Would you be willing to put distance aside and get to know the person and if all goes well travel to see them in the future or would you rather date someone closer? If i really do like the person , would be willing to know that person more and keep things going regardless of the distance. In the end for me it's all in the mind cos having someone closer to you doesn't guarantee total success in a relationship . |
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Meeting the wrong people.
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women are really different than us, they have different wants and needs. they
take in info differently and the process the info differently than us also. you need to hang out with guys who are good with women .learn as much as you can on what makes them tick. its not easy , they have hormonal changes that can effect there behavior ...MOST MEN SPEND MORE TIME LEARNING ABOUT EVERYTHING IN THERE LIVES EXCEPT HOW TO RELATE TO WOMEN.. AND WHILE YOUR AT IT YOU NEED TO GET TO KNOW YOURSELF BETTER. LIKE WHAT ARE YOUR LIMITING BELIEFS ?? WHAT ARE YOUR FAVORITE FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS AND HOW THEY EFFECT YOUR LIFE AND THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU...GOOD LUCK..... Thanks so much. |
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Meeting the wrong people.
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I seem not to have met any woman to get along with on this site except for just one or two and they are so far away in another country. Am almost totally giving up though , thinking of deactivating my account. Most of the women I meet here just goes wrong on the first date .
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Waasup ladies
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So how does this site work? Just sit back and wait for all the scammers to ask you for your email lmao haha haha so true!! Am so sick and tired of it . Now all I do is block anyone who ask for my email address before anything. |
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Online users
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I can't access the online users section Everytime I go there it's just tells me something went wrong or it keeps showing 3 of the same pictures for different profiles.
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My profile.
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Don't know why each time I upload pictures on my profile it stays there for a few hours and the next time I check its all gone. And am seeing just my profile picture. Although I deactivated my account for about 2weeks and just reactivated it lately. Could this be responsible?
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Relationship heartbreak.
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I don't know why each time i put in everything into a relationship it backfires in the end. Maybe it's my natural niceness that puts me in this position. How can i stop this from ever happening again? Cos it's killing me. You are absolutely right. I can't change who i am. Would keep being myself and wait for my time. Thanks for your candid comment. |
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Long distance relationships can work. It all depends on trust, commitment, patience,and love. If both parties possess these then I see no reason why it can't be successful.
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Relationship heartbreak.
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I don't know why each time i put in everything into a relationship it backfires in the end. Maybe it's my natural niceness that puts me in this position. How can i stop this from ever happening again? Cos it's killing me. Don't let a failed relationship change the niceness in you, it's who and what you are as a whole person. When you love someone it is only right that you give your all in your relationship. It's up to your partner if she would accept you for everything that you are and with your flaws. If she doesn't know how to appreciate you then she is not the right one for you. But also take time to examine yourself,it always take two to tango. Have you tried to listen to her grievances intently? Did you acknowledge them? What have you done to resolve some issues between you. Were you willing to admit your faults and hers too? Were your feelings enough to hold on to each other? Did you really love her truly or you were you unsure of how you feel because of your own personal issues too? Did you really give everything you've got to make your relationship work? Did you try harder? Being nice is sometimes not enough, there are other important things that you should recognize, understand, accept and compromise in order to make it work out. But if after all your effort failed, then it's better that you let go. Don't be despair, if one door closed, another one will open....better opportunities will come your way....just be patient and keep your heart always open, don't let go of the love in your heart, hold on to it and give it when the right one comes along at the right time. Thank you so much for the advice and encouragement. |
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Relationship heartbreak.
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Are you coming across to strong and it freaks her out? Not at all. |
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Relationship heartbreak.
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Hmmm... or was that you have to have sex with a few chickens in order to get the eggs to break to make a omelette... grandma was a little bit off her rocker..lol lol |
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Relationship heartbreak.
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Thank you for the encouragement.
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Relationship heartbreak.
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I don't know why each time i put in everything into a relationship it backfires in the end. Maybe it's my natural niceness that puts me in this position. How can i stop this from ever happening again? Cos it's killing me.
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Unsuccessful Relationships.
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Thank you so much everyone.
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Unsuccessful Relationships.
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Thanks for the advice.
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Unsuccessful Relationships.
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Ever since I broke up with my first gf after dating for two years. I have had other relationships after her and I haven't managed up to six months with anyone. Am beginning to think it's karma cos she was the only girl who loved me endlessly and would go any length to make me happy. I was a young and naive guy who just wasn't ready for a serious relationship. I hope ds is not a problem that I haven't found another woman like her?
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Marriage.
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Marriage is overrated. True or false?
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Physical Attributes.
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Oops! My bad! Am sorry i misunderstood you. I didn't read your comment clearly.
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Physical Attributes.
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How do u mean that I have nice packaging and a poisonous heart? U don't know me.
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Physical Attributes.
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I appreciate your comments. Only a woman would have the best answer to this. Lol!
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