Community > Posts By > shakes-beard
I've found more happiness by not following pleasures.
If that makes any sense. |
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Tired, and don't know why. probably fed up with FedEx. |
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indefatigable
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Just think, you can indulge in, well, indulgent things. for a whole day, with a clear conscience.
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Video chats help, in my view. Photos are too often faked or heavily photoshopped. Besides 2/3 of communication is non verbal. So yea, vid chats Why on earth not? Hiding something? Also, I do not like the assumption I'm fake and clearly over half of the MEN here hold that view. I am not going to prove myself to some distrusting person. For me to take that step to use video chat I'd have to feel comfortable with a man, he has to make me feel safe and that he has a real interest in me. A MAN that only wants to verify I'm real doesn't exude that, meaning I will NOT take the step to go to video. Maybe MEN need to learn to use their intuition and see things as "innocent until proven guilty". What I see here most reason "Guilty until proven innocent" I will not be part of that. The way it's presented here by many it's a waste of my time. I am not going to take the next step until I feel a MAN'S interest, he makes me feel good and safe. Basically a vid chat is like a real date. I don't go on a date when a MAN doesn't give me a good feeling either :) So... no, nothing to hide. Just make a woman feel good, safe, cherished etc. and drop the mistrust. Maybe you should drop the whole Men are this or that men should do this, men should do that. We are people, just the same. you seem biased based on gender........ If you cant see that, then i wonder at the integrity of your belief system. drop the gender bias. It's base thinking.....and does no one any good..stop attacking us. |
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"ask her what she’s passionate about in life" does sound a little like the result that you would get if you googled..... " what to say in online dating"
It sounds contrived, and also takes a lot of thought to answer. Too much like hard work. You'd do better with easy to answer questions. m8 |
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slip a few big beetles under the sheets and wait in the other room for a while.
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back off
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That I'm a hot mess
I reckon that's at least half right |
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I'll concur with that. Social and cultural conditioning dictates that you see it as a failure.
So glad I got divorced. After 25 years. People change, or sometimes not enough. We've only got this life we're living. Is staying in an unhappy or non fulfilling relationship for most of this life, really to be considered a success, and change a failure? |
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Deliscious
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like
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Video chats help, in my view. Photos are too often faked or heavily photoshopped.
Besides 2/3 of communication is non verbal. So yea, vid chats Why on earth not? Hiding something? |
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naughty
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Smexy
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stunning
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hello trouble
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Ask if she wants a cheese and pickled onion sandwich.
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drinking coffee, eating chocolate, groaning.
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food, coffee
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