I broke up with a guy and he had left a couple of CDs and DVDs here. He wanted to come get them. Mind you he had been being very rude with me. It was late at night and no one was around and my place is pretty safe so I double bagged them so no one could see what they were and tied them tight to the door knob and went to bed. He calls and calls and texts and texts calling me obscenities. Was there anything wrong with tying them to the door knob? I do it all the time with stuff for friends. Nothing has ever been stolen.

I had a picture up. But I got too many views from men who were just looking and too young for me. I have always got a date off of date sites but not this site, so I don't really need a photo here.
I've already met a very nice gentleman matched up from another site.

I'm also here for the tea (can't drink coffee)...along with chat, friendship (to start) ~ I must have missed the sign on the way in, “floor show cancelled, due to lack of participants” ..I keep putting myself out there, but nothing.!!?

Hmm. Maybe he find another. He didnt message me anymore, i didnt receive calls from him anymore. Its owkie for me.^-^

Its late in the evening, your leaving the grocery store. You come across a someone who has obviously been homeless for a couple of days. Would you open your home to them for a night?

... photos of their boat or their car or some other item as their only profile picture, rather than a photo of themselves. What's up with that?

If I wanted to date a car, I'd go to an auto show.

I am not a real woman either as I am none of the things but I really don't give a crap. I am a real person and that is all that matters; not what men think of me.

Amazing...no one has mentioned the changes in religion.
When I was young, everyone went to church on Sunday, these days I'm almost afraid to say that I'm going to church on Sunday for fear of the raised eyebrows and questioning looks.
Yes it's true that when your faith says you can't divorce, you look at marriage in a whole different light. It's a one shot deal so you gotta make it work. Problem with this is that those people who were caught in abusive relationships had no easy way out.
But now in just one generation, we've swung the other way where the out is so easy it's considered the norm. 'Oh...he's not working out? Get a divorce!' I'm hoping that the pendulum may swing the other way to a happy medium.

Why don’t marriages last for lifetimes anymore? Is one of the reasons because most women work and don’t have to rely on men for their support, so they are more independent minded? What are other reasons?

Nope, saying I wouldn't put a hook in ya...

I’m still trying to get my relationship thinking cap on right, and I’m hoping the rest of you already might have yours on tight. So… as this is a dating site, where personal connections are made in the midst of the competition that exists, what are we supposed to think, say, and/or do if our partners/significant others makes it clear to us that they respect and will remain friends with the men and/or women that we both know are our rivals, and have acted accordingly towards us, should our partners loyalty to our known rivals be questionable, even actionable, such as being a deal breaker for us?

Single i think.

nothing's changed here