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If you really liked someone far away but you couldnt do anything about it because You have obligations/responsibility where you are. There would be no way to pack up and leave any time soon. You are to broke to go visit them. And if they came and visited you you would not have much time for them..
Do you let them go and not waste their time? |
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just let it go, there's nothing else that can be done, just another fact of the cruel world, sorry.
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ok, what about the other person? can they pack up and move to you? do you want it to work? does he? think about it, it may be worth working on, but it wont be easy.
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I'd let them go... not once do you mention anything positive. You have so many walls up (reasons/excuses) already it may be best to just let them be... sorry just my opinion
good luck |
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Sounds like the timing is off ... when a situation is 'right' you don't have to work that hard to make the connection happen. Seems as though other things in your life need to be a priority right now other than a relationship - maintain a friendship if you can (or care to) via the distance in the meantime, but don't expect that person to wait on anything romantic. You're in a tough bind ... I feel for you!
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It sadly is a very common problem on here
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I'd let them go... not once do you mention anything positive. You have so many walls up (reasons/excuses) already it may be best to just let them be... sorry just my opinion good luck I have no walls up..not excuses either. Just reality. Not everyone can pick up and leave. Even if they really wanted to. Thank u for your advice though
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It sadly is a very common problem on here
Yes...i noticed that! so just wanted to see everyones opinion on the topic. |
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ok, what about the other person? can they pack up and move to you? do you want it to work? does he? think about it, it may be worth working on, but it wont be easy. Neither can move at this time. It would be nice if it could work out but I'm a realist and just dont want to hurt anyone. I dont want to give false hope..make any promises I cant keep... Hopefully I have made a life long friend. I think he is a great and wonderful person. I really just want him to be happy. Even if its not w/ me! I really wish the best for everyone on here trying to meet someone and running into similar problems.
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i would make roome fore them>>
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Thanks everyone for their advice
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I'd let them go... not once do you mention anything positive. You have so many walls up (reasons/excuses) already it may be best to just let them be... sorry just my opinion good luck I have no walls up..not excuses either. Just reality. Not everyone can pick up and leave. Even if they really wanted to. Thank u for your advice though
I can understand, you and only you know your situation, I was only expressing my opinion. No malice intended
Good luck 
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If you really liked someone far away but you couldnt do anything about it because You have obligations/responsibility where you are. There would be no way to pack up and leave any time soon. You are to broke to go visit them. And if they came and visited you you would not have much time for them.. Do you let them go and not waste their time? Sounds like this is just a friendship that will stay that way...for now. Might be that things will change in the future. Might be they won't. But, yeah, considering all you said, you might want to consider not investing too much into this (other than friendship). |
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If you really liked someone far away but you couldnt do anything about it because You have obligations/responsibility where you are. There would be no way to pack up and leave any time soon. You are to broke to go visit them. And if they came and visited you you would not have much time for them.. Do you let them go and not waste their time? I think you should keep talking and see what comes of it. 
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Maybe he is into you more than you think.
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If u and he really have feelings than you both will wait for the right time.Why just give up on something that might be good because of a circumstance like distance,continue to talk and take it day by day,its better to find someone special far away instead of searching for nothing that is close (though keep options open).Finding the right one is never easy, neither is the way ahead,its the ones that fight throught the little things that make it worth it at the end
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I would just let go
Last time i was in that situation I was let go , kinda made it easier on me 
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If you really liked someone far away but you couldnt do anything about it because You have obligations/responsibility where you are. There would be no way to pack up and leave any time soon. You are to broke to go visit them. And if they came and visited you you would not have much time for them.. Do you let them go and not waste their time? whats wrong with being friends? Why do you have to "let them go"?... |
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whats wrong with being friends? Why do you have to "let them go"?... Some people want all or nothing and wont be happy w/ just friendship. Or will just always want more.. |
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