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Wed 07/01/09 01:55 PM



Give me your month and day of your birthday and I will talk a little about this special day for you.




November 24, 1968 (9:05 am)



Hello adventurer! I hope your days are good alternativa and that life's turbelations are positive!

and here is your reading...



John,

I don’t know how you did it, but you seem to have me pegged.

I found you hit the mark on most things. The things I didn’t agree with (or like) I showed to family and friends and was told that those things were indeed me as well.

Thank you so much for also including the challenges and destiny parts. As you pointed out, I’m always searching for answers, especially with those things.

~ Lori
flowers


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Tue 06/30/09 06:46 PM

I get that sometimes from non-posters. According to some, if you got too many friends on mingle, you are some sort of a "player", or there is something wrong with you.

What do you think?


I think it’s none of their business.

I don’t even have mine showing in my profile.

My friends are MY friends. If I decide to become involved with someone, of course they would want to know who I associate with. Until then, you don’t need to know.

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Tue 06/30/09 06:31 PM


I didn't really have anything to contribute..it's just that i would hate to miss the opportunity, to say...

Shut up, Dan


rofl rofl rofl

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Tue 06/30/09 06:24 PM

laugh laugh


Way cool! :thumbsup:

By the way, I don't know if you ever saw my thank you in the post where you were finding all those photos, so since you're here...

THANK YOU SO MUCH! You really made my night and did wonders for my mood! blushing

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Tue 06/30/09 06:22 PM

there is only one way to eat an elephant

one bite at a time

that means no matter how big and intimidating something looks just take it one bite at a time


Nice saying and something I need to remember with a lot of things. Thanks! :thumbsup:

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Tue 06/30/09 05:05 PM
I would also be interested in having you do a drawing as mentioned in your profile.

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Tue 06/30/09 05:01 PM

Give me your month and day of your birthday and I will talk a little about this special day for you.




November 24, 1968 (9:05 am)

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Tue 06/30/09 04:41 PM

How do I look up a phone number that keeps calling me? I dont know if it is a bill collector or not...but I want to know. If they would say who they are I would answer it. Can anyone help me find who it is?
Kat


There are phonebook pages that will tell you who it is if it's a land phone. There are other websites that will tell you if it's a cell phone or a telemarketer/collector but those usually will only tell you the city and state of the cell phone owner or company name for the telemarketer/collector. Any further information is usually around $5. If you pay, the information they provide is very detailed.

Type "reverse lookup" in a search engine and take your pick of the sites that offer this service.

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Tue 06/30/09 04:23 PM

I wonder if theres like a numerology website that could give you some more interesting or spooky facts about those days, and stuff.. what


Maybe here:

http://www.aboutnumerology.com/

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Tue 06/30/09 04:18 PM
Testing with this one... to see if they'll let it show.
Link:

http://dontdatehimgirl.com/home/

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Tue 06/30/09 04:12 PM



Thank you all for your help. I am not insane....LOL

Why cant we call out the names or ID's of the people we find are game players or hiding that they are married?



There ARE websites that list real names and/or online names used by jerks. Unfortunately, not enough people know about them and use them. I have actually ran across the names 3 people on those sites that I almost got involved with. Glad I checked them first!



Just read your profile, that is great!


OMG!!! I wrote my heart out describing myself in my first profile and it seemed no one paid attention to what I actually wrote (lots of replies that made it obvious they didn't actually read it) and now that I've changed it to a smarta*# one, I keep getting told it's great.

Too funny! rofl


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Tue 06/30/09 04:10 PM



Thank you all for your help. I am not insane....LOL

Why cant we call out the names or ID's of the people we find are game players or hiding that they are married?



There ARE websites that list real names and/or online names used by jerks. Unfortunately, not enough people know about them and use them. I have actually ran across the names 3 people on those sites that I almost got involved with. Glad I checked them first!



Can you share those sites on here?


They would probably do an edit on my post... seem to like doing that to me. I'll send you mail with the info. if you don't get my mail before the day is over, send me a note and I'll let you know my yahoo address and can relay the links there.

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Tue 06/30/09 04:03 PM

Thank you all for your help. I am not insane....LOL

Why cant we call out the names or ID's of the people we find are game players or hiding that they are married?




There ARE websites that list real names and/or online names used by jerks. Unfortunately, not enough people know about them and use them. I have actually ran across the names 3 people on those sites that I almost got involved with. Glad I checked them first!

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Tue 06/30/09 03:59 PM

....well,...nobody would read ya'! :tongue:


I write the same as I talk. I actually say the words as I type them. As for if anyone reads what I write... obviously they sometimes do. The only time it appears they don't is when I write in my profile. Must be like invisible ink, but somehow online... spock what

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Tue 06/30/09 03:53 PM



Glad I'm not the only one who counts back from people's birthdays!

Guess what my parents were doing Valentine's 1968? Making me! laugh

Yes but were they planning too?flowerforyou


Unfortunately, no. My mother didn't want anymore children after my sister. But hey... here I am anyway! laugh

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Tue 06/30/09 03:52 PM
I like the way it looks as if Dan is "giving the bird" to everyone in his photo! rofl

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Tue 06/30/09 03:46 PM

You meet someone online, you nudge back and forth, you email back and forth. Spend hours and hours on line chatting. Both seems to be what each other are looking for.

Then disappear for a couple days, pulling double duty (without stating his job, I do know this is plausible, that and last min. trips.)

Phone calls back again apologizes, picked right back up, No prob. More plans to make plans to meet.

Disappear again for 2 days.
Sent email stating asking if he was still interested in meeting to call if not no worries and good luck with your search.

Emailed back explaining a last min trip and will be back Thursday really wants to take you to dinner, spend time together over the 4th, lets make plans. Still very interested(More plans to make plans).

Great you would think to your self, stop worrying about it.

Another day and half go by and you see him online but no email IM or anything. His daughters did have him sign up and could have been logged on but I think that is just reaching for an explaination.

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Being strung along or not? I think so....or am I just being impatient?
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I hate games, and I feel like I am in the middle of one.

Your thoughts?

****if it is not constructive comments to assist then keep them to your self please, I am just looking for a little advise from people who have been here awhile******



I don't know if you're being strung along or if he's just really too busy for more than an occassional friend.

Possibilities:
1) He's involved elsewhere and can only talk to you when she's not around. Are you willing to be on the sideline of another woman/man?

2) He's just too busy and even IF you meet and things evolve, he'll probably still be too busy. Are you willing to be on the sideline of everything else?

You have to decide.

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Tue 06/30/09 03:39 PM

have smaller feet than men?

:angel:

:angel:

:angel:

So they can stand closer to the kitchen sink. rofl scared rofl


I bet my foot is just about the right size for kicking in just the right spot. explode

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Tue 06/30/09 03:34 PM

Well, 9 months and 2 weeks earlier is the Fourth of July. Probably lots of people born right around Mid-April.....


Glad I'm not the only one who counts back from people's birthdays!

Guess what my parents were doing Valentine's 1968? Making me! laugh

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Tue 06/30/09 03:23 PM



So what is the sweetest thing a guy/girl ever did for you that made your heart melt?

Well, spill the beanssmitten love :heart:


An ex once cleaned my house while I was at work and had dinner ready when I came home. Afterwards, he sat beside me while watching “Bridgette Jones’s Diary” without trying to interrupt the movie to “get frisky”… not easy for a man to sit through any movie without doing that, especially a chick flick. :thumbsup:


Cool:thumbsup:


Yep. I don’t know which was nicer… him cleaning the house after me and 3 kids or him sitting through a chick flick and behaving.