Your profile looks great to me! :)

*giggle

Perhaps he likes a challenge... hmmmm....

No, but it does depend on the lady. So many have age related "hang-ups". It's all a matter of comfort; people do not like to go outside their comfort zone. Everyone is different.

Good luck!

My kids.

My oldest is 18. When he was younger I did explain sex, and sexuality, to him. I am very open with each of my kids and made sure he felt comfortable discussing any questions or concerns with me. I would rather him come to me than ask friends at school.

Protection was a huge focus in the conversation and I wanted him to realize safety was not just a matter of birth control. This helped him see how important using condoms would be when he did become sexually active.

When needed, he did purchase condoms on his own and I felt reassured that I did all I could to help him as he matured. None of us know exactly how to handle this issue and, as with anything else, what works for one child, does not work for another.

All you can do is try your best to explain the importance of keeping themselves safe, follow your instincts, and hope for the best!

Depends on what you consider naughty. ;)

Neither. Intelligence and a great sense of humor are more attractive to me than anything. A smart man, who has playful side knows how to be good at being bad. ;)

Sweetie, give yourself time. Just try not to be too hard on yourself. I'm sure you will do great! Good luck. :)

Lesbian porn is hot, doesn't mean she is bisexual. Labels are funny that way, they don't always fit properly. She can enjoy lots of different types of porn, and get off on it. Doesn't necessarily mean she is ready to try it.

If it works for her, turns her on and it apparently does, then good for her! She should just enjoy it and not try to analyze it. Sex, and sexuality, is unique to each of us. We all have our personal preferences. If she's bi, she'll figure that out if the right lady comes along.

Point is, does it really matter?

Self confidence comes when you finally accept yourself as the remarkable person you are. You learn your faults through time and mistakes, you try to learn from them and become a better person. Yet, you know you will always do some things wrong, say somethings wrong... and you accept it. Because the good traits, as well as the bad, are what make you who you are. You are the only one like you in the whole world! People aren't always going to agree with you, they aren't always going to like you, but if you accept yourself, just as you are... then the thoughts and opinions of others carry less weight with you. You can agree to disagree and respect the opinions of those around you, because you respect your own opinions as well.

Accepting yourself is not easy, we are often very hard on ourselves... but it is possible. It just takes time.

Anyway, that's my opinion. ;)