Sorry ;0)


It's not for me to change myself, but to look at the other person's point of view objectively. sometimes when we are in relationships, we only see them on a one sided basis. Very rarely (from my experience are the two mature enough to look at the relationship objectively.

Sometimes relationships end from no wrong doing on either side. sometimes one or both partners don't feel fullfilled.

My goal would be to see what the other person see's without taking offense. So I could some valuable points from him, to take into my future.

Relationships never end because of one person, usually both parties are responsible for the break-up. It's not about a blame game, but about learning.

It's not for me to change myself, but to look at the other person's point of view objectively. sometimes when we are in relationships, we only see them on a one sided basis. Very rarely (from my experience are the two mature enough to look at the relationship objectively.

Sometimes relationships end from no wrong doing on either side. sometimes one or both partners don't feel fullfilled.

My goal would be to see what the other person see's without taking offense. So I could some valuable points from him, to take into my future.

Relationships never end because of one person, usually both parties are responsible for the break-up. It's not about a blame game, but about learning.

I personally think, when learning, some want to find out what was it about the relationship that didn't work.

Sometimes people are looking for answers to improve on the next relationship, other times the person just isn't able to let go and needs answers.


Usually when I am looking for closure, it's to learn so I can be a better person the next time around. Too, so I can let go of any excess baggage, so that its not taken to the next relationship.

Thanks for your replies. . . .I forwarded them over to her.

A friend of mine told me tonight that she told a long time friend of ours that she loved him. But now he has been somewhat distant. They've been friends for at least 5 years and she has been feeling this way toward him for a long time. She rcently sent him a message asking if they were still friends, instead he posted the following song:

Did not feel loyal to no woman
So ready for the move-on
Had to play the lover’s game
And the ‘be my baby-boo’ or something
Every honey taught me
Things as vulnerable love
Till you stepped in and said
´I love you´ and yes, you want me

The situation’s outta hand and I don’t understand why [why,why]
Feelin so damn high [why]
Like it was meant to be [why]
Could it be that finally I can see why [why,why]
’s more to me [yeah,yeah]
Than calling booty...

’You’re the love of my life’...She said

Twice as nice is what I think about
Our art of interacting
Feels like I know you forever
Even if our groove is recent
Every time I touch you
Thrills up & down my spine
Makes me say things like:
´I love you´ and yes, I want you

Tune into this higher state
Love so fine - like this is fate
Affinity - I feel for you
The bubble´s on so naturally
Tune into this higher state
My destiny you stimulate
I can´t deny - I feel for you
Nurture me - I´ll set you free


What should I tell her? She is confused.

LOL..thanks guys....nice meeting all of you~

Thanks for the responses guys!

Thanks for the warm welcome guys~

what is a right man?


That is a good question. One I have been trying to figure out myself! LOL

I joined the site a few days ago...did a little looking around and enjoyed reading and writing in some of the forums.

Looking forward to building~

smile, teeth are important.
hygiene
and a great sense of humor

Romance is a good one too~

Seems we've disconnected
From physical connections
With cell phones, blackberrys, Chirps, sidekicks,
Computers and the internet

We now express ourselves over key strokes
Using smiley faces, exclamations and other symbols
To get our point across

We no longer look into each others eyes, hold hands
Or exchange blushing smiles for memory's sake
Instead it's LUV YA, TTYL, LOL and BRB & BTW
Over the internet highway


See my space is now taken up by myspace
And I spend too much time addicted to this
With no place for physical interaction
Using smaller case and sometimes
upper case letters
Which tells you when I am SCREAMING


We use photos and generated graphics
As a means of expression to express our true feelings (Over the screen)


We create html codes
And url links to try to
Touch the other person
In their most intimate places
While taking the intimacy out of the whole conversation


When a message is sent
It is sent through one sector (viewed by the internet provider on your end)
Across a router (viewed by the ISP provider on their end)
Through cross cables and wires
With IM's and pings
To get each other's attention


Drawn into solitude
We are forgetting the most important factor of our existence and survival
The HUMAN CONNECTION


Is now disconnected by cell phones, blackberrys, chirps, sidekicks,
Computers and the internet
We use text messages, IMs, symbols and the www. (world wide web)
To say the things we should really be
Saying and/or doing in person


I miss my physical connections with you!
So text me or call me (if your (sidekick/blackberry is dead or your computer has crashed), and let me know
When you have time to
Get with me on a one on one basis
So we can begin to resume
What should be so natural for us

CONNECTING.. ..

P.S.
I want to learn to spend quality time with you!

BTW
I Miss you. .. .(see what I mean)!!!!!!!

Wombman once walked with concrete shoes
Built strength,
Learned to handle resistance
So she could go back and carry her sister
Who is not heavy because she has been prepared for this
She is strong enough for the both of them
Teaches her sister the technique for walking with concrete shoes
And how to slowly chip away the weight

Paint pictures with words
Art for the true connoisseur
Call it poetry

Nice

Thank you LAMom~

creative work ~

This is more like prose....very creative writing~

Thank you~

Thanks guys~

Glad you enjoed it~