The real ones keep there promises,the fake ones just promise more...

Some shy guys need a lil encouraging,jus laugh and touch his leg with a light slap,i dont know if he is funny or not...but a leaning in of the head on his shoulder even if he jus says something "sweet" while cusping a hand,will get his attention...and if that dont work.Just wait longer,he may just be a gentleman not looking to tak advantage of u and treat u as others have..but if he is over shy just be patient and let him come around,your attractive and he will respond to u in time.And if its more than a month without his affection of any kind...well sorry but he is denying his sexuality:)

Point of every thing is.. dont look down on people for their beleifs or practices,they each have there tastes and dislike's,whats acceptable to some is acceptable to others.Whole point of this site is to find common ground and links between people,if u dont like what u see move on.Find your preferance ,but dont judge others for theirs,nice people arent made up solely by their habits,cool people are cool because they are...

Well theres a difference between having fun once in a while and doing it often,your having fun...sounds like her guy is hardcore silly...halloween is fun but her guy did it too often,but if its for fun and her guy enjoys it...maybe the guy will meet a female golem and be happy,never know

All depends on how much u care,an STD is bad but losing out on a genuine person is worse.Everyone has some sort of past luggage haunting them,that jus happens to be one that u will carry too hehe,but you should appreciate the fact they told u...theres something to that.The fact they were honest says a lot about character,but the affliction tears aways the balance...do what u think is right.No opinion can make your decision for u,your the one that has to live with it..

Be patient,and if the next guy starts talking about "One ring to rule them all" or brings a plastic lighsaber than u know its over...there are plenty of good ones,just dont be hurried and pick the first that comes along...but ty for that giggle,sad story but funny

Some confuse being sensitive and being needy,on both sides of the relationship..a lady can appreciate a sensitive man,but oversensitive types that will say sorry alot and are clingy can be a put off,there is emotionally connected and emotionally needy.Most like the sensitive,but like i say oversensitive can be a downer...gl man,you jus had a bad day is all..she will comeback if she knows your a good guy

Well if i will get all pshycological like..its the need for attention of the wrong kind, showing a body before the mind will put off some women because it looks like your saying physical attraction is a main concern and that your more interested in the body not the mind.Its fine too have a bowflex body:),but the point of showing it too soon makes some consider wether thats all your about, and are doing it because the mind has not had as much of a workout and your showing your only asset,instead of showing what kind of personality and mind u have.So she will know u jus dont say in a conversation "Gee i didnt hear anything u said...check out my ab's" ,after all,intimacy is about the mind more than a body..u can take a pill and run and workout all u want,but there is no pill or workout for romance or sensitivity...jus my opinion,im jus saying that it detracts from what a woman that wants a real relationship looks for,but i wont speak for all...

Means enjoying a silent moment and enjoy eachother's company while the fast paced world moves around us.The intention is just to take in the moment and know your next to someone that makes u more of a person,and appreciate the fact that they are there beside u...ready to listen to what each of u have to say.

Most all reply in some way to a heart break from another,its better to vent than contain heart break..least the other knows that he/she is a piece of something.But as long as u take the mindset that they werent worth your caring or passion in the first place, than u can move on easier knowing they werent worth affection..holding it in just says u were not heart broke in the first place...

Be a man with answers to a womans mind instead of questioning yourself,you could call it confidence or whatever..some respond to a guy who knows exactly what he wants, and how he feels about certain things with conviction.It could be a comfort to any sort of relationship if u know the other is set straight in there likes and dislikes of others instead of them questioning themselves.You know who u are,what u like,dislike etc..just be yourself and be patient,and dont be afraid to email someone more than once.You have nothing to lose in trying,but have everything to lose by sitting and letting a certain someone pass u by because you didnt try...

Good humor,
Deeply understanding,
Comfortable with themselves

Depnds on the crime,and if its just a "small" sort of misdemeanor than ill let it slide,if its a felony like say hit and run,than i would first give them the opportunity to turn themselves in,and if they didnt..well i wouldnt consider them a person worth having as a friend because they cant cop to a responsibility,so have fun in jail former friend

Its hard to just drop your own responsibilities and go running to those that u care about,your first priority is family,and im not sure if he disagreed or left u because he couldnt accept your life...but as long as u were open with your mind as well as your heart with him than im sure theres nothing lost.He will be back if he truly cares and is patient with you and your situation,and if you just werent open with him about your life period,than now is the time..cant expect a heart to care for another when it doesnt know the whole story

Agree with darkowl,thats a form of mental control in a way for some,like ownership in some minds...way too soon for a ring.Question being.. if its genuine affection and he wants to buy u a gift or have a way to feel closer to you with something affectionate that he gave,as in knowing u have a gift from him will make him feel closer to u in a way.It could be just kindness from puppy love,but either way its too soon to accept things beside admiration

Wow and the truth shall set u free,nicely said..being a nice guy is how u take care of a woman,not kissing up to her or saying im sorry all the time, thats not nice,just pathetic.Different women have different needs,but none of them are going to go for a needy man groveling for love..point of all being,be a man, and treat her right and she will respond.Unless she is the afore mentioned broken type,than in that case...run for your very life

none,it helps to be open to everything if your really wanting to understand somebody,if they are into devil worshiping and such,fine..then u can agree or disagree,but at least u know what someone is about more,the more honest people are when they talk the more easy to build a relationship or friendship.Better to find out if your interests are the same rather than later ,and act surprised when true colors sho..,and get a divorce or lose a friend because u werent honest to begin with

If u love someone u cant express enough,only limit is your desire to try,,,but id say prolly too much expression can be bad that feel like its a nagging and needful love,given in small amount its wonderful,but too far is the begging and the need

If u and he really have feelings than you both will wait for the right time.Why just give up on something that might be good because of a circumstance like distance,continue to talk and take it day by day,its better to find someone special far away instead of searching for nothing that is close (though keep options open).Finding the right one is never easy, neither is the way ahead,its the ones that fight throught the little things that make it worth it at the end

i hope u read that at the get together afterward,there would have been more tears..very good and heartfelt