how a girl goes completely berserk when she finds out you've lied . What's all the fuss about? you think . The big fuss they make tells you something crucial -- HONESTY is very very important to girls. Remember this if you are naturally honest and use your honesty to full advantage. Be honest with her even if your natural instinct in a particular situation is not to be . If you are naturally dishonest conceal this at all costs-you're probably good at that anyway!

A good sense of humor is amazingly attractive to most girls . They want a man who is FUN to be with .If you can make a girl laugh you're 90% there . If you have a good sense of humor-use it at every appropriate opportunity . If you haven't- WORK on it - and develop one . This can be done - watch those that have this and use their techniques - try the one that suits your personality best-experiment .

EYE-CONTACT is in my opinion the single most important factor in your success and for this reason I will go into this in more detail later . (similarly with SMILES )

A strong personality draws most girls . They really do go for a man who knows what he wants to do - no matter what anybody else thinks about him .

Girls are also drawn to confident men who are assertive , positive and don't dither . If you are less than confident - don't show it . LOOK CONFIDENT . How do you do this? TRY-study body language , either get a book on this or just observe & imitate any confident men you see around you . Stand up straight ,never fidget , head up high , slow ,steady movements and above all EYE to EYE contact at all times. You know the things I mean -observe & learn & apply .

Maturity is a big turn on with most girls . This is one reason that quite a lot find older men attractive . So it usually pays to act pretty sensibly when you're with girls ( not to the extent that you lose your sense of humor and fun of course ). Drinking beer until it comes out of your ears, falling over senseless and going on the rampage might be a good laugh when you're with the lads but it won't impress her. She might laugh but inside she'll be eaten up with embarrassment.

A lot of men think that girls are turned on by very macho men - but most girls think completely the OPPOSITE . Girls like their men to be sensitive . Don't take this too far , girls want their men to act like men but try and mix being a man with being caring and sensitive . A heady****ail that girls find irresistible ! If you find something 'nice' or 'pretty' or something upsets you - tell her. You'll be surprised how much she warms to you . Especially if the something nice or pretty is about her!!

Whilst girls obviously go for good looks and a decent body it comes surprisingly LOW on THEIR list of priorities . By itself it doesn't turn them on like it does men . Ask a girl if she is turned on by these things , she will probably say yes but deep down a girl knows she can't find any man a turn-on unless he CARES for her too.

...I wish I knew what I look for. I think in general, someone who stands out from the crowd. Someone who is really passionate about things and not afraid to show it...someone who shows that he likes me and doesn't play games, but is still aggressive and not worried about filtering himself to make me happy. Someone who appreciates how passionate I am and understands the quest for true happiness...doesn't define happiness as just money and some prestigious job. He has to be adventurous, responsible, goofy, able to enjoy really simple times as well as the finer things in life...definitely someone who recognizes artistic beauty whether it's architecture, fashion, or literature...someone who asks strange questions and wants to know more about the meaning of things. I can't stand guys who don't stand up to me; I want to be challenged. I love chivalry, but only to a certain point. Sometimes when I say I want to do something, I really just want to do it. He has to recognize how independent and hard headed I am; sometimes let me be just that and other times take me down a notch. Someone who knows how and when to make me feel vulnerable because that's something I need to feel but am not going to do on my own. Someone who has a creative side and an outlet for expressing himself, like music, art, writing...but still has a very methodical and more proper side to counterbalance that. Someone who can play society's game and knows how to be very suave, but beneath that doesn't really care what people think and has his own ideas about things. Definitely not someone who puts on false pretenses or fronts, though. He has to be tactful but not the kind to care that he makes every single person happy, or is liked by every single person. And last but not least, a subtle and cute PDA-er, because I just think it's really meaningful to show someone how much you appreciate them when other people are around

Verdict

Tyranny

Paradox

Abolish

Dope - Die Mother ****er Die

Single and okay with it